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having sex, and being watched.

DO IT!!!

If you and you boy friend talk about different situations and how you and him may feel about it, then it would be OK.. My wife and I have done the same thing. But there was 3 different couples and we all just had sex in the same room. One time me my wife had a second couples on the same bed. For us it was all good. We just had one rule. The girls can touch each other but not the guys and the guys can only touch your own girl... Just thinking about it is getting me excited

PS we where all rolling
 
yeah, i have a feeling that everyone is gonna be really sexual at this party. and thats okay with me...so, another question, what do you think is too far to go with someone esle??
 
that all depends on you and your boyfriend, and the other couples...i had sex with one of my boyfriends closest friends once, mostly because my boyfriend wanted me to (although i didn't mind ;) ). I was afraid it was cause some weirdness between us, but it didn't.

That is something to seriously consider though. If you think it might cause problems in your and your boyfriends relationship or with your friends it wouldn't be worth it
 
audiophile said:
my question is do you think it could harm my relationship??
audiophile said:
so, another question, what do you think is too far to go with someone esle??
Those are both questions which can only be answered between you and your partner, because ultimately its how comfortable the two of you feel, not some strangers opinion on the internet. Some people wouldn't want to get sexual infront of other people at all, others would very much want to. Similarly what others consider okay with other people might not be what your partner considers okay.
 
My advice is try to suss it out with your friends. Different people are going to react differently to this situation. I think it would be kind of rude for you to impose that on someone if they weren't ok with it. If it is a hotel party, some people might view that as pretty selfish. People shouldn't be required to have to see that sort of stuff if they don't want to.
Admittedly, they could just leave the party, but that would be really shit if your actions forced them to do that.

Two of my friends got really sexual with each other infront of us and then disappeared into the bathroom for a couple of hours and we could see their outline as a shadow on the frosted glass of the bathroom.

We were *really* wierded out and kinda annoyed that they couldn't restrain themselves sufficiently to be sociable.
I just didn't want to see one of my closest friends having sex, nor did i want to see the outline of her boyfriend's boner.
Kinda ruined the atmosphere of the night.

It was just us 4, so that's a different slant than if it is 7...but I still think about that night witha mixture of disgust and disapointment in the night and my friends.

- Pippin (oops! :) )
 
I have had people have sex in front of me before at parties. I found it very disrespectful, when everyone left because we were freaked out they called and asked us where we went.

I agree. The idea to me sounds a bit disrespectful, especially since youre only going to put on a show without letting the rest join in. Unless you know that your friends are dying to see you 2 fuck. Just doing it to fullfill your own exhibitionist fantasies is kind of using the other guests in a disrespectful way.

I personally would probably leave if two of my friends started doing it in front of the rest of us, unless theyre really really hot, then it would be like free porn :)
 
when we hotel party. anything goes pretty much, no one gives a damn if your fucking in the corner, or even on the other side of the bed pretty much, its normal, this is of course, provided everyone is royally fucked up in ways i could not explain now.
 
audiophile said:
at a diffrent party...i wasn't there...every person going to this party had an orgy. this party includes other couples, who most likley will have sex also.
I really need to get some new friends ;)
 
i don't know who your freaky friends are, but just going at it even if its contained to a bathroom would wierd out just about everyone i know.

they may leave, they may give you shit for it or nicknames for a while too

ive had opportunities presented to me to have a 3-some on e, but the ratio wasn't right. but i wasn't offended at all, the thing was we discussed it. i swear if you guys spread it around at the beginning that you and your bf get extremly sexual on e, people will be like, oh cool. later on tell a friend or two you want to sneak off and have sex, and then leave (since it seems like you really want to do this anyway)

basically what you don't want is thuds and screams coming from some part of the party space and everyone all of sudden noticing PEOPLE FUCKING!!!!

discreat and subtle, show tact, you should be fine
 
I'd be pissed off if people starting fucking in front of me.

I don't care what drugs you're on, have some respect. I sure as hell don't want to watch my friends fucking, it's bad enough hearing my housemates through the wall having sex.
 
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