Why do so many people enjoy rimming?

I am not sure why so many bisexual and even gay men, and probably a lot of hetero women and men too enjoy rimming or being rimmed? I have no desire to lick anyone's asshole and even if you do wash your ass with soap and hot water like you should while bathing it's never going to be "clean" like some people think or will claim. Also despite what people think it's not safer sex since while you're probably not going to get HIV that way from licking or being licked down there unless there's blood involved you can get other STDs and various types of hepatitis that way. I got it done to me once by a man I dated, and it was disgusting to me. Yes I had taken a shower and wash with soap and hot water before our date, and the guy did have me shower after our date. Being rimmed is not something I ever wanted to ever experience again. The gross part was when after the man had rimmed me he wanted to make out with me or French kiss me immediately after his tongue had been down there. I am not against kissing men...but yeah I didn't want to do it immediately after he rimmed me. I did kiss him on the lips, and then after I shot my hot cum on his face I pissed, washed up, used some of his mouthwash, and left. I have a gay male friend who also finds rimming to be nasty and had it done one time to him out of 100s of male sex partners and he too found it nasty and never has done it.

TL;DR: I find rimming to be disgusting are there any other people here who feel this way?

DrunkardsDream said:

I shot my hot cum on his face

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How hot was it?

have you had your asshole licked?

im a straight man and i enjoyed the hell outta when my ex would toss my salad

i always say, if you dont enjoy havin your asshole licked then you've prob never had your asshole licked

god bless her heart but i can kinda see where your comin from(havin to give to a dude, i mean in my mind gay dudes prob take better care of there butt then me but still men are nasty), she was nice to venture into the nasty untamed abiss that is my ass, what prompted her to do it is beyond me, but i enjoyed the hell outta it cuz it felt good

why did i like tossin her salad? i really dunno n dont have an answer for that, the butthole is not the sexiest of oraphises but she was always clean down there (everytime we tried buttsex she would starve herself for the 24hrs prior, but then again we exchanged rimjobs more often then attempting anal), n it just didnt bother me n i guess the main reason i liked given her a rim job is cuz how turned on she would get. i know why i liked my asshole gettin licked tho, cuz its an odd but pleasent feeling

god i really need to read peoples entire posts before postin myself, so you had it done but didnt like it? its prob cuz you were selfconscious bout your butthole that 'you' think is dirty. ive had girls tell me that hate it if a guy goes down on them if they didnt freshin up right before hand, maybe im outta line but i would assume gay dudes n females are similar n that respect, im a nasty mother fucker n i know i wasnt 'the freshest' back there, but she was down n so was i so i just let go n enjoyed it.

but yea, no kissin directly after, both of us agreed on that

Plenty of nerves down there, and I guess the person doing it likes to lick butt? Doesn't seem too complicated to me.

I'm not a huge fan of receiving rim jobs, but it definitely doesn't disgust me. He enjoys doing it, and I enjoy it when he's enjoying himself.

He loves a rim job though, and I'm happy to oblige. It's not an everyday thing, but during a kinky session this is something I often do for him. I can see how you find it gross, but great sex is intoxicating. When I'm in the middle of an intense, heated session, there's not much that can bother me.

Logically, you're totally correct. Fecal-orally transmitted disease is probably the number one killer of humans prior to modern society. It is logical to be disgusted by contact with other's assholes from a survival standpoint. Perhaps it is this flirting with death, on top of the idea that by putting one's mouth on another's anus we symbolically unify our bodies, that makes the urge to rim so enticing. Rimming represents the confluence of life, death, trust, sexual unity, and intimacy. I know that's why I find it so hot, especially between women. If two women, who are doing it without any reproductive benefit, do THAT, it means they're controlled by their sexuality, which means I have total sexual power over them. That's why lesbian rimming is so hot for me.

As a man, I don't have a problem with ass play, but annilingus is something that has never interested me (giving or receiving). That said, the anus is very sensitive and I can see why some people might having it licked/licking it. It's just another personal preference.

You sound like you need loosen up OP. It feels good. Period. And what's all this going on about hot waster and soap, you sound kinda anal. Ironically. If, like most people, you shower everyday and have learnt how to wipe your arse properly then they'll be less bacteria down there than in your mouth. Think about that next time you go kissing grandma on the lips.

psood0nym said:

Logically, you're totally correct. Fecal-orally transmitted disease is probably the number one killer of humans prior to modern society. It is logical to be disgusted by contact with other's assholes from a survival standpoint. Perhaps it is this flirting with death, on top of the idea that by putting one's mouth on another's anus we symbolically unify our bodies, that makes the urge to rim so enticing. Rimming represents the confluence of life, death, trust, sexual unity, and intimacy. I know that's why I find it so hot, especially between women. If two women, who are doing it without any reproductive benefit, do THAT, it means they're controlled by their sexuality, which means I have total sexual power over them. That's why lesbian rimming is so hot for me.

