Well, I just saw this thread and decided to make an appearance in it. Considering I didn't post in it last time it was around.
I'm a gay man living in Sydney, for those who didn't already know and in joining the conversation, don't really like the scene either although have been found visiting the clubs in moderation when i'm in the mood. I often opt for the better music and overall atmosphere in the straight scene though.. the gay scene has its place and like drugs, must be taken in moderation...
I don't mind clubs like pheonix on thursday nights, they play some nice minimilism and techno, and on saturday they can get some really decent house in there as long as it isn't one of those ultra gay nights.
I agree with PDA, but try not to shove it in peoples faces, it's often as discrete as possible, but I won't go out of my way to make it discreet.
I don't like the fact that homosexuality has almost become a subculture, in the fashion trends and music tastes like the emo culture has... Some of us don't want to belong to a scene that revolves around materalism and idolism, but whatever, moderation is key.
Will end my rant before it gets too long, can always post more later..
I wanted to ask if anyone will be attending any parties over NYE/NYD. I got offered a free ticket to homesexual, and well.. I can't say no because it's free. lol
anyway, would be nice to get to know some bluelighters who are or aren't part of the gay scene, it's really hard to find gay guys who sincerely just want to talk to you for the sake of getting to know you, and not just because they want to get into your pants.