Medbithead
Bluelighter
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- May 12, 2019
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I am the girl in this story. I met a man on the Internet. We texted and spoke by phone and he asked me to come to his city. We carried on for a month knowing of our plans. I set the restaurant —but he paid, surprise —and it totaled over 100 dollars. He paid a cab to the next place which was a bust because neither of us liked it so we walked. He kissed me outside of the first restaurant, immediately, we made out further at the new place , he pulled me close to him and
he told me he liked my body,
also once, outside he pulled my hands to his (clothed) genitals and I told him I was uncomfortable with that since we were in plain view of a restaurant,
but I’m no prude.
We walked and I had only told him what street My Airbnb was on but he said: we are now about halfway between your place and mine to which I felt myself going out loud, “I think we aren’t doing that tonight .”
I thought I could tell his face fell flat but who really can tell. And I think either I asked or he offered he would see me the next day —but after lunch, he said. I asked my friends who said wait to text him until you hear from him or at least until noonish.
I texted: come over and take me to school on Robinhood
(which, you know is a stock trading platform that we both have talked about.) I meant for it to sound like innuendo.
But he didn’t respond. My cousin checked in on me and I told him. He said it was nice weather in the city so I should enjoy the city and text him only this:
I am around and enjoying the area text me if you want to meet.
I could have stopped there. But I was floored. Why didn’t he call
he told me he liked my body. So I continued to text and call and text, which I know is my mistake. I paid some money to see some Monets, for about an hour, and still didn’t hear from him.
but I hate to think that because I did not let him stay over that first night, and go to bed with him then, that he thought it wasn’t worth it? I have no doubt I would have had him climbing the walls. >
Of the fact that he ghosted and has not said boo to me, frankly my friends have said there may be reasons of which I am unaware and which have nothing to do with me.
I want this man back but you cannot consider that I ever had him. your advice
he told me he liked my body,
also once, outside he pulled my hands to his (clothed) genitals and I told him I was uncomfortable with that since we were in plain view of a restaurant,
but I’m no prude.
We walked and I had only told him what street My Airbnb was on but he said: we are now about halfway between your place and mine to which I felt myself going out loud, “I think we aren’t doing that tonight .”
I thought I could tell his face fell flat but who really can tell. And I think either I asked or he offered he would see me the next day —but after lunch, he said. I asked my friends who said wait to text him until you hear from him or at least until noonish.
I texted: come over and take me to school on Robinhood
(which, you know is a stock trading platform that we both have talked about.) I meant for it to sound like innuendo. But he didn’t respond. My cousin checked in on me and I told him. He said it was nice weather in the city so I should enjoy the city and text him only this:
I am around and enjoying the area text me if you want to meet.
I could have stopped there. But I was floored. Why didn’t he call
he told me he liked my body. So I continued to text and call and text, which I know is my mistake. I paid some money to see some Monets, for about an hour, and still didn’t hear from him.
but I hate to think that because I did not let him stay over that first night, and go to bed with him then, that he thought it wasn’t worth it? I have no doubt I would have had him climbing the walls. >
Of the fact that he ghosted and has not said boo to me, frankly my friends have said there may be reasons of which I am unaware and which have nothing to do with me.
I want this man back but you cannot consider that I ever had him. your advice
