I don't know what to say.. really. I'm probably the polar opposite of you, miss MDMA
Here's how my daily schedule goes: 7.20am I wake up. By about 7.40am I've made my breakfast, which consists of something really small, like 1 poached egg on 1 piece of wholegrain toast, or 1 cup of cereal with 1/2 cup of skim milk. I also have a full caffeine coffee at this stage (my only one of the day). Then I go to work.
By 10.30am I'm starving, so I eat a piece of fruit - actually recently, I've been having 1 small banana and about 8-10 almonds, just to get a bit of protein. This sees me through to lunch.
12noon I have lunch - it's something like tuna and salad on a pita bread wrap, or smoked salmon and slivers of avocado on corn crackers, with a side salad, or, on days when I'm feeling like some carbs, I'll have a toasted sandwich on wholegrain bread with 98%fat free ham and a slice of low-fat cheese, plus a small can of tomato soup.
By 2.30pm I'm usually hungry again, so I'll eat a carton of low-fat yogurt or a muesli bar. At 4pm, I'll top up with another piece of fruit; generally an apple or a 1/2 rockmelon diced up; in summer it might be 2 apricots or nectarines. (I take all my food to work, 'cause I know exactly when I'll be hungry and when, and pretty much am never wrong)
When I get home from work (5.30pm) I'll have a glass of diet soft drink, then eat 10 x pretzels or a small pack of corn snacks (15g). Just to tide me over till dinner.
Dinner is my main meal of the day (contrary to what most people reccommend... oh well). I'll eat a hearty dinner around 7.30pm, but it's always low-fat, low-kilojoule.. something like a chicken and vegie stirfry with noodles, or a spaghetti bolegnaise made with really low-fat mince and fresh tomatoes.
About 8.30-9pm I eat my small, sweet snack for the day, which might be 1/2 cup of low-fat chocolate mousse, or 1 scoop low-fat icecream in a cone. Then I have a cup of de-caf coffee, a ciggarette, and I go to bed at 10.30pm-ish.
As you can see, I never stop eating. But it's all healthy, small meals... and I dunno... it works for me.
If you are a healthy weight, and you think you are getting adequate Omega 3's, protein, and vitamins, I can't see that you have a problem. the reason I eat the way I do is because I've been on Weight Watchers since I was about 19 (I'm 31 now)... it's become a way of life to eat the way I do. But if you really do want to change, and think you should, consult a nutritionist.