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How often do you masturbate??

Male/20: sometimes I got months and months without masturbating once (I don't know why I do that, but sometimes I just like to know that I can) then at other times I jerk it like 3 or 4 times a day. Meh.
 
26, female, and I masturbate every day, sometimes more. That depends on the time of month, of course.

And yes, I love it. I've never had a man that could give me an orgasm, even when I tried to lead them in the right direction. I have to get off somehow.
 
22M Once a day, fairly consistently. Since i broke up with my gf its been that way. Whilst we were together it was less often.
Peachness, that's a shame. I had real troubles getting my ex to orgasm (she was in the same position as you) but found this 'magic' position when we had sex, and then could do it most times. I dunno, keep trying maybe? Must be a really frustrating thing but imho its the guy's duty to get the girl off and if he doesn't do it then he isn't doing his job (exceptions apply of course). If you can do it yourself then i don't see why a guy can't, you obviously have nothing physical preventing you from having an orgasm.
 
I don't know if anyone else has experienced this, but after having a girlfriend for about a year I'm just not able to turn myself on and do the deed and even if I do it's not satisfactory so I just don't do it.
 
Masturbation is a sin. It stands between you and the Almighty, and you are in deep trouble if you think it's okay.

I used to know what it was to pleasure myself in unhealthy ways, and that included things other than masturbation as well! But you have to understand, pleasure was created to spurn us to those things which are good for life and creation. Every time you masturbate the Devil is there to drink the fluids and it makes him stronger. So few people realise, that He's right there, because they are too seduced.

A sure fire way to cure yourself of this addiction is to wrap a leather strap around your thigh with barbs in it. Pain is purifying.
 
22-F

When I'm on speed/meth I have no sex drive whatsoever. However, if I quit for a few days i get really really horny at first. But then that slacks off.

When I was with my fiance I didn't get many chances to masterbate unless I waited till he fell asleep. However, 95% of the time while we were engaged, I was on drugs and had no sex drive.

Now that I've been away from him and off of drugs for 3 weeks, I masterbate on my days off just cos I'm bored mostly. But on days that I work I'm too busy to even think about sex.

A-tweak
 
Formico said:
Masturbation is a sin. It stands between you and the Almighty, and you are in deep trouble if you think it's okay.

I used to know what it was to pleasure myself in unhealthy ways, and that included things other than masturbation as well! But you have to understand, pleasure was created to spurn us to those things which are good for life and creation. Every time you masturbate the Devil is there to drink the fluids and it makes him stronger. So few people realise, that He's right there, because they are too seduced.

A sure fire way to cure yourself of this addiction is to wrap a leather strap around your thigh with barbs in it. Pain is purifying.

Say wha? Are you for real, man? Woah, that's a little out there. I hope you're joking, right?
 
fronky said:
22M Once a day, fairly consistently. Since i broke up with my gf its been that way. Whilst we were together it was less often.
Peachness, that's a shame. I had real troubles getting my ex to orgasm (she was in the same position as you) but found this 'magic' position when we had sex, and then could do it most times. I dunno, keep trying maybe? Must be a really frustrating thing but imho its the guy's duty to get the girl off and if he doesn't do it then he isn't doing his job (exceptions apply of course). If you can do it yourself then i don't see why a guy can't, you obviously have nothing physical preventing you from having an orgasm.

I know, right? And I agree to an extent, but I really think it's me. It has to be, otherwise someone would have succeeded by now.

I've done a lot of thinking about it, and even lately when I masturbate I get overly sensitive at the end and it's hard to have a satisfying orgasm. I vary the method a lot, so it's not that I'm getting used to any one thing. I'm very sensitive, anyway, so I'm sure that has a lot to do with it.

/shrug/

BTW, just because I'm nosy, what was the 'magic' position? :D

Formico said:
Masturbation is a sin. It stands between you and the Almighty, and you are in deep trouble if you think it's okay.

I used to know what it was to pleasure myself in unhealthy ways, and that included things other than masturbation as well! But you have to understand, pleasure was created to spurn us to those things which are good for life and creation. Every time you masturbate the Devil is there to drink the fluids and it makes him stronger. So few people realise, that He's right there, because they are too seduced.

A sure fire way to cure yourself of this addiction is to wrap a leather strap around your thigh with barbs in it. Pain is purifying.

As an agnostic/athiest ... I can't agree with this.

Well, I can agree with the "Pain is purifying" thing ... but we are thinking on two TOTALLY different levels.

But whatever you believe, man...
 
19/m once before bed if im not drunk etc

hahahahah the devil is there to drink your juice... id shoot a load in satans mouth if he came by ;p an you may aswell stop ppreaching i mean you already sold your soul by pleasuring yourself in unhealthy ways, face it, god hates you now tsk tsk
 
im same as dpuerto, I used to whack off all the time now I got a good girlfriend and I just save it for her. She even tells me to save it for her. She gets jelious if I do it with out her
 
whenever I'm not getting sex, which is pretty often ATM...
 
"2-3 times/day during the week, 3-5/day on weekends"

"Usually between 1 and 4 times a day. Probably average 12 times a week"

i think if you guys are doing it as regularly as this, you really need to go out and exercise, focus yourself on something constructive and get a job even. i cant imagine the dick cheese and the red nob from this kind of punishment to your penis.

trusted response from my statement would be "i have a job, i jerk off at work a few times too"
 
54M, taken.
Any night I don't have sex.

An orgasm a day stops that stuff backing up and dripping out of your nose.
 
33m single-ish

erm daily, when not single-ish it goes crazy, i have been known to take a " time out " to the restroom between courses at a restuarant( if the waitress is hot that is )

rest assured i do wash my hands when i come back, never know when someone will ask you to " pass the breadrolls"
 
Makaveli said:
"2-3 times/day during the week, 3-5/day on weekends"

"Usually between 1 and 4 times a day. Probably average 12 times a week"

i think if you guys are doing it as regularly as this, you really need to go out and exercise, focus yourself on something constructive and get a job even. i cant imagine the dick cheese and the red nob from this kind of punishment to your penis.

trusted response from my statement would be "i have a job, i jerk off at work a few times too"
werd to that...
i've found that since the past few months since i've been exercising and keeping myself occupied, my need to bust one off myself has gone down heaps...
probably to the point of 1-3 times a week.

19 M and single. but if a sheila is present you must share whenever possible.
 
From the time i was 7 till i was 15-16 i masturbated around 5 times a day, sometimes much more, sometimes 0, but thats a good average. I dunno why but i can have a nice big orgasm where i shoot untill like my 5th time cumming that day.

I still cum around 5-6 times a day, but most of that is sex.

My record is 15 in a day =P, i was shooting blanks for the last 4 or so
 
When I shared a room (and a bed) with my cousin for two months I actually only masturbated say once a week on average, if even that. When I'm alone and have nothing better to do and lots of access to porn, it can be 1-3 times a day. At the moment it's about 3 times a week.
 
"i have been known to take a " time out " to the restroom between courses at a restuarant( if the waitress is hot that is )"

rofl you dirty cunt! :D
 
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