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viagra experiences

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Hi all. Sorry for another viagra thread, I used the search and went through most of the results but they didn't really answer the questions I had. Plus a lot of them were about using viagra and mdma/speed/whatever together, this is related to using it as a way to get over performance anxiety.

I posted a thread a few days ago (http://www.bluelight.ru/vb/showthread.php?t=484667) about erection problems, so check there for background info. Long story short, I have a bad case of performance anxiety. I was the at the doctors today to get a general checkup, and he gave me a script for some viagra after I told him about my problem. I didn't actually go in there trying to get a script, but he was quick to offer so I figured why not. I wanted to get the opinions/experiences from you guys on the following:

1. Has anyone used viagra before to try and treat a case of performance anxiety? Were you successful?

2. Has it still worked after consuming small or large amounts of alcohol? I know it's not really recommended to have with alcohol and I don't plan on being heavily intoxicated while using it, but most likely will have had 2 or 3 drinks.

3. Quite a lot of stories I've read on various websites say it's helped prevent cases of premature ejaculation, and if anything it's made it almost too hard to come. This apparently stems from it becoming less sensitive during sex, which make sense. Is this the case in general?

4. I am debating whether or not to tell my next partner if I'm using it beforehand, I'm thinking I probably won't, and then tell her some time afterwards. I guess I could just see how I go without it at first and then have some if it's not happening, but my confidence is pretty shot in this department to the point I just know it isn't going to work (I know, bad mindset, very hard to change though). Ladies: what would you think if you were with someone for the first time and they told you later they had used viagra?

Well that's about I guess, any advice/experience would be appreciated.
 
1. Yes. It worked perfectly. I used it a handful of times, got over the hump, and didn't need it again after that.

2. I'm an alcohol lightweight, and for me it was one drink max. If you have a tolerance, you could have more, or if it's over the course of a whole night, but it's worth it to get only a little bit buzzed so that the V can work its best.

3. It makes me a little less sensitive. If you tend to come quickly, this is a benefit. If you can last a long time, it's a detriment. But it's not important at all compared to not having sex.

4. First off, it's going to work. This drug is a miracle drug for ED. Just take it an hour before you think you're going to have sex. Second, there's no reason to ever mention it to the woman. That has all downside and no upside. True intimacy does not require that you share everything.
 
@rhythm: I looked up yohimbe on erowid, seems like it may be a possibility. I think I'll try the viagra first though.

@johnny: thanks for the detailed reply. Ideally I'd like to only need it the first few times, hopefully I wouldn't come to depend on it, but even that would be better than my current situation. I guess the main reason I would tell my partner is because it would be difficult to keep it spontaneous if I was relying on a pill each time, but I can see your point that probably not much good would come from it. Any ladies have something to contribute about that?
 
Cialis may well be better for what you want to deal with than viagra. Cialis stays in your system longer than viagra, its a great deal more subtle and I feel it doesn't have the side effects as bad as viagra

Neither will help with Premature ejaculation if you suffer from that, if anything I have found I can cum quicker on it than when I'm not on it. however you will find your 'recovery' period will be greatly reduced and I do find that you can go much longer for your 2nd and 3rd goes.

Both of them work fine with alcohol, the good think about cialis is that you can take it before going out and you are ready whenever. Viagra can be better as you will only use it when you think you are going to be 'active' whereas you will probably waste a load of cialis on time you won't use it.

The is another kind, levitra, never tried it but its supposed to be an inbetweener.

You can always go for chewable tablets or sachets if you are concerned about effective times. I always use the extra time to effectiveness (about 1/2 hr I think) to make sure she is ready ;-)
 
Cialis may well be better for what you want to deal with than viagra. Cialis stays in your system longer than viagra, its a great deal more subtle and I feel it doesn't have the side effects as bad as viagra)

Totally agree with this. Even with a 25mg dose (quarter of a tablet) of Viagra, I found I could feel my head throbbing a bit because of the increased bow flow! God knows how 100mg would be like!

Cialis, on the other hand, didn't give me any such side-effects and worked very effectively over 3 days. As you say, it's very subtle and you do forgot you have taken it - which is a good thing if performance anxiety is a problem as you won't be 'reminded' that you have taken something.

Again, a quarter of a tablet had enough effect for what I needed it for, so whatever the OP decides to try, I would experiment with dosages - obviously starting off small and working their way up.
 
I used Viagra and 'go see alice/Cialis' a couple times when I was I with my last girlfriend. I was all messed up on benzos/speed/opiates so sometimes I would get a mental block. I would still be hard but the base of my dick it wouldnt stay extremely hard. Alot of it was brought on by drugs but there was a mental aspect of nerves. I would definitely tell her about taking it make a science project out of it. Maybe you will become more comfortable in the situation and you will see it is not needed.

Peace,
Seedless
 
Yeh I've heard a fair bit about Cialis too, and the idea of taking one pill and having a few days to work with sounds more appealing. I'm gonna experiment with a 25mg dose of the viagra by myself and see what happens, if the side effects seem like they would be too obvious to a partner that I'm trying to hide it from then I might try getting Cialis instead.

Neither will help with Premature ejaculation if you suffer from that, if anything I have found I can cum quicker on it than when I'm not on it. however you will find your 'recovery' period will be greatly reduced and I do find that you can go much longer for your 2nd and 3rd goes.

So masturbating at some point during the day would probably help with extending the first time then? How long is an average recovery period?
 
Viagra lasts for 4 hours.

Cialis lasts for 36 hours.

That's why I ALWAYS use Cialis.

Because who knows when I'll have the next opportunity

To masturbate?
 
