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FreakAliciousCYN
13-10-2005, 16:47
anyone have any tips on how to make the guy cum really fast? thanks :)

liquidheaven
13-10-2005, 18:18
As a guy I'd say...

Use two hands and your mouth.

Put your thumb and pointer fingers together to make a little ring around his cock. Do this with both hands. Squeeze them just tight enough to cause pressure wherever you are touching.

As your head moves up and down use those rings youve made with your hands to sort of jack him off while you are blowing him.

Only use your hands to move DOWN his cock, never go up, as that causes negative friction.

This technique helps you because you won't have to deep throat him because your hands give the effect of more of his cock being enveloped by you.

This should be an easy way to get that O outta him.

Good luck, let me know how it goes.

WoozEee
13-10-2005, 19:09
I can share this knowledge with you, but I need to know why you want to make him cum so fast. :) There is nothing like, IMHO, bringing him to, and keeping him at the brink until he can't take it anymore. Sometimes I stretch it out for 30 minutes or more. But I can make him cum in a minute if I wanted to.

The secrets are speed, pressure, and following his body language. The best position for this BJ is you kneeling between his legs with him laying down, sitting up, or standing. Also, for a fast cum, you need to use hands and mouth together, as one... ;) Start off slow and gentle engulfing him in your mouth and smoothly take him as far into your mouth/throat as is comfortable following your mouth with your hand (make sure it is wet) and basically follow your mouth with your hand all the while rotating your wrist/fist a half turn left and a half turn right, cover your teeth with your lips and don't feel shy about getting a little slobbery, get him lubed up with your mouth and then increase the pressure with your hands and lips gently. (FOLLOW HIS CUES, EVERY MAN IS DIFFERENT!!!!!)

If you are doing things right you will feel him harden even more in your mouth. Use your other hand and reach down to cup his boys. Massage them gently with one hand while you continue your oral assault with your mouth and other hand. Maintain the speed you get the best reaction from and don't forget to use that tongue against his cock. When he is about to cum... DON'T SLOW DOWN OR BACK OFF!!! Finish the job ladies! ;)

Okay, now I am horny and wishing my man were here. He should be home soon though... maybe I should bust out the vibrating tongue ring. :)

Smiles,

Wooz

roshy
14-10-2005, 12:13
I hear consistency works well.

But I agree with Wooz, it shouldn't be about the happy ending, but the journey!

gemslave
14-10-2005, 13:44
Hrm well I find I love giving head, and sometimes after my bf comes i let him rest for a bit and then keep going!
Anyway I have alot of different techniques that seem to work for me.
However a large part of the guys enjoyment will come from the fact that there is a girl (or guy whatever your preference) who is sucking him off!
Deepthroating is really cool, but its tricky at first esp if you are nervous.
Anyway the way i learned to be good at head is by experimenting
Imagine you are a penis, what would u want done to you to make you feel good? lol
Just try different things with your tongue and mouth and hands, and listen to how your boy reacts. He'll let you know if what you are doing feels good! But always make sure you aren't feeling uncomfortable, cause if you are doing difficult things it will really make your jaw ache afterwards!
Have confidence, feel sexy, and don't worry too much, and you'll find it comes naturally.
I always have fun giving head to my bf, and the cuddles i get afterward make up for any time its difficult, or taking too long.

kittyinthedark
14-10-2005, 18:27
Follow the advice that's been given here - it's all really good. And really, whyever would you want it to go quick?!?!? ;) :D

fairnymph
14-10-2005, 23:21
Deep throating! At least IME.

sixpartseven
15-10-2005, 00:37
As a guy, coming isnt the best part. DONT GET ME WRONG, it is amazing. But...


it shouldn't be about the happy ending, but the journey!

Exactly.:)

SxyFemmeFatale
15-10-2005, 00:43
Hands, Mouth, Tongue, Pressure, also.. DONT FORGET THE BALLS, those things need attention too.

Deep throating works well... stick out ur tongue as far as you can, once you are down and use pressure with your tongue to press against the base of the cock and massage it.

If you can't DT, use your hands (make sure they're lubed), massage the cock with both hands, and suck firmly (not hard) using ur tongue on the base of the cock on the inside (where the base and sac meet),do all this while stroking him, make ur hand alittle bit tighter with each inch you move down his cock.

Oh yeah.. moaning.. dirty talk work really well with it all..

don't forget to swallow haha ;)

sixpartseven
15-10-2005, 00:58
don't forget to swallow haha ;)

Best. advice. ever.

clip'
15-10-2005, 04:38
as a guy, id have to say the speed. if you want him to cum quick, u gota have the speed up. think about how guys wank. fast! haha.

nndmt
15-10-2005, 04:47
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dirtyharrison
15-10-2005, 07:25
My problem is getting head...ive been having sex for about 2 years and im 17..but ive never had a proper headjob which made me cum...hardly any girls have given me head (i keep myself clean as aswell) and the ones that do, do a shit job and dont finish me

G-licious
15-10-2005, 11:37
Imagine you are a penis.

