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Australian GLBTI Bluelighters thread. Come outa the closet!

streetsurfer

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Australian GLBTI open minded, curious, Bluelighters thread. Come outa the closet!

I know ur all out there lurking.

Where are you at, whats ur story? Who is going to Sleaze and Toybox and who is boycotting the gay events for parklife and the like?

I have done the gay events for the past couple of years and think I will be checking out parklife this year although riding rollercosters while rolling (ha) at luna park I think would be awesome.

Personally I am very much a non scene guy and I find it hard to meet with others without going to hook up websites or gay clubs and having to endure the sucky music (but hey if thats what floats ur boat, I'm headin to the shift tonight!).

What do you think of the scene in ur area of australia and how does it compare to others? Blurt any shit out, we need a thread of our own!

=D
 
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For the people that may not know what GLBTI stands for; GLBTI = Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex.

Acronyms shit me. :p;)
 
would you believe I even actually know what 'intersex' means, too? ;P
 
...um, I am totally lost on intersex, eh.

However, I am like Aus Social's pet faggot, so nice to hear from ya streetsurfer...I hate the gay scene like it killed my children, but I do love the sex with men part a lot.

As you can imagine, this leads to some difficulties: I generally much prefer to hang out with straight people, but that means relationships are a bit harder to come by. meh, whatever...that's why God invented sex on premises venues.... :p ;)
 
Fuck the gay scene. Pisses me right the fuck off.

However like Raz, I definitely like the sex with men bit. A lot. In fact as regularly as possible would be good.

I hate Sleaze and the Mardi Gras party. It shits me more than the scene in general. Too many people that are so fucking full of themselves on waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too many drugs. I can't stand useless people, and useless people are ridiculously prevalent in the gay scene in Sydney.

Well that's more than enough of an anti-scene rant for now ;)

Regarding parklife, I thought about going but then decided not to. It could be really good, or it could shit me just as much as Sleaze would as useless posturing people are DEFINITELY not only found in the gay scene... I mean come on... trucker hats?? Please :\

Yes I'm in a ranting mood. That happens. Fuck I need sex :(

Ah bollocks.

CB =D
 
I knew bluelighters would feel the same as me, may this thread never die! Yeah I wrote gay and Lesbian at first then thought I would be ubercool AND politically correct And confuse everyone in one go. Ha!

Yeah, the gay scene is very lame but I have found myself drawn away from my str8 mates towards my gay mates and subsequently that scene simply because I just feel so much more accepted in that crowd. So many str8 people are oh so fine with homosexuality till its put in thier face (you kiss a guy for example) then their real feelings show. I kinda feel that you have to conform to their standards u know?

In any case maybe its just that the friends I had were pretentious wanka's and thatn isn't ur experience...... would be interested to hear.

Yeah, sleaze is shit, mostly just going to parklife to socialise and because I get to be fucked up on drugs outdoors during the day. 8(
 
I've always found gay clubs (haven't been to an 'event') really good fun. Not that I've been to one for.... oh, a good 10 years or so... but at uni we used to go to the Peel and so on quite regularly and I loved it. Kissing boys didn't bother me one iota. I really loved chatting to everyone, and found it a great crowd to hang with

I can see how the pompousness of *some* people *could* get a touch annoying however, especially amidst the hype of a huge 'festival-type' atmosphere. And there is only so much shiny fabric and feather boas one can handle seeing without having epileptic seizures. ;) j/k
 
^^

I agree...

I hate fags. They piss me off.

However if they don't talk, I'll happily have sex with them ;)

CB =D
 
^^^ heh heh heh =D

I have been out of Australia for about 8 months now, so i don't know whether i should really be commenting here or not. :) I never really got into the gay scene in Sydney, although i did really enjoy the gay scene in Melbourne when i was living in Aus. SOmething seemed more real in Melbourne... although that could just have been the people i was hanging out with at the time.

I generally have found that anytime when there is a "scene" there are arrogant people who like to think they are better than everyone else... be it the goth scene, party scene, or the gay scene. I never really followed any of those scenes for the same reasons mentioned above...
 
Everything is more real in Melbourne.

I fuck chicks, but I would NEVER ever want a relationship with one.
 
my lil rant

*to paraphrase the most obvious scene-whore source this side of anywhere; “just cause i fuck girls, doesn’t make me a part of any community…”

i haven't been out socializing in melbourne's lesbian scene for a while, yep, like that one bar :p my rant i guess is, is aimed squarely at that one bar, which makes me pretty non-scene; my reasons being i don’t drink etc and the second reason; i hate the crowd; i hate this gossip trail among the girls; i mean, who really gives a sh*t who's shaved or not? which girl is a slut?

