From time to time I hear people denounce conformity and praise individuality. I think this is unfortunate because people often fail to see the good of conformity and the shortcomings of individuality. Let's change the semantics and maybe you'll see what I'm talking about.
Instead of using the word conformity, try using the word community. Instead of individuality let's use the word loner.
Who here would denounce community? Yet, communities are identified by that which its' individuals share in common. Consider the gay community as an example. There are certain traits, behaviors, manner of dress etc that gays use to identify one another. Some might say that by adopting these signs one has conformed. But, as a mostly gay guy, I don't see it as giving up individuality as much as gaining community.
Now, let's look at individuals. The most extreme examples of individuals tend to be hermits and loners. Why? Because they share nothing in common with the rest of the world. They are so unique that they can't relate to others, nor can we relate to them.
There are always two signs to a coin. I'm not arguing for us to throw away individuality and uniqueness. Rather, I hope people will temper their understanding. Individuality and community are often at odds with one another. But, the fact is healthy living must have some of both.
Instead of using the word conformity, try using the word community. Instead of individuality let's use the word loner.
Who here would denounce community? Yet, communities are identified by that which its' individuals share in common. Consider the gay community as an example. There are certain traits, behaviors, manner of dress etc that gays use to identify one another. Some might say that by adopting these signs one has conformed. But, as a mostly gay guy, I don't see it as giving up individuality as much as gaining community.
Now, let's look at individuals. The most extreme examples of individuals tend to be hermits and loners. Why? Because they share nothing in common with the rest of the world. They are so unique that they can't relate to others, nor can we relate to them.
There are always two signs to a coin. I'm not arguing for us to throw away individuality and uniqueness. Rather, I hope people will temper their understanding. Individuality and community are often at odds with one another. But, the fact is healthy living must have some of both.