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sylvan Wanderer
27-12-2007, 08:23
Ladies, Do any of you like to be "fingered"?

I ask, because from what I have heard most girls don't like it much and it's something guys do because no one has told them not too and few are good at it at all.

Beatlebot
27-12-2007, 08:24
Doesn't do much for me to be honest with you.

IcarusRisen
27-12-2007, 08:28
note: I am a guy.

If you hit the G-spot, I suppose it's good for warm up, but you're probably gonna want to do the intercourse thing.

Pillthrill
27-12-2007, 08:38
I think its great for a warm up. I like it, but you have to hit the g-spot or its not going to work. I had a guy that I dated that knew all about that because of his anatomy of women class...I think all guys should take that class

Doppelganger
27-12-2007, 08:56
If a guy knows how to hit the G-Spot, it will make me squirt and orgasm more than I can any other way.

this isn't common place though, only two guys I've been with have known what to do. That said, if a guy isn't offended by instructions, I'll try to teach him, but even still... they really struggle, as it puts an enormous strain on their forearm.

Sex is still better though due to its intimate value :).

MattPsy
27-12-2007, 09:14
Well, in my experience they've enjoyed it, and generally have asked for more, hehe.

katmeow
27-12-2007, 10:09
The combination of oral and a bit of handiwork is normally what does it for me. Just fingers is normally ok for a bit of a warm up, but that's about it.

happyus
27-12-2007, 10:27
loves it....like doppleganger if i squirt then it's the most amazing thing ever, if not it's a nice introduction. i like it cos it reminds me of being with my partner before we had sex, when we were all fumbly and hopeless.

CHiLD-0F-THE-BEAT
27-12-2007, 10:46
I absolutely love it along with some nicely executed tongue action as a warm-up to proceedings. I find it to feel very teasing and naughty.
I generally start becoming huffy and impatient if it goes on too long, however - but then again depravation can be a real turn-on. :)

PriestTheyCalledHim
27-12-2007, 14:20
I'm a guy, I've done it to women but they seem to like it better than I do!

ozzifar
27-12-2007, 14:29
^ that could possibly be because you don't have a vagina?

Doppelganger
27-12-2007, 14:38
I'm a guy, I've done it to women but they seem to like it better than I do!

lol, no way?

PriestTheyCalledHim
27-12-2007, 15:01
lol, no way?

Well it's not like I have a vagina or really know what a clit orgasm vs. a g-spot orgasm feels like and I find it's more fun and pleasurable to masturbate men. :)

Doppelganger
27-12-2007, 15:14
whatever dude

stimulating your partner is for their pleasure purposes, although that's not to say you can't also enjoy it :).

ellua
27-12-2007, 16:05
almost more than the real thing...!

lawofkato
27-12-2007, 16:15
If a guy knows how to hit the G-Spot, it will make me squirt and orgasm more than I can any other way.

this isn't common place though, only two guys I've been with have known what to do. That said, if a guy isn't offended by instructions, I'll try to teach him, but even still... they really struggle, as it puts an enormous strain on their forearm.

Sex is still better though due to its intimate value :).
My wife is the same way. She's been with guys before that just didn't know how to do it right for her, but I know how to do it and she helped me get there ;) Add in a little tongue and she really gets going. Nice, loud orgasms...but like someone else said, your forearm can get tired after 5 or 10 minutes of it. Good time for sex after that.

drEaMtiMe*@#
27-12-2007, 16:15
It can be nice, but for me it only actually ever makes me want to have sex a lot quicker.

Tootsie
27-12-2007, 16:20
I love it, my boyfriend's amazing at it. It's almost like teasing for me, I can't really explain it.

GoddessLSD-XTC
27-12-2007, 18:26
Great 4 warm up and to see if she is hot/wet. Love 2 feel that swollen, spongy g-spot and then 4 a little tongue action, finger still inside massaging.

