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K12
13-09-2010, 17:59
The average run-of-the-mill orgasm is ok and all, but I was wondering advice on different techniques to give a woman a Very Powerful, Intense orgasm. The kind that has her reeeeeeeaaallllyyyyy turned on like she is about to explode with orgasmic pleasure.

What I have cum to learn is to get a woman about to cum through intercourse and then slow down until the feeling goes away, then gradually get her to start to climax again, then quckly slow down again. This will have her craving more. Do this several times and when she finally does cum it is mind blowing.

Matsuo Munefusa.
13-09-2010, 18:01
every woman is different. If your approach to giving your woman a powerful orgasm is to ask strangers online, well, then friend, you have already failed.

K12
13-09-2010, 18:09
every woman is different. If your approach to giving your woman a powerful orgasm is to ask strangers online, well, then friend, you have already failed.

I'm just looking to read from others through THEIR experience, what works best. One guy suggested in the "kinky" thread that by choking a girl about to cum, it cuts off oxygen supply to the brain and amplifies the orgasm equivalent to doing a line of coke. Great, but I'm not a licensed paramedic and this is too risky for me to try.

Other tips?

Spaazkaz
13-09-2010, 18:10
^ pfffft!

be safe...

-spaz-

ChickenScratch
13-09-2010, 18:12
eat vagina until you get lock jaw. and when i say eat vagina i mean go down there like it's a fucking all you can eat buffet and rub your nose in it, suck on it, lick it, finger it, eat the butthole and just fucking keep going till she can't stop cuming and when you get to that point just fuck the ever living shit out of her. the only problem is that after you've done this she'll probably want to marry you.

Matsuo Munefusa.
13-09-2010, 18:28
I'm just looking to read from others through THEIR experience, what works best. One guy suggested in the "kinky" thread that by choking a girl about to cum, it cuts off oxygen supply to the brain and amplifies the orgasm equivalent to doing a line of coke. Great, but I'm not a licensed paramedic and this is too risky for me to try.

Other tips?

you're not getting the point. If I did that to my girlfriend she would likely be very traumatized and we would lose some of the sacred trust we have built thus far. Some other girl may get the fuck off on it though? Every girl is individual.

The most generic advice would be to talk with her someday about what her fantasies are and then try them with her when the timing is right.

Maybe you're choking, tying, bleeding, submitting, dominating, whatever. If its a longtime fantasy of hers and you do it right then she'll get off hard.

ChickenScratch
13-09-2010, 18:31
MM - i think you're missing the point. he's just having conversation about what different people do to their girl off.

of course all girls are different.

stuckinsouthdakota
13-09-2010, 18:36
get her to the point of orgasm and then stop for like 5 minutes, do this again, repeat over and over and then finally the last time when she can't take your teasing anymore....finish her off.

i do this when i get bored of masterbation to spice things up...very intense orgasm everytime...
switch off between going down on her, and playing with her/fingering her down there. make sure you know the correct way--of going down on her. AKA writing the ABCs with your tongue is TERRIBLE advice..

all girls are different though, but this is something that always gives me an intense orgasm

Another thing, shower sex get her from behind, and then use the removeable shower head on her clit...fucking amazing.

ChickenScratch
13-09-2010, 18:51
AKA writing the ABCs with your tongue is TERRIBLE advice..

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i agree, i've never understood nor tried this method. i just kind of go with what feels right based on her reactions and try to change it up between soft licking, slow licking, fast licking, tongue fucking, clit sucking, rubbing, fingering gspot etc etc.

i don't understand the whole ABC thing.

i also find that when you're licking her pussy deep you can rub her clit with your nose at the same time.

alasdairm
13-09-2010, 19:01
MM - i think you're missing the point. he's just having conversation about what different people do to their girl off.

of course all girls are different.i totally understand where mm is coming from.

threads like these appear, fail and scroll every so often when the op seems to think there is some kind of silver bullet which will automatically give any woman an earth-shattering orgasm.

the initial question is flawed and so it's not invalid to point out that every woman is different because the op's question seems to assume that they're not.

alasdair

Average Whiteboy
13-09-2010, 19:03
Sign over your paycheck to her.

double ewe
13-09-2010, 19:07
it's my understanding that there are three different types of female orgasm: clitoral, g-spot and cervical. though there are lots of things that play into a female orgasm (including a HUGE element of emotional arousal), i've found that when i can get two or three of those spots at once i typically get a good response.

ChickenScratch
13-09-2010, 19:13
whatever, i just think he's just making conversation about sex on a discussion board that's about sex.

in my short time on BL i've found that people around here are extremely sensative about topics of discussion.

I_need_dat
13-09-2010, 19:27
What works for me is two things. The most obvious thing is good head. I don't want my pussy ate like they do in porn. Most of the time the technique is wrong to me. I like for a man to listen to my body, the way I move says a lot about how I want to be touched. If a man doesn't listen to my body I have no problems with giving him verbal directions.

The only time that a man has made me squirt was when I was getting dual stimulation of my g spot and my ass. Something about that turned me all the way out. Next thing I know I gushed liquid.

K12
13-09-2010, 20:32
it's my understanding that there are three different types of female orgasm: clitoral, g-spot and cervical. though there are lots of things that play into a female orgasm (including a HUGE element of emotional arousal), i've found that when i can get two or three of those spots at once i typically get a good response.

This is interesting. There is probably a synergistic effect if you can hit two orgasms at once. I will have to look into this.

Everyone is basically the same, assuming they have a clitoris and can orgasm, although preferences vary.

das_feuer
13-09-2010, 20:51
The average run-of-the-mill orgasm is ok and all, but I was wondering advice on different techniques to give a woman a Very Powerful, Intense orgasm. The kind that has her reeeeeeeaaallllyyyyy turned on like she is about to explode with orgasmic pleasure.

What I have cum to learn is to get a woman about to cum through intercourse and then slow down until the feeling goes away, then gradually get her to start to climax again, then quckly slow down again. This will have her craving more. Do this several times and when she finally does cum it is mind blowing.

Keep in mind that the majority of women are unable to reach climax through vaginal intercourse alone. If you want to make a particular woman have a mindblowing orgasm, you need to find out exactly what that particular woman loves. Find out what drives her wild. Ask her. Try new things. Let her tell you what she likes, have her help guide you and show you exactly what drives her wild.

There is no catch-all, magical way to make all women experience a super-amazing orgasm. If only the world were so simple. You just need to learn what she likes and work with it until you've mastered the technique that she likes the best.

ChemicalSmiles
13-09-2010, 22:11
eat vagina until you get lock jaw. and when i say eat vagina i mean go down there like it's a fucking all you can eat buffet and rub your nose in it, suck on it, lick it, finger it, eat the butthole and just fucking keep going till she can't stop cuming and when you get to that point just fuck the ever living shit out of her. the only problem is that after you've done this she'll probably want to marry you.

noob hit the nail on the head

Illadelphian420
13-09-2010, 22:52
Make out with her for a while, making sure to spend time on her neck and ear. Slowly work your way down her body and once you are around the cooch start really teasing. Kiss all around it, down the legs a bit until she starts pushing it into your face because she wants it so bad. Once you do, take your time, lick her clit slowly and make sure you work your way all around. I find that being really slow with your tongue movements drives them nuts. Once they get close to orgasming step up the pace and get ready to have some thighs like a vice around your head.

Noodle
14-09-2010, 00:29
Tantric sex for beginners in 4 easy steps ( http://www.care2.com/greenliving/tantric-sex-for-beginners-4-easy-tips.html)

That should just about cover it.

Google and/or Bing is your friend.

:)