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A question for the boys:

I learned more about sex through experimentation than I did through porn, although this was because I wasn't really into porn until after I had been having sex for a while, at the encouragement of my partners.

I learned that some girls like to be cummed by them requesting it of me, maybe they learned it from porn, I really don't claim to understand the female psyche.

In conclusion, I wouldn't say that all, or even most males learn about the act of sex through porn.
 
^I agree. I would say for me its not usually seeing something in porn and wanting to act it out rather I seek out porn that portrays things that I like. I would be interested to see if anyone would say that they learned about sex mostly through porn or have developed what they like from watching a lot of it. Not sure anyone would admit it even if they did.

With regard to the facials even though I'm not really into it that much I did quite like the quote from Marquis de Sade on the wiki page. I bet it sounds even better in french
"... I show them my prick, then what do you suppose I do? I squirt the fuck in their face... That's my passion my child, I have no other... and you're about to behold it."
 
I haven't learned anything from porn...

lmao@ the quote...even though it's stupid...

people should learn about sex through each other..and
finding what makes it best for each other...

or else i am just an idealistic female w/no grip on reality...

~token
 
Hey bro instead of triple posting, keep that all in one post by using the edit post function.
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just wanted to hit 50 posts, wont happen again
 
Heres my theory on what its all about...Acceptance
to a guy whats the grossest thing he brings to the table when having intercourse, in his opinion its not his dick or his sack its the load of sticky semen that he blows all over the place.
If a bird shitted on you or something else gross happened where is the last place you would want it...on your face. Where is the most insulting place for someone to be spat on? The face...
When the girl allows the grossest part of the deed to be on the last place anybody would want anything gross she is relaying a feeling of total acceptance of the guy and his sexuality and everything that goes along with it.
Anyway thats my theory.

This is it right here. I couldn't think of how to put it myself. Eloquently put, my friend.
 
people should learn about sex through each other

They should, I suppose I am thinking about younger guys who have never had sex before but have only been exposed to it through the internet. Surely most people would on some level get the idea that it is only fantasy but who can really say how much it will shape sexual practices from now on...
 
what will they do when they meet a real woman..
not made of plastic parts...
or on enough drugs to kill an elephant??

~token
 
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I dont know I'm sure they would work it out soon enough. I dont even know if such a man exists I'm just speculating that they could.
 
Heres my theory on what its all about...Acceptance
to a guy whats the grossest thing he brings to the table when having intercourse, in his opinion its not his dick or his sack its the load of sticky semen that he blows all over the place.
If a bird shitted on you or something else gross happened where is the last place you would want it...on your face. Where is the most insulting place for someone to be spat on? The face...
When the girl allows the grossest part of the deed to be on the last place anybody would want anything gross she is relaying a feeling of total acceptance of the guy and his sexuality and everything that goes along with it.
Anyway thats my theory.
I think this gets at ONE of the many reasons posted about here. Obviously there are many different reasons for any particular instance of the act, but it’s too common and too satisfying to see to not have a deeper psychological root. As others have noted, it does seem to be about dominance. Think about it: a man is literally masking another person's identity (the face being the most salient signifier of identity) with his genetic essence, making the other his own symbolically. It's a deeply instinctive symbolic act of an ego that desires and seizes dominance. I suspect if it was possible to amplify and extrapolate from the psychological pattern that results in blowing a load on a woman's face the result would be … cannibalism – not just symbolic but physical destruction and incorporation of the other ego (and there are many historical cases of sexual cannibalism that fall in line with this sort of interpretation). Think about that the next time you feel lusty, heh.
 
This is it right here. I couldn't think of how to put it myself. Eloquently put, my friend.
thank you my friend, and my ego thanks you as well%)

I think this gets at ONE of the many reasons posted about here. Obviously there are many different reasons for any particular instance of the act, but it’s too common and too satisfying to see to not have a deeper psychological root. As others have noted, it does seem to be about dominance. Think about it: a man is literally masking another person's identity (the face being the most salient signifier of identity) with his genetic essence, making the other his own symbolically. It's a deeply instinctive symbolic act of an ego that desires and seizes dominance. I suspect if it was possible to amplify and extrapolate from the psychological pattern that results in blowing a load on a woman's face the result would be … cannibalism – not just symbolic but physical destruction and incorporation of the other ego (and there are many historical cases of sexual cannibalism that fall in line with this sort of interpretation). Think about that the next time you feel lusty, heh.

you have a point any instance of the act could have an infinite number of motives depending on the individuals. But somehow to me it seems like the guy having to whack himself off while the woman looks up at him isn't dominance but then again you could also say that by taking his cock in hand and seizing control of his own orgasm and denying her the power the man exerts dominance over the woman (also by denying her the sexual pleasure that should go with it)
I really don't know human phsychology is so complicated i feel like i could never totally understand it
 
SO based on recent events that have taken place since I originally posed this question, I am reasonably certain that the reason behind the specific semen/face interaction to which I was referring to was:

Dominance, disrespect, and an attempt to prove a point that need not have been proven. Suffice it to say that that will be the last time that particular flavor of semen makes it anywhere near my face, or any other part of me. I can handle sticky eyebrows if it's for a good reason, but jizz on my face out of spite and I'll start thinking about which food would be best for hiding period blood in. I'm thinking lasagna. Everyone likes lasagna.
 
