Hi guys,
Sorry if this isn't in the right thread! One of my best friends (of her own accord) has decided she wants to take some ecstasy on New Years Day. I'm fine with it and excited for her, but I'm just wondering how exactly to go about dealing with her first time.
I remember my first time and it was all this crazy experience where I didnt know what the fuck was happening to me, and a bit full-on in a way. I guess I'm just worried coz I've been in the scene for nearly a year now and I've kinda forgotten how new all the effects are and kinda scary in a way to begin with. I'm just not sure how I should deal with her, what's the best place to do it (club or somewhere quieter), do I be soothing about it all or let her do her own thing?! And if she freaks out?
I feel like I need to give her a pamphlet or something to educate her about effects and all that! So I guess I just dunno what to do in this situation coz someone's always taken care of me in that situation and I wouldn't really know what to do with roles reversed.
So yeah, any advice would be appreciated! And should her first time be at something big or somewhere quieter before like maybe just a normal club?
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Sorry if this isn't in the right thread! One of my best friends (of her own accord) has decided she wants to take some ecstasy on New Years Day. I'm fine with it and excited for her, but I'm just wondering how exactly to go about dealing with her first time.
I remember my first time and it was all this crazy experience where I didnt know what the fuck was happening to me, and a bit full-on in a way. I guess I'm just worried coz I've been in the scene for nearly a year now and I've kinda forgotten how new all the effects are and kinda scary in a way to begin with. I'm just not sure how I should deal with her, what's the best place to do it (club or somewhere quieter), do I be soothing about it all or let her do her own thing?! And if she freaks out?
I feel like I need to give her a pamphlet or something to educate her about effects and all that! So I guess I just dunno what to do in this situation coz someone's always taken care of me in that situation and I wouldn't really know what to do with roles reversed.
So yeah, any advice would be appreciated! And should her first time be at something big or somewhere quieter before like maybe just a normal club?
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