HAha...i had a dream that i HAD a penis once and i woke up and gave good head happily ever after...

I agree with WoozEee. Gurl, you should write a book...or open a school...

dialated665
15-10-2005, 16:33
Use your hands ;)

For some reason, i can never Cum Reciving head..... I've had some pretty good expieriences.. but I just dont get stimulated enough during Head.

maybe all my partners are just really shit at giving head, or maybe i just prefer intercorse

Peace Out

Dialated665

nndmt
15-10-2005, 18:31
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cxsx
15-10-2005, 20:25
here's what i do, it works like a charm too.
get it slip sloppy slisssloppity wet so wet that droplets of spit should be fliyin up in ya face when you bob your head on his shit. i mean so wet you can hear it splackin. i'm serious, wetness is the key, they love hearing it slosh in your mouth too. when you deep throat your mouth will drool as a reaction so go ahead and take it deep. MOAN while you suck him, look up at him a few times and let him watch his cock sink into your mouth. TWIST your hand and jack him while you bob your mouth over the crown of his cock. act like you have no other purpose in life except to SUCK HIS delicious DICK!!!! they love that.
you could even chant something like

"iloveyourcock..iloveyourcock...iloveyourcock" heh ;)

MikeyLikesE
15-10-2005, 21:38
"iloveyourcock..iloveyourcock...iloveyourcock" heh ;)

yessssss


for me, it's pressure, hands, playing wit balls, consistancy and speed. if you are constantly stopping and switching it up, taking breaths and shit, it distracts me.

oh and for those of you that said you cant come from head....

you've never gotten good head.

now im sure there are some of you out there that have medical issues or whatever....

but.

when i was younger, seems like all the girls gave bad head. i thought there must be something wrong with me. some girls started callin me 40 minute man....cause theyd be down there for almost that long and i wouldnt come.

well.

thats becasue they gave bad head. teeth scrapes, no pressure, no hands....just bobbin lightly up and down, the occasional sigh after a few minutes go by and i didnt come (which only made it worse)

but then.....

i met this girl, lets call her amythest angie. she loved giving head.....and under her lips i couldnt last but 3 minutes....

BECAUSE SHE KNEW and LOVED to give head. thats the bottom line....love what your doing and you'll be good at it. just want it to be over "in a minute" and it'll be shit.

rm-rf
15-10-2005, 21:57
THERE IS NO ONE WAY TO GET A GUY OFF, THERE IS NO "TRIGGER," EVERY GUY IS DIFFERENT!


Put your thumb and pointer fingers together to make a little ring around his cock. Do this with both hands. Squeeze them just tight enough to cause pressure wherever you are touching.

As your head moves up and down use those rings youve made with your hands to sort of jack him off while you are blowing him.

Only use your hands to move DOWN his cock, never go up, as that causes negative friction.

This technique helps you because you won't have to deep throat him because your hands give the effect of more of his cock being enveloped by you.

This should be an easy way to get that O outta him.


i hate that. unless i tell her to stop, a womans neck will give out before i cum that way.


talk like a filthy whore too...whenever you come up for a breath

i absolutely detest that as well. i love hearing a girl tell me she likes the size of my member and she enjoys pleasureing me/having sex/etc, but when they start talking like a bratty pornstar i have to tune them out. theres a difference between talking sexy or dirty and sounding like a gutterslut.


don't forget to swallow haha

eh call me a perv, but i think its way hotter if a girl lets me cum in her mouth and lets it slowly dribble out of her mouth down her chin and across her chest, while she keeps sucking. like i said above, everyone is different.

also deep throating isnt always the way to go. id prefer she just kept all the attention on the top half of my cock. i love to wathc a girl try to do it, yeah, but thats not what is going to get me off.


teeth scrapes

yeah for every teeth/tooth scrape, you are going to add about 5 minutes onto his ETA for orgasm.


There is nothing like, IMHO, bringing him to, and keeping him at the brink until he can't take it anymore. Sometimes I stretch it out for 30 minutes or more. But I can make him cum in a minute if I wanted to.


i love this woman...


If you are doing things right you will feel him harden even more in your mouth. Use your other hand and reach down to cup his boys. Massage them gently with one hand while you continue your oral assault with your mouth and other hand.

this sounds good too, but dont give too much attention to the balls, and remember, they are really sensitive. emphasis on gently. its better to grab the area where the scrotum is like attached to the body, rather than the balls themselves. paying attention to body language, sounds he is making, and if he is stiffening harder or not is the best way to determine what he likes.




oh and for those of you that said you cant come from head....

wow if i had half a cent for every time i heard that i could retire. i dare anyone to try. its not medical, its not really psychological - if i am getting really good head i could stay hard for like 45 - 60 mins (its been done). and i love EVERY second of it. doesnt mean im going to come, but i love it anyways. i need way more stimulation to get off than what a mouth can provide. i need to feel flesh around the entire area of my pelvis as well. the motion of sexual activity has a lot to do with it. it cant be done via head. ive always thought that if i had no sexual attention for like ... a month, and was really stoned so that i was super sensitive, then maybe i could come from head. im not gonna list any examples of why, but trust me when i say i highly doubt there is a woman out there that could get me off via oral.

i hate it when that topic comes up in conversation, cuz then every woman interperets it as a challenge, and they are always like "you uve just never had good head **snicker snicker snicker** "

trust me, its always been a fantasy of mine to be proven wrong in that regard.

