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As I'm sure many of you have noticed Manboychef has not been on Bluelight much in the last few weeks. He messaged me earlier today requesting that I give a status update on his behalf. He has been suffering from an extreme episode of OCD lately, and has been working with a doctor to get it under control. As of this afternoon, he is doing significantly better than he has been so I am hopeful that he will be feeling better in the near future. Manboychef has been very strong and diligent in working through this latest OCD episode, and has also been very determined not to lose perspective, which I give him credit as it's really hard to stay positive and focused during an OCD episode. During this time he has not given up his goal of sobriety, and has endured this episode completely sober which is very commendable and take so much strength and courage. We have texted back and forth for the last few weeks and he has gone through some very dark times and extreme isolation, but the entire time he was determined to get beyond this set back, and to do so while remaining sober. While this has been a very difficult and unpleasant experience, I have no doubt that this was an invaluable opportunity for him to learn more about himself and to learn new healthier and productive coping mechanisms, and he will come out of this stronger than ever.
For those of you unfamiliar with OCD, it can be a devastating condition that ebbs and flows depending on environmental factors and general health. When the OCD is extreme, it is not uncommon to be completely immobilized from the condition, and it takes time to get through the flare-ups when they happen. There are some medications that are available to treat it, those primarily being SSRIs and benzodiazapines. To truly learn to live and function with OCD it is best to pair medication therapy with a mindful based therapy such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) as the medication alone will not stop all of the symptoms or the thought patterns, and the medication is also tolerance building so the same medication is often not always a long term solution
There are many misconceptions regarding OCD thanks to the way it is portrayed in the media. Often when one hears OCD they think about a person who is excessively clean or tidy, or somebody that washes their hands 100's of times a day. While some sufferers do display these traits, OCD is a much more complex disorder that have multiple facets and symptoms. OCD can manifest in behavior patterns (clean, hand washing, etc) but it also manifests in obsessive intrusive repetitive thoughts as well, which also have a broad range in and of themselves. Some sufferers excessively worry or ruminate often losing sleep or to the detriment of other obligations or activities. Thoughts can range from number obsession and counting to having to verify multiple times that an action has been performed (ie checking five times to make sure the front door is locked before going to bed) to thoughts of harming a loved one (people with OCD who have these fears are not dangers to others as they do not act on these thoughts, and more often than not these types of thoughts are deeply disturbing to them). OCD is a very complex disorder, but it is manageable with medication and therapy. Sometimes if the therapy is successful sufferers are able to learn how to manage and cope with their OCD without requiring medications.
At any rate, just wanted to give a quick update as to Manboychef's situation. Feel free to make comments as he will be reading this thread and I'm certain your kind words and support will help facilitate his recovery. I was intentionally vague with details as I don't want to over step my bounds, but feel free to ask questions.
For those of you unfamiliar with OCD, it can be a devastating condition that ebbs and flows depending on environmental factors and general health. When the OCD is extreme, it is not uncommon to be completely immobilized from the condition, and it takes time to get through the flare-ups when they happen. There are some medications that are available to treat it, those primarily being SSRIs and benzodiazapines. To truly learn to live and function with OCD it is best to pair medication therapy with a mindful based therapy such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) as the medication alone will not stop all of the symptoms or the thought patterns, and the medication is also tolerance building so the same medication is often not always a long term solution
There are many misconceptions regarding OCD thanks to the way it is portrayed in the media. Often when one hears OCD they think about a person who is excessively clean or tidy, or somebody that washes their hands 100's of times a day. While some sufferers do display these traits, OCD is a much more complex disorder that have multiple facets and symptoms. OCD can manifest in behavior patterns (clean, hand washing, etc) but it also manifests in obsessive intrusive repetitive thoughts as well, which also have a broad range in and of themselves. Some sufferers excessively worry or ruminate often losing sleep or to the detriment of other obligations or activities. Thoughts can range from number obsession and counting to having to verify multiple times that an action has been performed (ie checking five times to make sure the front door is locked before going to bed) to thoughts of harming a loved one (people with OCD who have these fears are not dangers to others as they do not act on these thoughts, and more often than not these types of thoughts are deeply disturbing to them). OCD is a very complex disorder, but it is manageable with medication and therapy. Sometimes if the therapy is successful sufferers are able to learn how to manage and cope with their OCD without requiring medications.
At any rate, just wanted to give a quick update as to Manboychef's situation. Feel free to make comments as he will be reading this thread and I'm certain your kind words and support will help facilitate his recovery. I was intentionally vague with details as I don't want to over step my bounds, but feel free to ask questions.