Interesting theory, and I'm sure that's true for some, maybe many. And it's a nice theory. It ties in with love and acceptance, and as long as there's a bathroom handy so you can wash off the splooge and cuddle, I'm all for it.

My gf would NEVER want this. Too squeamish and too vanilla when it comes to sex. I like that about her though. We still have awesome sex. :)

For some though it's about domination/subordination. I've seen some porn where you can tell by the dude's behavior and what he says that it's not a caring thing at all and that he's into splanking his splooge on her face so he can feel all macho and "manly"...like he owns her or some shit. SUCH a turnoff. I hate there porn where they take this perfectly hot girl and then treat her like shit or call her a bitch. I lose my yayas for wanking then and just want to knock some fucking sense into those assholes. Plus, they ruined what could have been a great porn video with their bullshit!

Anyway, that's my .02.

podsnomo


Heres my theory on what its all about...Acceptance
to a guy whats the grossest thing he brings to the table when having intercourse, in his opinion its not his dick or his sack its the load of sticky semen that he blows all over the place.
If a bird shitted on you or something else gross happened where is the last place you would want it...on your face. Where is the most insulting place for someone to be spat on? The face...
When the girl allows the grossest part of the deed to be on the last place anybody would want anything gross she is relaying a feeling of total acceptance of the guy and his sexuality and everything that goes along with it.
Anyway thats my theory.
 
to a guy whats the grossest thing he brings to the table when having intercourse, in his opinion its not his dick or his sack its the load of sticky semen that he blows all over the place.
actually, there are people who don't find semen gross. ;)
 
How do you expect the act of learning about sex to be "as normal as it used to be" when the internet is common now even in the middle of shithole like my country (though I guess increasing prices will have some impact on the bandwidth ;) )?

People prefer to keep a lot of things as taboo. And it's some great phenomenon that the insights about sexual intercourse is so secret while extending the existence of human for ages.

I know it's much less of a taboo in the Western Europe or North America than here. I've seen it. People are more open one to another in the West. I don't get it why it is so. Is it mentality of people living in socialism for tens of years and earlier some didn't have a country at all? I don't know.

Keeping some things as taboo is not good but having no respect for feelings and emotions bonding people is bad too. Sometimes I'm disgusted by some idiots' ideas about sex and women.

Concerning the main question in the thread, I see nothing exciting or satisfactory in ejaculating on some woman's face. It's some kind of a fetish because there's no way all men in the world just love to do it. I've never done it and I've never even had such fantasies.
 
SO based on recent events that have taken place since I originally posed this question, I am reasonably certain that the reason behind the specific semen/face interaction to which I was referring to was:

Dominance, disrespect, and an attempt to prove a point that need not have been proven. Suffice it to say that that will be the last time that particular flavor of semen makes it anywhere near my face, or any other part of me. I can handle sticky eyebrows if it's for a good reason, but jizz on my face out of spite and I'll start thinking about which food would be best for hiding period blood in. I'm thinking lasagna. Everyone likes lasagna.

So you're resentful towards a partner primarily, and the resent for the act is a byproduct?
 
Concerning the main question in the thread, I see nothing exciting or satisfactory in ejaculating on some woman's face. It's some kind of a fetish because there's no way all men in the world just love to do it. I've never done it and I've never even had such fantasies.

exactly...
that's all it is..

some guys get off on it..
some don't...

some women or gay lovers don't mind it..
some do...

this is no mystery..

we all like different things during sex...

you know..cuz we're all different.

if you don't like it..tell him..
i bet he'll stick around anyway...

too much thought has been wasted on this thread IMO.

~token
 
^I agree. I would say for me its not usually seeing something in porn and wanting to act it out rather I seek out porn that portrays things that I like. I would be interested to see if anyone would say that they learned about sex mostly through porn or have developed what they like from watching a lot of it. Not sure anyone would admit it even if they did.

With regard to the facials even though I'm not really into it that much I did quite like the quote from Marquis de Sade on the wiki page. I bet it sounds even better in french

Yeah that;s what I mean...I'm sure it has become more commonplace because of porn - but I;m not saying that it was because of porn people started doing it - that's like what came first the chicken or the egg? I am just saying the power dominance dynamic from influence of porn has negatively effected it. In my opinion, and I honestly think it's true.
 
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