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The Gay and Bisexual Men's Anal Sex Poll

Buttsex, anyone?

  • I identify as gay and I enjoy anal sex

    Votes: 54 27.0%
  • I identify as gay and I do not enjoy anal sex

    Votes: 12 6.0%
  • I identify as gay - no preference

    Votes: 5 2.5%
  • I identify as bisexual and I enjoy anal sex

    Votes: 61 30.5%
  • I identify as bisexual and I do not enjoy anal sex

    Votes: 12 6.0%
  • I identify as bisexual - no preference

    Votes: 17 8.5%
  • Other - I am posting my response below

    Votes: 39 19.5%

  • Total voters
    200
Bi male, and I like it very much. When I was younger I used to like topping more, but these days I like bottoming more. On E there's nothing more pleasurable for a male than being fucked that I've come across in quite a lot of experience.

I've also done it to several "straight" guys. I suppose people will say that makes them bi, but these were people who had no emotional attraction to other males, they were just horny and discovered sticking things up there was fun. Since I was experienced at doing that kind of thing I helped them out. Usually more than once. ;)

For those who say it hurts, it varies a lot. Shape matters more than size, and toys/fingers tend to hurt more than the real thing. There's also a reasonable amount of mental state and relaxation training involved. You need to learn how to convince the involuntary sphincter muscles to relax when you're aroused, which does take a bit of practice for most people. You might wanna try something that distracts from it like poppers or ecstasy or whatever your drug of choice is, it can help with getting used to it, and it's worth it.

The guys who haven't tried it, you're missing out on a lot. If nothing else, get a small toy and try it yourself alone sometime. They sell ones specifically designed to hit the prostate these days, not hard to find. Oh and get real lube, KY and other water based stuff is crap.

As for the unpleasant possible side effects, that's usually a matter of having good hygene. At least it washes off, and you should always remember to pee afterwards to flush the urethra or you're asking for real trouble!
 
Gldm said:
I suppose people will say that makes them bi, but these were people who had no emotional attraction to other males, they were just horny and discovered sticking things up there was fun. Since I was experienced at doing that kind of thing I helped them out. Usually more than once. ;)

Well... I'm one that has zero emotional or physical attraction to men. But I consider myself bi because I love recieving anal, and love giving head. I do not enjoy giving anal to a man, but love giving anal to a woman. Likewise I do not enjoy recieving head from a man, but love recieving head from a woman. I don't believe emotional/physical attraction is required to be "bi", just an ability to enjoy sex with both sexes.

Gldm said:
The guys who haven't tried it, you're missing out on a lot. If nothing else, get a small toy and try it yourself alone sometime. They sell ones specifically designed to hit the prostate these days, not hard to find.

Absolutely! Incredible experience... I haven't found any prostrate toys to be worth a crap though. However, a woman's g-spot vibrator works perfectly!
 
I am a red blooded sexual male and enjoy my male-female anal sex experiences!

I love the thought of my girlfriend blasting me in the ass you need more options!!!
 
liquidphil1 said:
in my own experimentation as i am an anal virgin i lost my erection when something was places in my anal cavity. i was also on drugs back then. To me i would try both giving and recieving if the time and place felt right. it just doesnt seem that important anymore really. I do however really enjoy giving oral sex while im not the most fond of recieving it.

I know many gay guys, myself included, who lose their erection at even the thought of an inordinately large penis going into a relatively small hole, with or without drugs :|

I find it unusual the way there is so much emphasis on anal sex just because someone is gay. I know with my last boyfriend, i eventually admitted i didn't like it, and apparently he found it hard to 'connect.' And even though the sex was still good (albeit without anal), it ended pretty soon after.
 
jgoshow... I cant see you comment as it has been rightfully deleted but from the follow up post it would appear you took the piss out of homo-sexuality with the bible. I would just like to say BIG MISTAKE!! The bible is wrong and full of lies! I have been to church and read quite a lot of that book and all full of shit. For starter is not writen by God at all its writen by man an thus is not the acctual word of god at all! Secondaly any book that can be the caurse of so much conflict throughout history is clearly not a book of peace and love but it is about controle! (pls tell me you not an evagelical ARSE from the states cos then you even less of a leg to stand on!)

Mods- sorry for going off topic and if this is OTT then sorry and pls delet but I cant stand people that know nothing about the bible and try to push it onto others!
 
^don't feed the troll!