~*geNeRaTiOn E*~
27-12-2007, 19:28
if done properly, fingering with a bit of tongue action will send me over the edge. it's almost as good as sex...almost.

qwe
28-12-2007, 00:36
you should see her squirm and grab me and crunch!

**busted**
28-12-2007, 01:22
I like manual penetration (gspot stim) when he is giving oral otherwise the fingers are going in to assess my wetness and perhaps smear it about my clit

The Real Fatman
28-12-2007, 01:35
I'm rather good with my fingers although I use them mostly while giving oral, gotta get theat curve just right and rub around inside you'll find the Gspot in seconds, unless you're well just clueless.

vanth
28-12-2007, 04:56
I like it, and I love it when I'm getting oral sex. Its very important that the person doing it has short and smooth nails though :\

ellua
28-12-2007, 05:03
Its very important that the person doing it has short and smooth nails though :\

hmm, can we make that a psa, or at least sticky? ^.^

hoptis
28-12-2007, 06:24
*makes 'come hither' motion at thread with middle finger*

*giggles*

Pshaaw
28-12-2007, 06:48
i have to admit.. i came in here first.. just to giggle at getting fingered..

if the fingering is done right .. then, sure.. but if it's not .. then.. fuck no..

there are factors that can change my opinion.. lol

morninggloryseed
15-01-2008, 21:57
My girlfriend does, she gets too sensitive on her clit for extended stimulation....so she likes her g-spot stimulated. Best bet is to mix it up...or just ask.,...every lady is different.

PriestTheyCalledHim
16-01-2008, 00:10
whatever dude

stimulating your partner is for their pleasure purposes, although that's not to say you can't also enjoy it :).

yeah I understand that but for myself sometimes a woman's body is so alien and not a turn on and I'll go through periods where I'm not attracted to women at all and then I'll go back to being equal.

Jaza
16-01-2008, 02:50
In my experience this varies hugely from woman to woman.

I've had girls who've found it boring (and just prefer making out/oral then on to sex), most who enjoy it (to varying degrees, not often for a hugely prolonged period), all the way to a woman I'm seeing at the moment who *loves* it. Absolutely can't get enough - always as a warm-up - but a nice long one with us both having a good go.

It's great! :D

sorceror
16-01-2008, 06:26
My girlfriend does, she gets too sensitive on her clit for extended stimulation....so she likes her g-spot stimulated. Best bet is to mix it up...or just ask.,...every lady is different.

but what happens when the lady repeatedly refuses to tell you what she likes best?

zigzag| dta
16-01-2008, 06:40
fyi im a guy.


but ive always found that its a very "middle school" thing to do. however when its combined with oral action, the girl usually likes it. or seems to.

glitterbizkit
16-01-2008, 16:12
If the guy is good at it, then I love it. Better than oral, in some cases (although oral + finger action is the best obviously)

Besides, I find that more guys are better at fingering than oral - and it's much easier to show a guy how you like to be fingered as well.

nburghmatt
16-01-2008, 19:47
works like a charm when i do it to her. and in reference to something someone said before, you don't exactly need to have taken anatomy to work that spot.

although i'm extremely fortunate to have a girl who squirts at the drop of a hat.

it usually results in her going into that exorcist demon voice "FUCK ME NOW"

that's when the teasing starts. muahaha.

morninggloryseed
16-01-2008, 23:59
but what happens when the lady repeatedly refuses to tell you what she likes best?

THen I guess it is time to discuss your communication problems.

Dissonance
17-01-2008, 00:54
It's really weird, a couple of my girlfriends have really liked it, and got them really wet. My current gf is kind of indifferent.

