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how do you gett your girl to squirt?

lola
your in the same boat as "hy" girl
gets right ther floods the sheets put no "squirt"
pay fof the ticket and ii take that challenge lol
 
Sounds like you're close Lola. Keep trying it and remember not to tense up if you feel like you're about to piss yourself - it's not piss. My SO says she just let herself relax down there and it comes out in bucketfuls. Another poster mentioned having a normal cum first, that can work well as it seems to unload that built up sexual tension and from there you may be more in the 'zone' for a squirt.

Like I mentioned in my initial post not all women squirt so you may not be able to get there. However I do think with persistence from your partner(s) it will happen.

If I get to London sometime I'll be sure to look you up!
 
Chazra said:
a girl can squirt with anal too..


women have a sac similar to the prostrate located along their urethra tube (the tube piss comes from) basically all stimulation gets a girl to build up fluid in this sac jsut like a guy builds up fluid for cuming.

you can acheive this squirting in multiple ways.
1. repeated multiple orgasms in succession then continuing with stimulation until she literally cant hold it in. (stimulation anywhere, the clit, the g-spot, the vaginal opening, anal sex... doesnt really matter)
2. bringing her to the moment right before climax repeatedly (this makes her build fluid) each time you stop the fluid stays there, but when you restart stimulation she starts making more fluid. the more she has, the harder it is to hold in resulting in an intense climax where she cant hold it it.
3. massaging the g-spot, which is actually massaging the sac where the fluid builds. you can do this vaginally or anally, just like you can make a man cum by massaging his prostrate anally.
4. alternately you can give her multiple orgasms in any way you please, then press a finger or two, a fist, a vibrator, or other hard object on the g-spot and the pressure will force it out.


make sure she pees before you get started, build her up slowly or quickly. if she feels like she has to piss really bad, dont let her go, thats her body trying to relieve this fluid.
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Such a great post - contains everything I wanted to add really
Medi57 said:
I find the hardest part is convincing her she isn't going to pee everywhere :)
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Without a doubt - the 2 girls who I tried doing this with after me & my ex broke up, both of them are still a bit inhibited when it gets to that point. One's Polish as well, so telling her properly she's not gonna piss is a feat in itself. Lol.
 
it just happens naturally over time, if you're in the right mental state about sex. i don't think it can be taught or learned. it sounds like she's on her way anyway, it builds up over time.

i would like to add one thing to this thread: a squirting orgasm is NOT by definition, necessarily any better than a non squirting orgasm. for me personally its actually a lot worse cos everything gets so soaked and i'm worrying about having to sleep in a puddle/explain endless towel washing to my housemates. it may be a demonstration of sexual prowess but its not giving someone any better pleasure IME. once you start, it seems you don't stop, so you're consigning a girl to a life of no spontaneous sex ever cos you have to be somewhere where everything can get soaked. oh yeah and giving her a load of hangups about being a freak.

the techniques mentioned may well work but there certainly isn't only one way. i know you can have these from clitoral, vaginal and anal stimulation.
 
Chazra said:
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3. you can do this vaginally or anally, just like you can make a man cum by massaging his prostrate anally.

4. alternately you can give her multiple orgasms in any way you please, then press a finger or two, a fist, a vibrator, or other hard object on the g-spot and the pressure will force it out.
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Prostate? A fist? Yikes!8o Ouch!:!

Man, you folks are adventurous, if stretched a little tightly!;)
 
toocrazy2yoo said:
Prostate? A fist? Yikes!8o Ouch!:!

Man, you folks are adventurous, if stretched a little tightly!;)
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um yeah.. i'm not... never had had a fist... tried anal once, liked it. not big enough for a fist... not for a while... but I have some very sexaully active female friends who have a lot more experience than me (obviously)
 
Chazra said:
um yeah.. i'm not... never had had a fist... tried anal once, liked it. not big enough for a fist... not for a while... but I have some very sexaully active female friends who have a lot more experience than me (obviously)
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Pretty adventurous! Any of these friends of yours single? In New England? Like bikes? Oh, fat chance, right?

