i just wanted to intoduce myself, the mother of gillywin. friday 28th is her 22nd birthday, and i was just relooking at the site, and saw a few of her bluelight friends had been thinking of her, time is passing, and though a very sad time in my life, its very comforting to read her stuff on here, and how others helped her in many ways. i have taken photos of her grave site, but they are still in the camera, i will download them soon. i would like to take the oportunity to thank all the bluelighters, for all the condolences and words they expressed to gilly in life and death. she was a much loved girl. we all miss her so much! words can not express our grief. this site has made a great impact, and i am very glad she was so well admired, and that her memory lives on. the fact all her thoughts are kept, is amazing, i just thought today was a good day to actually be able to say something myself. many thanks to all who knew her in mind and body. gillian was a fantastic girl, a brilliant mind, but also a troubled mind. we give thanks for the time we had her in our lives, the great times outweigh the few bad. she brought great joy and happiness to a lot of people.....gillywinmum