This one girl I dated got turned on by anything, and got all juicy. It was like I could shoot a rubber band at her cooch and she would get all wet.

angel1274
20-01-2008, 08:41
non of the women ive had have ever not liked it sum straight girls ive been had no idea orgasms could be so intense and so long they can be the best 1s if u take the time and not just thinking of it as a warm up b4 ur dick but maybe sum mite find it hard to deal with seeing ther girl have a better orgasm than what ur bigger n what u fort better appendage can do?? , but it not just a warm up 4 me its part of sex n guys u really have to pay more attention with ur partner coz if ur any good they all wood luv u more4it oh and yes i am a girl

lady grey
20-01-2008, 11:31
Being fingered while his free hand is caressing my body and his kissing me all down my neck, lips, occasionaly biting and feeling his deep breaths on my skin is hot and has me wet and begging for him, every time;)

I couldn't get off on fingering alone but for foreplay, it's essential =D

euphoria
20-01-2008, 18:07
It definitely turns me on if done properly. If not... (im always a lil gunshy due to a bad experience w/ some untrimmed, sharp fingernails ha) it could ruin the whole mood. But definitely a combo of tongue & finger can be the best.

B9
20-01-2008, 21:37
or just ask.,...


Communication - we'd just be fucked without it.

Chaos23
20-01-2008, 22:12
it really seems to change from woman to woman. My GF loves it when combined with oral... obviously...


just make sure you don't have a jagged hang nail or anything.8o

Immortal Teknique
21-01-2008, 01:18
I don't get why some people wont give directions or dont like being told???

If you can become better at pleasuring your partner, then you are both going to get alot out of it. The woman is going to enjoy a more pleasurable sensation whilst the guy will get off on seeing his partner enjoying themselves (at least i would anyway).

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peachness
21-01-2008, 03:56
As long as they aren't rough too soon, I don't mind it as a foreplay thing. I have yet to find a man that can touch me the right way without a TON of direction... and even then most can't figure it out. :/

Pillthrill
21-01-2008, 04:34
I like it, and I love it when I'm getting oral sex. Its very important that the person doing it has short and smooth nails though :\

That is what I never get about girl-girl porn...you see those nails? Fucking ouch!

Pillthrill
21-01-2008, 04:36
works like a charm when i do it to her. and in reference to something someone said before, you don't exactly need to have taken anatomy to work that spot.

although i'm extremely fortunate to have a girl who squirts at the drop of a hat.

it usually results in her going into that exorcist demon voice "FUCK ME NOW"

that's when the teasing starts. muahaha.

Ahh the demon...demon of impatience....

sunshinefix
21-01-2008, 08:54
When I masturbate, I can have really long nails. Yet even with short almost non-existent nails, he always scratches me.

nburghmatt
21-01-2008, 14:45
Ahh the demon...demon of impatience....

yeah, what's with that?

Immortal Teknique
22-01-2008, 00:46
As long as they aren't rough too soon, I don't mind it as a foreplay thing. I have yet to find a man that can touch me the right way without a TON of direction... and even then most can't figure it out. :/

Give us a break, its not like we can see inside and go, "Ahh, so thats where im supposed to be touching!" 8)

Apart from the fact it fucking hurts our arm, we do our best!!!!

:)

peachness
22-01-2008, 01:24
Give us a break, its not like we can see inside and go, "Ahh, so thats where im supposed to be touching!" 8)

Apart from the fact it fucking hurts our arm, we do our best!!!!

:)

I'm sure you do! And I'm generally not disappointed, I just never come. It's not a matter of where I'm being touched, all have figured that out on their own. It's how rough. I don't know how many times I can say, "Touch me lightly. Let me show you," and have them actually do it. Same with oral. No one's listening to the person attached to the clit. I'm really sensitive and when people don't take what I'm saying and adjust, I'm usually in pain. Not fun, really.

Doppelganger
22-01-2008, 05:18
^ Do you just like them to stroke your clit or something?

Personally I'm a G-spot girl and as long as they're hitting the G-spot, then rough is the way to go. If they're missing it (which isn't uncommon), then yeah, it hurts if they're too hard.

But the G-spot ought to be pounded, imo :D. Yes.

Anyhow, I've heard we're not the greatest when it comes to hand-jobs. Maybe we all need to work on our mutual masturbation techniques!