Hey, you're a pretty good egg from what I read, Chazzie, do what you wanna do, avoid the stuff that skeeves and enjoy life. It works for me..
 
toocrazy2yoo said:
Pretty adventurous! Any of these friends of yours single? In New England? Like bikes? Oh, fat chance, right?

Hey, you're a pretty good egg from what I read, Chazzie, do what you wanna do, avoid the stuff that skeeves and enjoy life. It works for me..
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in the states at the moment, unfortunately . have family near london, but not single...


one friends are single though. they do have semi-steady fuck buddies... but both want someone who is a friend with benefits or long term.
 
Chazra said:
in the states at the moment, unfortunately . have family near london, but not single...


one friends are single though. they do have semi-steady fuck buddies... but both want someone who is a friend with benefits or long term.
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Oh, I was kidding, unless they're in New England, hehe..:\
 
how do you know you're not going to pee though?
and how do you know it's not pee though?
like for real i'm aware of the whole "gotta let go" thing but if i'm orgasming and i feel like i might piss....i sure as hell don't want to risk it.
 
marissaaaaaa said:
how do you know you're not going to pee though?
and how do you know it's not pee though?
like for real i'm aware of the whole "gotta let go" thing but if i'm orgasming and i feel like i might piss....i sure as hell don't want to risk it.
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go for a pee first. the first time it happens you really don't know its not pee, though my boyf did cos he could see it was coming from the wrong place... once its happened once you know what it feels like, which is nothing like peeing. also it doesn't smell like pee. but mostly don't bother, its a total arse to deal with and if you're anything like me will have very negative long term implications for your sex life and sexual confidence.
 
BearLeeLive said:
i told my girl id make her do it, et dont know to right techniqu. i can make he come so much its like a river, but not an actual squirting orgasm
any tips (no pun)
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Not all girls can do it, porn stars learn to do it but naturally its not that common. Has nothing to do with you.
 
^ most girls have the potential - it's generally not about getting the technique right, but getting over mental barriers.

I've been told by many women that a lot of a really banging orgasm for them is psychological.

My experiences and observations have confirmed this to be true - moreso than for men.

chinup said:
its a total arse to deal with and if you're anything like me will have very negative long term implications for your sex life and sexual confidence.
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Could you elaborate please - this sounds pretty dark, and I couldn't even imagine what you could mean, very intrigued - I think it's one of the most beautiful things a woman can do...totally letting go.
 
i had an ex who always just when she was about to orgasm would jump out of bed and go to the bathroom.....? do you reckon we was borederline on squirting or just nauseaous from seeing me hammering away on top of her???
 
ive been able to do this, only once though. i was masturbating with a vibrator on my clit, and dildo inside hitting my g-spot. i gushed this liquid stuff and i was like wtf just happened. thought i peed at first, but realized no, i squirted. it didn't smell like pee...if i recall, it smelt like nothing. haha.
 
Jblazingphoenix100 said:
^ most girls have the potential - it's generally not about getting the technique right, but getting over mental barriers.

I've been told by many women that a lot of a really banging orgasm for them is psychological.

My experiences and observations have confirmed this to be true - moreso than for men.
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This.

You simply need to mind fuck them, don't be afraid to talk dirty, touch those sensitive areas (neck, ears, breasts, thighs, etc..) Be the biggest tease possible! Be sure shes already dripping before you even start to work your magic inside.

This is one of the techniques that works for me: Form the Rock and Roll hand symbol but upside down, place your free hand just above her pubic bone area applying light pressure, now with your rock and roll hand insert your middle/ring finger inside, with your pinky and index out pointing straight down. The tricky part is finding the "spot" explore around and look out for a reaction, you should feel her muscles contract. Once you've found it, it is time to ROCK AND ROLL! Build up the pace, and fingerbang her like crazy.

If her face isn't looking like this 8o then you're doing it wrong :p
 
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