Because I like to do mdma now and then and I can rarely get it up afterwards I asked my doctor to give me Viagra.
I found that even if I took a close to heroic dose of Viagra it had little effect apart from turning my lips blue.
I went back to the doctor who recommended Cialis
Cialis is a different experience altogther .
Experiments show that I can get a handsome stiffy during the come up and during the come down and that I'm even capable of repeat performances during the roll.
For me 50 mg Cialis pill is sufficient, at higher doses side effects start to predominate and these include painful muscular stiffness, particularly in the back.
I find the beneficial effects of Cialis definitely persist for up to 2 days after taking.
Wa hey!
 
Something I only ever used whilst drunk and having one nighters. Not a good combo, but it really just made me 'normal'.

Agreed though, Cialis is far better.

Now that I've more or less quit the booze and benzos full-time though, I really have no need.

I'd also mention that Yohimbe is something to take utmost care in taking. The dose/response curve is crazy. Very easy to have OD like symptoms. Especially not something to use with stims. I can't recall if it works as an MAOI, but I recall trying it after stims/MDMA/silly 'legal' pills, and it just made me extremely sick and nauseus for six hours. Also killed my mind. Felt like poison. It does smell nice though! A bit like chocolate.
 
Well, I had the opportunity to test the viagra for myself last night, with a female :) Not ideal conditions as we were both pretty drunk. I didn't tell her I took it, I started with one of the 50mg pills as I figured I would need more because of the alcohol, and then probably unnecessarily had another 50mg about half an hour after that. Fooled around with each other for a while and I was able to get a good enough erection which would never have happened in that state normally. It wasn't absolutely rock-hard like some of the stories I have heard but still a big improvement. We started having sex in the lounge room and then realised her sister could walk out of her room at any moment so moved it to the bedroom, but then just both ended up pretty much passing out.

Round 2 was better, I woke up around 3am (4 or 5 hours after taking the pills) and had sobered up a bit, found I was able to get an erection easily and gently woke up my partner who had also sobered up a bit. Fooled around briefly, went down on her and got her off, she returned the favour orally for a bit before we moved on to sex. Sensitivity was slightly decreased, I found I was able to last longer than usual without having to stop for breaks like I usually would, although I'm sure the condom and alcohol played a part in that. Also I didn't lose my erection the whole time (probably only 20-30 mins altogether though), this is a big improvement for me.

So in summary, this was a positive experience and the viagra definitely helped. I need to experiment further with less or even no alcohol, and a lower dose. I didn't notice any side effects except for a headache this morning but I'm not sure how much of that was alochol related. I'm going to ask for Cialis next time I see my doctor because even though I got away with timing the pills last night, it would be a lot better to take it before I go anywhere and then not have to worry about it. I'm thinking I'll probably need at least a few more sessions using viagra or cialis to get my confidence up further, but this was a good start!
 
I've been getting spam emails for Viagra with the email address I use for Bluelight. If I marked it as spam, I wouldn't get emails for that address:

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^^^ Note how they made it look like I sent it to myself . . . they hijacked my email address.
 
As a young lady I would be somewhat turned off if a man told me he was on Viagra. Of course, that depends on the man. If he is a young guy taking Viagra then yea thats a turn-off. But if he is an older man (40+) then I wouldn't mind.
 
As a young lady I would be somewhat turned off if a man told me he was on Viagra. Of course, that depends on the man. If he is a young guy taking Viagra then yea thats a turn-off. But if he is an older man (40+) then I wouldn't mind.

Thanks, was hoping to get some female opinions on this. I would guess most younger ladies would feel the same way and I can understand it. I'd appreciate it any other ladies can add their opinions?

I had another opportunity to test it last night and while we didn't end up having sex it still worked pretty well, but yet again I was drunk after a night out. Only had one 50mg pill this time and I'm pretty sure that would have been enough if we did have sex. Definitely going to try and get some Cialis when I see the doc next week. Hopefully I can keep lowering the dose each time and get a point where I don't need it at all, but having to hide the fact I'm using it and having good sex is a hell of a lot better than the alternative of not being able to perform and the embarrassment that goes with it!
 
I've tried it in a recreational sense and it basically gave me a hard on like concrete for a few hours.
 
Just a quick update and some more questions:

Went to doctor today and got a script for Cialis 20mg. Should get a chance to test it out this weekend, just wondering more about dosage than anything else, and I guess asking the same questions as in my OP but related to Cialis. Sounds like it may be better than viagra from what I've read so far, viagra worked pretty well so hopefully that's true!
 
Cialis works for ages (48 hours) compared to Viagra. I've had side-effects on Cialis, a very light headache round-the-clock, and it also gives me insomnia. I tried yohimbe when nothing else was available, my dad as well, it never worked. There are some interesting chemicals in the pipeline, chemicals that make men and women (!!) horny, not just chemicals that give you a boner. One is bremelanotide. It was killed by the FDA though.
 
Because I like to do mdma now and then and I can rarely get it up afterwards I asked my doctor to give me Viagra.
I found that even if I took a close to heroic dose of Viagra it had little effect apart from turning my lips blue.
I went back to the doctor who recommended Cialis
Cialis is a different experience altogther .
Experiments show that I can get a handsome stiffy during the come up and during the come down and that I'm even capable of repeat performances during the roll.
For me 50 mg Cialis pill is sufficient, at higher doses side effects start to predominate and these include painful muscular stiffness, particularly in the back.
I find the beneficial effects of Cialis definitely persist for up to 2 days after taking.
Wa hey!

50mg! wtf?

You sure you dont mean 20mg?, as i thought 20mg was right at the top of the recc dose ladder?

Big up for Cialis here - and as others have said the recovery time can be as little as 15 mins (which is prolly less than when i was like 16?)
 
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