Wow, I just took a look at this poll for the first time in awhile - more bisexuals than gays like the buttsex! I guess bisexuals ARE hornier. =D
 
^ i noticed exactly the same thing recently.

those filthy bisexuals (yes, New, that means you ;))...
 
The poll results just confirms (to me) what I have always believed- Gay means you emotionally love the same sex... Bi means you love sex with both sexes =D
 
I'm of the opinion that there are two types of bi. Type I bi = people who can love either sex, and are usually with one at a time, like serial monogamy. Type II bi = seperate independant sex drives, and usually are unhappy in an exclusive relationship because one drive always goes hungry. I happen to fall into the latter category, but most people who tell me they're bi seem to fall in the first one.
 
NewName said:
The poll results just confirms (to me) what I have always believed- Gay means you emotionally love the same sex... Bi means you love sex with both sexes =D

Sorry I've been in love with both sexes. So what does that make me, New?
 
Bisexual male, down for anything. No real preferance.

Gldm said:
I'm of the opinion that there are two types of bi. Type I bi = people who can love either sex, and are usually with one at a time, like serial monogamy. Type II bi = seperate independant sex drives, and usually are unhappy in an exclusive relationship because one drive always goes hungry. I happen to fall into the latter category, but most people who tell me they're bi seem to fall in the first one.

100% dead-on-balls accurate. Although I've never heard it called type I vs. type II. In that case I'd be type II.
 
Newname wrote:
Absolutely! Incredible experience... I haven't found any prostrate toys to be worth a crap though. However, a woman's g-spot vibrator works perfectly!

The best of the smaller vibrating toys I've tried is called the "Gerbil". It's really a bullet vibrator mounted on a flexible stick. For best results lie down with your legs open and let somebody else move the toy slowly up and down your rectum and beyond. Leave your dick alone and take a hit on the poppers when you feel ready.
 
ass sex, like most forms of intimacy, happens on a curve. Most 10 year olds gross out at kissing someone of the opposite sex, much less having genital interourse...that goes away over time and, due to social conditioning, usually well before the opportunity to experience it comes along.

Anal sex (and all the oddities that accompany it from pain to poo) is the same way. With some notable exceptions, most guys I know who practice anal sex (passive or active) did not start out to be big fans of it. I know I sure didn't. But it grows on you to some extent or another, depending on your own unique sexuality.

Sexually explicit images and words can help this process along as well. This is why many men would crave fucking a woman's ass ("I'll let you put it anywhere you want" from Cruel Intentions) when to query them on their independent reaction to introducing their cock to someone's shitpipe might produce a gross reaction. Porn these days condition men to see the "hotness" in a girl who takes in both holes, and a certain accomplishment to being the guy to do it.

Similarly, many gay/bisexual men such as myself began to open up more to the idea of butt sex by watching incredibly hot images of men with rock hard dicks shooting loads of cum without touching themselves while in obvious throws of pain-laced ecstacy from being pounded by some porn-stud's huge cock. You watch enough of that, pretty soon you start to stiffen up to it, then you start to fastforward through all the groping and blowjobs to get to it, then soon enough you're fantasizing about doing it or having it done to you. After that, its just a matter of time before you exhaust sticking every household item you find to be reasonably safe up your ass and you need to move on to the real thing.

All that to say, ass sex is great. But its kind of like being abducted by an UFO, everyone who hasn't had the experience thinks your a bit nuts when you try to describe it.
 
I'm not sure so much as if I identify at all but I do play bottom most of the time since it seems most guys prefer to top. I've become used to it and tough so it doesn't bother me and I can find it pleasurable.
 
This past Saturday, me and my wife rolled on E. And as usual we spent the entire time having sex. My wife has developed a really great way of massaging my prostate with her fingers that just gives me wave after wave of orgasmic feeling. Sometimes a small amount of cum will trickle out, but usually it is just the incredible feeling. She also fucks me with a strap on, which feels great, but normally doesn't make me cum, I just enjoy it. However on Saturday, we were well into our roll and she had been fucking me for quite some time. We decided to try a different position (I won't even attempt to describe the position as it was too complicated), but the INSTANT she put the strap on in me, I shot cum- not a trickle, but cum shot out my cock. She pulled the strap on out, put it back in, and again a large load of cum shot out. She tried a 3rd time, same reaction. After the 3rd time, nothing else happend- I supposed I was drained at that point. But wow! All 3 times were just super intense orgasms, and the cum shot out like 2 feet.
 
Talk about leaving us hanging on a thread!!!11!

What was the position above ^^?
 
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