(which, considering the present moral standards of the word, is just about anyone with a pulse)...

i don't mind idle gossip (like “hmm... linsay lohan is starting to looking hungry these days...” etc); i love a good conversation, but sometimes things are purely sacred; and lesbians cross the line so many times.

not a huge fan of the gay boys; i've meet some bitches of gay boys... (i’ve also meet some very awesome ones, so, that equals it out..) but some gay guys can be extremely rank; i know a lot who are such backstabbers, who says a lot of shit behind you’re back – and camp it up in front of your face. (one especially i know; camps it up for no real reason... jack from will and grace camp it up, with the nasal accent to boot, for fucksakes, you're jeffy... you’re from melton! u sound like bray from comedy inc. deal with it, jeez... )

my last thing; drag queens... hate drag queens; tall and evil... why do they have to be so mean to everyone? i know it's part of the act but, i don't like accepting that; how is that entertainment?... nicole richie was ditsy/nice-mean, patsy was drunken mean... drag queens are just MEAN :X

*btw - all this is hugely effected by the fact, i got verbally abused by this prominent transsexual M2F fucker… so, im pretty fucking angry still at how she treated me; even though, i didn't even report her to the higher ranks at my work place…under the stupid concept of “not hurting one of my own” (not hurting someone who’s also part of the queer community; im not a transsexual etc) - even though i could have, and should have... AND she hasn't pony-ed up an apology…

*exhales*
 
the monash queer collective is the best reason to skip class ever ;D
this is us dressed up 70s/glam rock style for one of our Themed Thursdays.
i'm in the green tights :p

glam9ts.jpg
 
It is good to hear my fellow queer bluelighters echoing the same sentiments that i frequently get on my soapbox about. And i am going to make a sweeping generalisation here and say i feel even more sorry for myself given that I live in Brisbane (EEEKKK8o ) and trying to find a laid back gay guy whose life does not revolve around bubble pop music and the hideous gay scene is harder than finding a needle in a haystack.

For example, i went to this queer night the other night at this club which plays fantastic music and is really chilled out and, i kid you not, the crowd swelled to a whole 12 people, and that includes the 4 bar staff working. At least there was no waiting for a drink:\

IMO, the worst thing about the scene, especially in a smaller, more conservative city like BrisVegas is that the scene, ie clubs, is the only centalised place to meet 'my people', and yet the people that i want to meet are never going to be at hideous gay clubs such as The Beat et al.

As i frequently tell people, i would be homophobic if i wasn't gay

=D
 
^^

There is seriously a Gay Club called The Beat??

C'mon... can you be ANY more obvious??

sigh...
 
^ the beat MEGACLUB! is it's full and proper title ;)

funny part is that the downstairs is not gay...though there are often a few "curious" drifters finding their way upstairs ;)

harks back to the "do pills give you the gays" thread :)

(oh - brisbane is not known for it's subtlety either - the equivalent lesbian club is called "options" 8))
 
I am definately not a homophobic person. What somebody likes to do sexually really is none of my business and I really have no right to judge or critisize. I have been to conny's in Northbridge a couple of times with mate ( who by the way isn't gay either, he's just one of those people who lives in Northbridge and knows every bouncer and bartender there, good for getting in to clubs for free without waiting and getting half priced drinks :) ) and found it to actually be a cool club to just have fun in. I find alot of other normal clubs to have a certain threatening element to them, whether it be the extremely drunk yobos or the steroid pumped losers looking to bash someone. I found the people in conny's to be really friendly. I accidently bumped a very large strong looking guy on the fringe of the dance floor and spilt his drink on him too which I appologised profusely, he was really cool about it and told me not to worry about it. Definately not the response I would usually get at a straight bar. I would have to say that going to the urinal was a bit awkward though, alot of people just standing around in there, and I think the guy next to me was trying to look at my tackle. All in all I thought it was okay. I did have to tell some people I got talking to that I wasn't gay, only because some people where a little on the touchy side and I did get asked by a guy who was probibly about 60 if I would like to go with him somewhere where it was quieter. But I definately have to say that I dont really like the ULTRA GAY people. It almost seems if there acting sometimes. Putting on the mega queer voice and body manarism's I find a little over the top. But then again it only annoys me because I think there faking it. Maybe someone here can put a little light on the subject for me, why are people who are gay and dont look or act like a flaming poof get called "straight acting"? are you actually acting different then what you are?. I just think MEGA GAY types and drag queens are a little over the top. And I dont like the whole " IM GAY ACCEPT IT" attidude you sometimes get, I really dont care what you get up to in the sack. I certainly dont go around to gay people and tell them how heterosexual I am and how they must accept that, I mean who really cares? Why I say this is because at the end of the night me and my friend where back at some of these gay guys house having a few cones and just chilling when I got offered a slice of pizza by one of the gay guys, I said "no thankyou" because I was coming down off a couple of E's and probibly wouldn't be hungry for about another 12 hours. But he was like "why dont you want the pizza? is it because Im gay?......what the hells that supposed to mean? But anyway Im rambling now. In conclusion, gay people are normal cool people, gay clubs are fun, I dont like flaming poofs and I found there was alot of straight and bi chicks in conny's too.
 
Yeah dude, gay guys can be fuckin idiots too. I would say he was probebly keen on u ;)

I'm a really str8 acting gay guy and I used to get all uppity about queeny guys but then I realised that as with any over the top persona, it is just a face people put on to cover their insecuritys, same as some guys act tough, drive skylines, glorify their drug use or womanising, and chicks act like bimbo's or little girls or overly assertive etc etc.... its all just so much shit and we are all guilty of it to a degree.

That said, some guys pull it off better than others, some feel compelled to act like the biggest fairy possibble, others just have this total campness and dry wit that is just them and can be extreamly funny/witty way to interact with the world.

It is not so much the gayness (ha) it is how they come accross and the person behind it.
 
ah yes.. one of my friends came out last year, and from that moment on became (yep, overnight) the most incredibly camp little thing you've ever seen :p

every seond line seemed to be (well, WAS) "yes, I'm gay darling", just to remind us all... :p (got to the point where i'd just be like 'argh! dude, we KNOW!')
 
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