7zark7
15-10-2005, 21:57
act like you have no other purpose in life except to SUCK HIS delicious DICK!!!!

In a word: Enthusiasm :)

One other thing... before you start, tell him you want to bring him off quickly. It will put him in the correct frame of mind! :)

rm-rf
15-10-2005, 22:12
yah ENTHUSIASM IS THE KEY! There is NOTHING more unnatractive than acting like you are bored or fullfilling a chore. even if you feel that way, you owe it to your partner to act as though its your favorite past time next to eating chocolate.

FreakAliciousCYN
16-10-2005, 03:09
I can share this knowledge with you, but I need to know why you want to make him cum so fast. :) There is nothing like, IMHO, bringing him to, and keeping him at the brink until he can't take it anymore. Sometimes I stretch it out for 30 minutes or more. But I can make him cum in a minute if I wanted to.

The secrets are speed, pressure, and following his body language. The best position for this BJ is you kneeling between his legs with him laying down, sitting up, or standing. Also, for a fast cum, you need to use hands and mouth together, as one... ;) Start off slow and gentle engulfing him in your mouth and smoothly take him as far into your mouth/throat as is comfortable following your mouth with your hand (make sure it is wet) and basically follow your mouth with your hand all the while rotating your wrist/fist a half turn left and a half turn right, cover your teeth with your lips and don't feel shy about getting a little slobbery, get him lubed up with your mouth and then increase the pressure with your hands and lips gently. (FOLLOW HIS CUES, EVERY MAN IS DIFFERENT!!!!!)

If you are doing things right you will feel him harden even more in your mouth. Use your other hand and reach down to cup his boys. Massage them gently with one hand while you continue your oral assault with your mouth and other hand. Maintain the speed you get the best reaction from and don't forget to use that tongue against his cock. When he is about to cum... DON'T SLOW DOWN OR BACK OFF!!! Finish the job ladies! ;)

Okay, now I am horny and wishing my man were here. He should be home soon though... maybe I should bust out the vibrating tongue ring. :)

Smiles,

Wooz


I usually give my guy head for awhile, but I can never make him cum. plus it'd be fun to get him to cum during road head ;)

LivingLegends
16-10-2005, 03:51
what a good thread.

LostInSpace
20-10-2005, 08:24
In my opinion attitude is the most important thing. The stuff everyone else has posted is good advice but you have to really want the guy's dick.

You have to be really into it, lazy blow jobs are the worst

glitterbizkit
20-10-2005, 23:05
^ true dat. I give better head when I'm really, really enjoying myself.

liquidheaven
28-10-2005, 22:03
FYI: not all guys like their balls touched during head. i.e. ME!

Mayube a little rubbing around the ass though... a light touch here a little pressure there. That's a nice addition.

MDMARI
28-10-2005, 23:12
get it slip sloppy slisssloppity wet so wet that droplets of spit should be fliyin up in ya face when you bob your head on his shit. i mean so wet you can hear it splackin

So true, you want you man feelin like he is fuckin the shit out of some wet pussy

And add some dirty dirty whorish talk and you have him bustin in no time.%)

trance boi
28-10-2005, 23:17
anyone have any tips on how to make the guy cum really fast? thanks :)


are u entering a dick sucking contest?

WoozEee
29-10-2005, 05:54
There has been some good advice on here. The most important thing, IMHO, is to try different things and see what he responds to. Also, when you are adding more pressure and want to do things harder or faster, work up to it. Follow his body language and watch for clues.

Thanks for the compliments guys... What can I say, I love sucking dick. *blushes* My man is the only one that benefits from my love of his cock. I can't get enough and even dream about sucking him. He thinks he is lucky, but I am glad to have a man that will let me suck him as often as I want to.

Writing a book may be fun, but my man and I always joke about making a how to video. I know he is willing to help me put in the research time. My goal right now is to give him something I can't give him alone, the double blow job. I am looking for a hot little bi girl to help me suck him to ecstacy. Wish me luck...

GoddessLSD-XTC
30-10-2005, 01:57
Yes, several guys did not like me touching "him" or the ballz. So I learned not to. Use alot of tongue. I think most guys would like it to last forever and ever. After about 20 minutes I took a breather and told him: "I'm sorry I did not get you off." To which he replied, "You must promise to swallow," which I did. Moreover, it was in a public place . . . the most beautiful place for outdoor sex and I did not want to pollute the environment. Yes, I too am a semen vampire.