*sex love and relationships*
One night after a big night out i was laying in bed fooling around with my girlfriend who id only been dating for 5 weeks when she said to me out of the blue "i want you to have anal sex with me". This came as a major surprise to me as this girls 19 and was a virgin when i met her, yet she seems quite keen on the idea. Id never mentioned anything about anal to her ever before.
I was pretty excited about the prospect because well... she bought it up and i cant imaging meeting many girls who are keen on the idea in the future so its an oppertunity i may not get again.
I figured it wasn't a good idea to attempt it at the time without the proper lubricant etc. Also if i hurt her heaps she may give up on the idea and that would be unfortunate.
Few days later i was getting her worked up with oral sex and my fingers and she was begging me to fuck her but i just kept teasing her. Eventualy she said "if you wont fuck me will you do me anal". after getting out 2 small packets of lube we decided to just have conventional sex.
Now im pretty keen on the idea as its somthing new and hey its too good an oppertunity to turn down.
I relize anal foreplay is probly necisary to get her relaxed and whatnot but im not exactly too keen on fingering her anus.... Anal sex with a condom sounds fine enough.
Can anyone give me pointers etc on what i should do and the best way to go about it.
Basicaly im just thinking buying proper anal lube and using a condom with alot of lubricant and slowly going at it.
hints tips advice please.