No I don't think it goes the other way, in my experience, I've never turned down a sexual request/kink from a woman. In fact I got sick of having to tease it out of them. I can only post my own experience.
There is no moral equivalance here for a few reasons:
1) Sticking an inanimate object up a guy's ass brings a woman no pleasure, she has no nerve endings in a dildo or cucumber.
2) What happens when you break up? and you will break up.....the female is seen as sexually experienced for taking it up the ass, whereas he is seen as less than a man and is ridiculed.
3) Her motivation for doing it is simply to humiliate him or to "get" him back.
4) Do you really want to date a guy that takes it up the ass? What would you tell your girlfriends and what would their reaction be? How will he be perceived once everyone on your circle of friends knows?
But that's my argument, men aren't allowed to have sexual boundaries. It's unacceptable for a man to refuse something, you've just proven my point.
Where are these girls? and how much begging is required, is it worth it? I need to find one of these girls or on second thoughts.....
I've only had anal sex with one girl and she asked me if I wanted to try it, to which I responded "don't do it just for me, do it because you want too" and she said she wanted too and we did it on ocassions.
I still have plenty of things I'd love to try for the first time with the right partner, so far I seem to find good girls that have hang ups in the bedroom and I tend to break up with them once I find out we aren't sexually compatible (once again there is a double standard for using this as a breakup reason, men can't do it without paying a price as you will no doubt chide me for doing this), begging is a useless proposition, as doing it without sincerity is no fun either. It has to come from the heart. Everyone has different expectations in the bedroom and finding someone that is on your spectrum of kinks is half the battle. Don't bother trying to change someone, just move on and keep looking for that special girl that has a twinkle in her eye.
There is no moral equivalance here for a few reasons:
1) Sticking an inanimate object up a guy's ass brings a woman no pleasure, she has no nerve endings in a dildo or cucumber.
2) What happens when you break up? and you will break up.....the female is seen as sexually experienced for taking it up the ass, whereas he is seen as less than a man and is ridiculed.
3) Her motivation for doing it is simply to humiliate him or to "get" him back.
4) Do you really want to date a guy that takes it up the ass? What would you tell your girlfriends and what would their reaction be? How will he be perceived once everyone on your circle of friends knows?
But that's my argument, men aren't allowed to have sexual boundaries. It's unacceptable for a man to refuse something, you've just proven my point.
Where are these girls? and how much begging is required, is it worth it? I need to find one of these girls or on second thoughts.....
I've only had anal sex with one girl and she asked me if I wanted to try it, to which I responded "don't do it just for me, do it because you want too" and she said she wanted too and we did it on ocassions.
I still have plenty of things I'd love to try for the first time with the right partner, so far I seem to find good girls that have hang ups in the bedroom and I tend to break up with them once I find out we aren't sexually compatible (once again there is a double standard for using this as a breakup reason, men can't do it without paying a price as you will no doubt chide me for doing this), begging is a useless proposition, as doing it without sincerity is no fun either. It has to come from the heart. Everyone has different expectations in the bedroom and finding someone that is on your spectrum of kinks is half the battle. Don't bother trying to change someone, just move on and keep looking for that special girl that has a twinkle in her eye.
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