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    my boyfriend and i are having a hotel party this coming weekend with about 7 of our friends. i've never rolled in a group before, i've only rolled with him. he and i are very intimate, and sexual when we roll, and most likely will be this time. he and i talk alot about the party, and if we'll be okay having sex in front of our friends...does anyone think that this would be akward??...i don't have a problem right now with people watching us, and niether does my boyfriend, we both think that it might be exciting. but i'm afraid that after the fact it could hurt our relationship somehow, does anyone think that this would not be a good idea, to make sure that he and i will be okay the next day, or will it just be a fun activity that will make for a good story??
     

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    Are you guys just straight up doing it infront of everyone with everybody standing there or what? Cause I think that would be really wierd and awkward, I mean its one thing to talk about sex with friends (most everyone does) but its another thing to have sex infront of them.
     

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    Yea, I think it's all how you feel around each other. I can see this happening with some people I know, but others... man o man I don't think ANYTHING good would come from it.
     

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    Hey

    As long as your friends aren't immature. Some people can't handle having other people around when they have sex. ( I never get any sex, so i don't have too worry about that too much )

    Shoot, if you guys are comfortable enough to have sex with each other around, you could probably just have a big orgy. <---- this doesnt have to be dirty like in some porno. Sex is after all, only sex.

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    of course they're not inviting everyone over just to come and watch (right?) - i mean they might as well set up a video mpeg file for everyone to download if they wanted other people to intentionally see them...

    - i'm assuming she meant while everyone is in their own little world, if it'd be at all ackward for them to start fucking in their own little corner...
    i personally think that if all of you guys are comfortable with eachother then it'd be alright i guess. i mean, i'm sure there's always the bathroom or a closet somewhere right?
     

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    Choo! Choo!
     

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    Not the only ones 
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    My friends and I are doing something similar tonight. we get together occasionally and roll at home.

    Play late into the nite
     

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    Should just have one big orgy...Seriously, if you guys feel comfortable, then go for it, but just remember, all your friends will talk about it later on, so be ready for that. If you guys decide to do it, have fun
     

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    ooooo ya

    btw.....Can i come over

    digital
     

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    well when ppls is in the world of mdma they wouldn mind im pretty sure off... but HAHA if i was there and u guys started having sex i would have wanna join in and make luv
     

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    I'm with Digital, can I come by also and join the party
     

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    I have had people have sex in front of me before at parties. I found it very disrespectful, when everyone left because we were freaked out they called and asked us where we went. If you know that you are gonna have sex go in the other room walk somewhere. Dont possibley ruin your friends party by making them uncomfortable so 2 people out of the group can get their kicks.
     

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    Get a room or use the bathroom.
    That's some fucked up shit IMO unless everyone can join in

    Sounds like an experience that may come back to haunt you in years to come
     

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    yea, i know i wouldnt be comfortable watching even my closest friends have sex in front of me. try and do it in another room or at the least in the far end opposite of where your friends are going to be so that they wont be forced to watch you two do it.
     

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    It could go either way.. you either give them a show of a lifetime haha or they get uncomfortable.. or at least one person does?? try the bathroom thing or maybe just get some sheets or blankets and have your fun under them.. if one person gets uncomfortable it might ruin the mood or make them want a girl really bad and not have one at the time being? im not totally sure of the situation but good luck!
     

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    i'm not talking about them just standing around...i mean if everyone is rolling hard, and my boyfriend and i feel sexual, we're most likely gonna have sex. we aren't asking anyone to watch. and besides, at a diffrent party...i wasn't there...every person going to this party had an orgy. this party includes other couples, who most likley will have sex also. my question is do you think it could harm my relationship?? like if my boyfriend gets upset that someone is watching me naked go down on him, or something like that. i don't want my relationship to get hurt because of this party. and plus, if an orgy were to happen...well, i think that could be fun.
     

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    Originally posted by audiophile
    My question is do you think it could harm my relationship??
    No, sounds like normal teenage fun to me. Just make sure you are under a blanket and then it's all imagination for others. No real need to flaunt it ... just have some modest fun
     

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    ah i see what you mean now.. but still i would use a blanket.. id be mad if a friend of mine was stareing at my girlfriend while we were having sex.. altho if you do it without a sheet or something over you its kind just bound to happen.. ask him how he feels.. be totally open or be safe.. otherwise have fun!
     

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    ive only rolled a few times once was with ym girlfriend and one of her friends, we just intended on sitting around doing fun things, ive known my girlfriend and her friend for 14 years, we ended up having sex together all night, but we all knew it ment nothing it was just what was fun, my girlfriend evan mentioned before that if i wanted she could swing it that we could have a threesum but i decided it wouldnt be right but im the moment it just happened, i guess what im saying is it all has to do with when your there, thats when you should decide
     

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    I'd say GO FOR IT! My boyfriend and I have had sex in front of others, but where they were free to leave the room. We have had sex a lot in bathrooms when friends were around and it was never any big deal. If you and your boyfriend are cool with it and you want to have sex then do it. Espically if their are other couples there who might want to have sex too. Whenever my dating friends party they always have sex with everyone around...so like I said, don't like anyone stop you. I wouldn't really care who I offend...its your party, right?
     

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    DO IT!!! 
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    If you and you boy friend talk about different situations and how you and him may feel about it, then it would be OK.. My wife and I have done the same thing. But there was 3 different couples and we all just had sex in the same room. One time me my wife had a second couples on the same bed. For us it was all good. We just had one rule. The girls can touch each other but not the guys and the guys can only touch your own girl... Just thinking about it is getting me excited

    PS we where all rolling
     

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    yeah, i have a feeling that everyone is gonna be really sexual at this party. and thats okay with me...so, another question, what do you think is too far to go with someone esle??
     

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    hey

    Nothing. As long as everyone realizes all it is is sex

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    that all depends on you and your boyfriend, and the other couples...i had sex with one of my boyfriends closest friends once, mostly because my boyfriend wanted me to (although i didn't mind ). I was afraid it was cause some weirdness between us, but it didn't.

    That is something to seriously consider though. If you think it might cause problems in your and your boyfriends relationship or with your friends it wouldn't be worth it
     

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    Originally posted by audiophile
    my question is do you think it could harm my relationship??
    Originally posted by audiophile
    so, another question, what do you think is too far to go with someone esle??
    Those are both questions which can only be answered between you and your partner, because ultimately its how comfortable the two of you feel, not some strangers opinion on the internet. Some people wouldn't want to get sexual infront of other people at all, others would very much want to. Similarly what others consider okay with other people might not be what your partner considers okay.
     

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