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Size: does it matter? & Great sex and penis size.

I read an interesting idea in SLR a few months ago, don't know where to find it again..

Someone said that it wasn't necessarily the size but 'the fit' that matters. I think that idea makes sense. So forget her and her porn-infused Westernized views on dick size.
 
In all likelyhood she wastrying to hurt you before the break up, hence attacking your penis size. How did she respond during intercourse prior to the split? I think that's a much better barometer of sexual satisfaction delivery (at least in her case) than a purposefully malicious comment made in haste. Sexual satisfaction/attraction is about much more than the size of one's member anyway.
 
How big is it? I think the average is like 5-6 in. erect.

I've heard girth is more important than length.

Your ex is cruel. I'm sure you'll find someone who likes your size. Just make sure to give her good oral.
 
As mentioned above...

Society places a lot of focus on the size of a man's penis but none of the size of a woman's vagina. Some women have huge vaginas and some have extremely small vaginas. What feels good to a woman in terms of size will vary as much as what people like in terms of personality.

Also, every woman in the world uses the "you have a small penis!" attack when breaking up with a guy. They feel that is the most hurtful thing they can possibly say and apparently it works on a lot of guys.
 
you know how it goes bro ~

its not the size of the boat, but the motion in the ocean ~
 
Kul69 said:
Also, every woman in the world uses the "you have a small penis!" attack when breaking up with a guy. They feel that is the most hurtful thing they can possibly say and apparently it works on a lot of guys.
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Wow - every woman you say? So you have dated every woman in the world to have it confirmed that they all say that? I don't think so.

I can confidently say I have never ever in my LIFE stooped as low to ever say that to a guy, and i am sure there are many many women just the same. I am sure i am not a 1 in a million!
 
Being too big has its downfalls too. A few years ago I was pretty much in love with this girl, and when we finally had sex it hurt her too much and she stopped me. I never heard from her after that night and I was depressed for months. Not to mention I'll never be able to have anal sex with a girl, which has always been a fantasy of mine.

And like someone else said, some women have abnormally large vaginas. So my honest advice to you would be to meet a nice south american or asian girl, or anyone with a very small frame. Its all about proportion. And size isnt everything, when you meet a girl who truly loves you, it wont even matter dude. Ive heard that going down on women helps too.

-Tom
 
Kul69 said:
Also, every woman in the world uses the "you have a small penis!" attack when breaking up with a guy.
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hahahahaHAAAAA!!! unfortunately, I'm afraid that may just be what you have experienced. I wonder why...

that's some funny shit right there.

and OP: consider this a cheap lesson... that this bitch isn't worth your time.
 
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drugfukkdrockstar said:
Wow - every woman you say? So you have dated every woman in the world to have it confirmed that they all say that? I don't think so.

I can confidently say I have never ever in my LIFE stooped as low to ever say that to a guy, and i am sure there are many many women just the same. I am sure i am not a 1 in a million!
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QFT

I definitely haven't and wouldn't stoop to the level of saying something so nasty either. In fact, if I had such a problem with the size of a mans penis, and it did nothing for me, then I wouldn't go out with him in the first place. There is no way I'd stay in a relationship with someone I found completely sexually unsatisfied with.

To me, it does sound like she was just intentionally trying to hurt you, and congratulation to her, she has. 8)

Some people can act like complete jerks when you break up - I guess I'm lucky my ex isn't one of them and neither am I. Honestly, no matter what age some people are, when they break up, you'd think they were teenagers again. Incredibly lame and definitely lacks dignity.
 
look babe just post a picture of it for us all and we can tell you if its actually small or not.

but yeahh listen to Kul69 if i had a shitty break up or any sort of one and i needed a good line, i so would say well you have a tiny dick! just to be a bitch. =]
 
I have heard/read in many places that size isnt really a big factor. A lot of times a small penis will fit better and also not go to deep inside a woman to where it can hit the pelvis bone. Another thing was that a smaller penis is more rigid because it requires less blood to fill, so it actually allows the penis to get mich harder than a big one. Also if you have a good shaped very mushroomed head, that plays a big role in pleasing a woman. Ill admit mine isnt all that big, but I know how to use it and it gets hard as a fucking rock. Its also got a very defined head and when I have sex, I drive women absolutley insane. So fuck what the bitch has to say man. And sorry to the guys for gettin so in-depth about my member haha..I was just stating some facts I heard from sex experts. 8)
 
my dick is not huge, but i make up for that with my rock hard raging dope dick. i can fuck for several hours, and more than satisfy a woman. i dont come, but that never bothers me. im just happy that im fuckin and fuckin well. gotta love opiates.
 
sorry guys

ive just realised how refreshing it is to actually have a shower.

I dont know why but since having a shower ive gone from negative to slightly positive.

Hey thats prozac for you... sometimes you feel like a nut... sometimes you dont!
 
It would be nice to see more women posting in here, what we have at the moment is a bunch of guys saying that size doesn't matter; which isn't totally relevant ;).

However, I'll agree that: she said this when you were breaking up: people say hurtful things at those times, both men and women. Saying someone is crap in bed or has a small dick is a very, very easy way to hurt them. So it gets used a lot. Men probably use 'God you're ugly' or fat or something like that.

I'll agree with the issue of compatability: the Indians get this, they use animal metaphors for both penis and vagina, and say that they have to be matched, in order to achieve satisfaction - it's not so much 'the man has to be big', but 'they have to be compatible'. Which seems to make sense.

Most women are going to get off from clitoral stimulation anyway; so even if you have a small penis, you can compensate by getting really good at oral or using your fingers.

[Again, would love to have some women comment either on the general question or the specific situation :)]
 
It does matter to an extent. But that having being said, I do NOT want some 10 inch thick motherfucker coming toward me, that is even worse than being small. Being small CAN be a put off, but only if it's really, really small. I think she is just using it to get back @ you. Focus your attention on pleasing her first, by that time she won't even notice/care about the size.
 
I've had a few of my fuck buddies that were female say some diminutive things about my guy. They weren't complaining before.

My male ex--built like Jeff Stryker--also liked to do the same when he was being shitty/abusive.

It really is more about hitting you where it hurts psychologically.

:)
 
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