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I cum way too fast

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cumstoofastguy

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It only takes me a minute or so to jerk off. as soon as i stick it in a woman i cum instantaneously... i cant even get 1 pump off. as im putting it in i explode. is very embarrassing :( i have to say i need a minute hold on and i will eat her pussy and put on a new rubber.


i have done those penis exercises but they dont help at all.. help me :(
 
Learn how to control your orgasm/ejaculation and I've heard that jerking off once before vaginal sex helps someone last longer.
 
To an extent, it's a problem that will lessen over time.. How long have you been having sex? The longer you're active, the less you'll be so-horny-you-can't-hold-it the second it starts..

One way to train yourself is when you're whacking off.. You say it only takes you a minute, but you're probably just going full-force until you blow. Don't do that. Go until you can tell an orgasm is coming on, then stop and let yourself cool down. Start again until you feel it coming on, then stop again and cool down. Do that a bunch and try to stretch out the time of your solo sessions as much as possible (after a bunch of near-orgasms the mental urge to finish will probably be too much.. it will also be much more satisfying which is always fun). As you get more practice with that, change the routine up so that instead of stopping completely, you just change your rhythm when you feel an orgasm coming on. When you're really comfortable with that, you'll be able to do the same thing during sex - feel when an orgasm is coming, slow down, keep your cool, and go longer.

And yea shooting one out an hour or two before sex doesn't hurt either.
 
think un-sexy thoughts. my personal favorites: concrete blocks grinding together, antique stores, tools or construction related things, papercuts, doing math in my head.

get a little tipsy first. or if you dont mind take opiates- i usaully come in like 10 minute from sex, if i use opiates i can go for 3+ hours.
 
I've got the opposite problem.. although now with great diet/excercise and the right mental stimulation (a good view haha) i can come 99% of the time without fail.. although very rarely under 5 minutes. It happens on occasion though if im super horny and dont take it slow. Fucking circumcision cut off my best parts i think. ALso, since i quit smoking cigs (only 3 days now) i've had huge morning erections, wheras before i rarely got them . So quit smoking will help your health all around. Try kegals in your case.

^lol at papercuts.
 
Yeah im super horney sometimes.. and have cummed super quick a couple of times, but generally my way of not cumming is simply dont think about 'my dick is in pussy right now' or any aspect of sex.. think how good of a day it is or how beutiful the girl is, dont think about the sex, just DO IT, dont THINK IT. I find i cum quick if i think about it.
 
This is only a short term thing but try out those condoms with desensitizing lubes in them. I used to have this problem bad and was always using oxys b4 sex so I could last sooo much longer. Now i dont really need them as im so much more experianced than b4 and not so nervous
 
I used to blow my load quickly. Just embarrassing. If I pop a vicodin 30 minutes before I bone, it's just money. Usually I can't even come. I don't care, I'd rather be getting my girl off anyways.
 
I would suggest gettigng a lil tipsy - do you smoke up??getting stoned works for me too, I can last about 3 times as long if I want if I've been blazing some herb.

I would also say practice wanking for longer and longer everytime...it could also be becuse you get too excited too quickly, and just blow, build it up more & more - stop watching so much porn.

I seen this fleshlight thing which looks like it would be really good practice, heard it's more realistic than having a wank.

Hope some of this sticks.
 
Smoking pot always slows things down for me. I'm also a lot better at going for round 2 when I'm stoned.
 
Smoking weed makes me cum quicker. I cum very quickly, under 5 minutes normally. I can keep it up easily afterward though so its never been an issue. What I have noticed to make me last longer is just don't focus on what your dick is feeling. Like someone else mentioned, think elsewhere, like papercuts. Lol
 
they make lots of things that you can pick up and sex shops that have numbing agents in them that you can put on your penis beforehand.
 
concrete blocks grinding together.... hooo man that one got me LOL!!

Pot increases all sensations, but almost especially tactile sensations... I wouldn't recommend it before having sex if your aim is to increase your longevity. I think the drug-related suggestions have some merit (opiates, benzos, etc.) but the healthiest thing to do would probably be to take the suggestions of those who offered advice along the lines of practicing self-control during masturbation.

It's definitely embarrassing as I've struggled with both extremes - cumming in literally 2 or 3 thrusts, or going for so long the lady says she's got no juices left to keep things running smoothly down there. The thing that helped me the MOST is simply having a lot of sex and becoming completely comfortable with everything. When I'm mentally comfortable I find I can exercise a lot more control over my body. Good luck :)

~ vaya
 
have you tried a therapist? They really know a lot about this stuff and can help you out with a few sessions.
 
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