trocious
Bluelighter
- Joined
- Mar 23, 2010
- Messages
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I've struggled with addiction for years, from weed to pills, to coke, to heroin, to the needle. Amphetamines have always seemed to have the most day-to-day utility, and I've found myself completely dependent upon them. I can't fathom living without them.
I relapsed recently, after my girlfriend and I broke up, and stole some hydrocodone pills from a family member. Aside from that I drank heavily and smoked weed all the while being on a signature bond not to do those things. After this trainwreck arrived at the station, my parents explained that they had had enough of my relapsing, and lying, and hurting everyone around me with my drug use. As a result of my use, I have until Sunday to find another place to live. I could maybe go live with my dad. My ex-girlfriend offered for me to stay at her apartment, on the couch, and only while she was there. My other options would be a shelter, like Salvation army, or attempt to contact various other people in my life about living arrangements, from college counselors I grew close to, to people from AODA groups.
My mom did mention that I could maybe convince her to allow me to stay, provided I promised to earnestly pursue recovery.
I don't know what to do. I picked up my bottle of Vyvanse today, so I just wanna go on a speed run and see what happens. I did meth for the first time about a month ago and loved it, but it seems too risky to obtain especially when I have prescription speed. I want to take this week to examine my life, while on amphetamines, then take a break for a few weeks to see if I can function without them.
I would just move out but I don't work enough to support myself. I have two 8 hour shifts on the weekend, and work maybe one or two days a week doing either snow removal or window washing.
I feel like such a useless, hopeless drug addict that has lost all respect from the people around him. Part of me wants to really try to get clean and get back into recovery, because there a lot of benefits to leading a healthy drug free life. But the recovery community here just sucks, I want to move back to my college town where I really connected with everyone and felt welcome and not sketched out. I feel like I've been given so many opportunities to succeed and get help from the people in my life, but I turn my back on them for the drugs.
The sense of purpose and ambition that amphetamines give me is seemingly otherwise unattainable. When I take a good dose of Vyvanse, I feel like I can accomplish anything I want. Sometimes when sober I will feel similarly, where if I put my mind to something I could do it. Maybe part of my recovery would be regaining touch with that part of who I am. I've always had very ambitious and lofty goals, bordering on delusions of grandeur type dreams. But you have to think big to be highly successful.
I need to dissociate the ambitious, motivated part of me who has an entrepreneurial bent and a razor-sharp analytical mind, with the effects of amphetamines. If I could be me on amphetamines without needing the amphetamines, I would be good to go. Confident, attractive, empathetic, understanding, welcoming, helpful, sincere, compassionate. Organized, leadership skills, motivated, ambitious, well-connected, assertive, dominant.
Please help, I sincerely need advice to figure out how I should handle my addiction to amphetamines, which is interwoven into so many aspects of my life that everything unravels when I run out. I know I need to get clean and stay clean, but I don't know how to deal with the constant cravings for amphetamines when I don't have them. How can I accept a life that consists of working a job for the sole purpose of earning money to support my meager, uninspiring, average existence. Amphetamines make me feel important, like I'm doing something significant with my life. I suppose I've been spinning my wheels for quite a while, but slowly I was saving money. I want to go back to my old university, where the culture was intellectual and progressive. While I was there, working on plasma fusion research and studying nuclear engineering, I felt like I was contributing to something greater than myself, that my life had meaning. I enjoyed work, and school, but it was hard to regulate my amphetamine intake to adequately provide stimulation for everything I had to do. I want to be able to take a certain amount every day, with the same effects, and focus on doing great things and groundbreaking work instead of obsessing about meth all day because my job is nothing but snow removal.
Cliffs:
-Been using for 5-7 years, from weed, to pills, to hard drugs IV, with amphetamines being my biggest battle
-Got caught with coke last year, returned home from university to take time off and get clean
-Met a girl, dated for 5 months before we broke up yesterday
-Used meth for the first time a month ago, and loved it being dependent on dextroamphetamine, craved it often since then
-Relapsed over the weekend, stealing a bottle of hydrocodone from a family member, drinking significant amounts, smoking weed, and abusing my Vyvanse
-Family (who had graciously allowed me to return home provided I stayed clean) found out, said I have until Sunday to figure out a new place to live
Questions:
->I need advice on getting clean. How to not abuse or depend on amphetamines for motivation, confidence, and essentially every human characteristic associated with the drive to succeed in life. I feel that without them nothing is rewarding and I have almost no desire to complete tasks or plan for my future. This is severely debilitating and keeps me from doing the things I want to do that would help me move towards what I want to have and be in life.
I need help, sincerely, I am scared at the thought of being homeless and sober. I need to work more to support myself but I'm not sure where to start, I suppose I need to take initiative at where I currently work to get more hours. It's hard to reconcile the fact that making $8.25/hr is my only option, while I am capable of so much more. It makes working seem pointless, I would rather continue and complete my education, where even undergraduate research positions pay at least $8.50/hr or more.
