Oh my god I love 70s vibes and some electronic music like “Lover Chanting” by Little Dragon. I also find that “hype” songs like “Look at me” by Xxxtentacion get me going. My boyfriend played “Cruisin” by Smokey Robinson the first time I rolled and now that is my go to mdma theme song lmao.
My bf and I roll solely at home and we usually listen to music, sing/rap (he’s a musician and singing feels really good bc your diaphragm is relaxed and you sound way better than normal), and we try to have sex. Sex is usually uneventful because the blood is dispersed all throughout your body when rolling unlike when you’re sober so orgasm is pretty difficult to achieve for those with vaginas and penises. Also if you plan to have sex try placing a wash cloth drenched in hot water on the penis to draw more blood to the penis (if you or a partner have one). It’s a 50/50 chance that the penis could stay erect but it’s worth a shot if you’re down. Sex drive is usually super high the next day, but that may just be a psychological thing. We usually end up just talking for about 2-4 hours on the come down (we rarely remember the convos afterward though). Because the time flies so quickly I’m sure there are other things we do but I have little memory of it.
He hasn’t attempted any methods aside from using a hot wet rag to stimulate more blood flow in the penis. I guess the issue isn’t that we’re not able to have sex because we do it most nights we roll, but orgasm is extremely hard to achieve for both of us. It’s like the experience just plateaus when the peak should come which makes the experience kinda sucky because all that work was put in just to feel unsatisfied lol. We thought of viagra but that seems dangerous because it would be impacting your cardiovascular system on top of the mdma.