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I think you're overthinking it tbh....people like having it done because that area in general is very sensitive so it feels good. Even blowing on a guy's ass I have noticed makes them feel good (and in this case I mean literally blowing air onto it, not cumming). I love the feeling of being rimmed.

As far as why people like to be the one doing the rimming.....I can only really speak for myself, but there are a few things that turn me on about it; I love the physical sensation of what it feels like with my tongue down there, there is great visual appeal in having my face planted in someone's ass in the porno in my head, and in my brain I usually associate it with foreplay leading up to fucking him so that in itself turns me on.

I can assure you I am not thinking about flirting with death or unifying our bodies any more so than I am with any other sex act. I could be completely wrong with this because like I said I can only speak for myself, but I'm pretty confident in saying most other people would agree with me on this bit.

To the OP; I used to hate the whole idea of rimming for the reasons you pointed out....it wasn't until it was done to me a lot that I figured there must be something to it and gave it a go. Even now though there are only certain guys I will do it with...if I have even the slightest suspicion that a dude is not totally clean down there, there's no way I am putting my mouth anywhere near that thing...

amnesiaseizure said:

And what's all this going on about hot waster and soap, you sound kinda anal.

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Hahaha.

One of my exes was really into giving them. I didn't have any complaints, it feels good. That's all there is to it really. I wouldn't do it myself though.

I'm not really down to give or receive.

I don't think it is a shameful act, just not something I am comfortable with or turned on by.

HighonLife said:

but yea, no kissin directly after, both of us agreed on that

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I'm not trying to be dumb but.....this does not compute. You would willingly lick each others assholes but you had a problem being kissed afterward? At that point, what difference does it make? Seems like an odd thing to agree upon, given the circumstances.

i have never recieved any rimjobbing of such but i have dished out ALOT of it to many women. They seem to lvoe it, no matter how many at first deny or refuse to like it before it happens. Just a personal taste of mine, and others. Some what of an 'aquired taste' I guess. I enjoy it even more so when speeding/ on Amps.
Note that I will NEVER touch a womans ass if i can tell she dosent take care of herself hygienically.

why do so many people enjoy rimming?

because that shit tastes good! lol

truthfully because it feels good and its really horny sometimes

Well, it's a fallacy that it will never be clean despite washing. Hint: Gastroenterological, OB/GYB and Urological surgery procedures, like any other surgery, are aseptic procedures, despite their involvement of the peri-anal region, right?

But we don't need to go that far. We're not worried about otherwise consummal bacteria causing wet necrosis via entry into an anaerobic wound during rimming. We're almost exclusively worried about a couple of viral infections. If your partner does not have hep a/b/c or HIV, or an acute intestinal bacterial infection, it's really not a worry. This is not that hard to figure out, unless you happen to cruising craigslist m4m casual encounters looking at ads with "BBC++ PNP++ A2M++" or similar situations.

Why do I enjoy doing it? Well, unlike guys, with their gross, hairy assholes, cute girls have really cute assholes. I also like their reaction to it, point in case last night, I was rimming Ms.G while pulling on the tether attached to her kegal balls, and it was driving her fucking crazy. She was DRIPPING wet in no time and was wildly bucking back into my mouth. It was fucking HOT. It's also a pretty submissive thing to do, and it thus works well during D/s play. (Similar idea as kissing her toes, or eating her vagoo while she straddles face, etc.)

I've done it with a lot girls, and I've never encountered any unpleasant tastes, or material from it. I've not had an intestinal infection outside of the 3rd world. Nor have any of my partners or playmates, who often rimmed people, and who always kissed me/their playmate after they did mentioned having any sort of intestinal or hepatic infections outside of their trips to the 3rd world (where applicable).

It's just hot, and from a medical/bio stand-point it's not even an issue with a long term partner. People who live in close proximity/are sexual together on a regular base tend to colonized each other with their flora (intestinal and otherwise) relatively quickly, regardless of rimming or not. The organisms present in people who are not displaying signs of pathology/infection are commensal in immuno-competent people and do not present a appreciable risk.

As I said, stay clear of m4m and bath-houses (or for hetero people, random hook-ups at parties and stuff) and you should be fine. I'm not saying you have to be monogamous, poly-fidelity and long term FWBs are ok too.

^^ Never had any problem either, giving or receiving.

I have a friend who is an infectious diseases expert, he uses saran wrap. Seems odd to me, but for good reason I would suppose.

I've only been with one chick that didn't like to have it done to them... I like to have it done to me too... To each their own I guess...

DonMakaveli said:

Note that I will NEVER touch a womans ass if i can tell she dosent take care of herself hygienically.

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Morphling said:

^^ Never had any problem either, giving or receiving.

I have a friend who is an infectious diseases expert, he uses saran wrap. Seems odd to me, but for good reason I would suppose.

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I imagine it must ruin the moment somewhat! Is that just for the arsehole or for the pussy too?

He's bi, Owen, never witnessed him eating pussy, in this particular case.