Thanks dark siders!!!
I relapsed recently, after my girlfriend and I broke up, and stole some hydrocodone pills from a family member. Aside from that I drank heavily and smoked weed all the while being on a signature bond not to do those things. After this trainwreck arrived at the station, my parents explained that they had had enough of my relapsing, and lying, and hurting everyone around me with my drug use. As a result of my use, I have until Sunday to find another place to live. I could maybe go live with my dad. My ex-girlfriend offered for me to stay at her apartment, on the couch, and only while she was there. My other options would be a shelter, like Salvation army, or attempt to contact various other people in my life about living arrangements, from college counselors I grew close to, to people from AODA groups.
My mom did mention that I could maybe convince her to allow me to stay, provided I promised to earnestly pursue recovery.
I don't know what to do. I picked up my bottle of Vyvanse today, so I just wanna go on a speed run and see what happens. I did meth for the first time about a month ago and loved it, but it seems too risky to obtain especially when I have prescription speed. I want to take this week to examine my life, while on amphetamines, then take a break for a few weeks to see if I can function without them.
I would just move out but I don't work enough to support myself. I have two 8 hour shifts on the weekend, and work maybe one or two days a week doing either snow removal or window washing.
I feel like such a useless, hopeless drug addict that has lost all respect from the people around him. Part of me wants to really try to get clean and get back into recovery, because there a lot of benefits to leading a healthy drug free life. But the recovery community here just sucks, I want to move back to my college town where I really connected with everyone and felt welcome and not sketched out. I feel like I've been given so many opportunities to succeed and get help from the people in my life, but I turn my back on them for the drugs.
The sense of purpose and ambition that amphetamines give me is seemingly otherwise unattainable. When I take a good dose of Vyvanse, I feel like I can accomplish anything I want. Sometimes when sober I will feel similarly, where if I put my mind to something I could do it. Maybe part of my recovery would be regaining touch with that part of who I am. I've always had very ambitious and lofty goals, bordering on delusions of grandeur type dreams. But you have to think big to be highly successful.
I need to dissociate the ambitious, motivated part of me who has an entrepreneurial bent and a razor-sharp analytical mind, with the effects of amphetamines. If I could be me on amphetamines without needing the amphetamines, I would be good to go. Confident, attractive, empathetic, understanding, welcoming, helpful, sincere, compassionate. Organized, leadership skills, motivated, ambitious, well-connected, assertive, dominant.
Please help, I sincerely need advice to figure out how I should handle my addiction to amphetamines, which is interwoven into so many aspects of my life that everything unravels when I run out. I know I need to get clean and stay clean, but I don't know how to deal with the constant cravings for amphetamines when I don't have them. How can I accept a life that consists of working a job for the sole purpose of earning money to support my meager, uninspiring, average existence. Amphetamines make me feel important, like I'm doing something significant with my life. I suppose I've been spinning my wheels for quite a while, but slowly I was saving money. I want to go back to my old university, where the culture was intellectual and progressive. While I was there, working on plasma fusion research and studying nuclear engineering, I felt like I was contributing to something greater than myself, that my life had meaning. I enjoyed work, and school, but it was hard to regulate my amphetamine intake to adequately provide stimulation for everything I had to do. I want to be able to take a certain amount every day, with the same effects, and focus on doing great things and groundbreaking work instead of obsessing about meth all day because my job is nothing but snow removal.
Cliffs:
-Been using for 5-7 years, from weed, to pills, to hard drugs IV, with amphetamines being my biggest battle
-Got caught with coke last year, returned home from university to take time off and get clean
-Met a girl, dated for 5 months before we broke up yesterday
-Used meth for the first time a month ago, and loved it being dependent on dextroamphetamine, craved it often since then
-Relapsed over the weekend, stealing a bottle of hydrocodone from a family member, drinking significant amounts, smoking weed, and abusing my Vyvanse
-Family (who had graciously allowed me to return home provided I stayed clean) found out, said I have until Sunday to figure out a new place to live
Questions:
->I need advice on getting clean. How to not abuse or depend on amphetamines for motivation, confidence, and essentially every human characteristic associated with the drive to succeed in life. I feel that without them nothing is rewarding and I have almost no desire to complete tasks or plan for my future. This is severely debilitating and keeps me from doing the things I want to do that would help me move towards what I want to have and be in life.
I need help, sincerely, I am scared at the thought of being homeless and sober. I need to work more to support myself but I'm not sure where to start, I suppose I need to take initiative at where I currently work to get more hours. It's hard to reconcile the fact that making $8.25/hr is my only option, while I am capable of so much more. It makes working seem pointless, I would rather continue and complete my education, where even undergraduate research positions pay at least $8.50/hr or more.
Thanks dark siders!!!