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Who gives it to you right?

My wifey! We have a 4 yo so I really empathize with the posters with kids who are going for long stretches without sex but.... it's REALLY important to find a way to have sex. It can seriously make or break your relationship.

With the kid it can be hard to find time to bang, but you gotta squeeze it in (get it, haha!) when the kiddos over at grandmas for an hour, after he falls asleep before we go to bed, whenever.

I guess some folks feel like they need a huge block of time, and want to make it all romantic, and take it slow or whatever... but with a kid, if there's not a lot of free time and you're always stressed and tired, you might be going months without. So.... learn to love the quickie! And divest yourself of the notion that it's not meaningful sex or whatever. You're still fucking your partner you love right?

All we need is like 15 minutes, she says to me, "I need your hard dick now" and I'm on her lol. We skip right to the hard and fast, she loves it, I love it, we're both porn stars for each other!

You gotta make it happen somehow when you have a kid or kids. It sounds like hubby is really tired and stressed, but you need to find a way to get it on so both your needs are met. Maybe he feels like he has to take it slow, and seduce you romantically, and doesn't feel motivated for that, but he could be motivated to skip straight to the hard fucking if that's what you want, if he knew that you were cool with that.

If stress is making it hard for him to get hard on demand, talk to a doctor and get some boner pills, or order them online.

You both need to fuck/be fucked or your relationship will not last. Have an honest discussion about it. And learn to love the quickie!
 
blue_locus said:
My wifey! We have a 4 yo so I really empathize with the posters with kids who are going for long stretches without sex but.... it's REALLY important to find a way to have sex. It can seriously make or break your relationship.

With the kid it can be hard to find time to bang, but you gotta squeeze it in (get it, haha!) when the kiddos over at grandmas for an hour, after he falls asleep before we go to bed, whenever.

I guess some folks feel like they need a huge block of time, and want to make it all romantic, and take it slow or whatever... but with a kid, if there's not a lot of free time and you're always stressed and tired, you might be going months without. So.... learn to love the quickie! And divest yourself of the notion that it's not meaningful sex or whatever. You're still fucking your partner you love right?

All we need is like 15 minutes, she says to me, "I need your hard dick now" and I'm on her lol. We skip right to the hard and fast, she loves it, I love it, we're both porn stars for each other!

You gotta make it happen somehow when you have a kid or kids. It sounds like hubby is really tired and stressed, but you need to find a way to get it on so both your needs are met. Maybe he feels like he has to take it slow, and seduce you romantically, and doesn't feel motivated for that, but he could be motivated to skip straight to the hard fucking if that's what you want, if he knew that you were cool with that.

If stress is making it hard for him to get hard on demand, talk to a doctor and get some boner pills, or order them online.

You both need to fuck/be fucked or your relationship will not last. Have an honest discussion about it. And learn to love the quickie!
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We def gotta work out the kinks.
I need to be fucked and just plain do the nasty. He takes forever to come...more than 45 mins. We need to find a baby sitter ASAP
 
My husband.
OhMyFuck.

I thought orgasms didn't exist and that it was all a big lie....

I had my first orgasm on him and that's how I know he's the one.
 
Baby sitters are great, but not always possible. If you really want to get it on, learn to have sex while your kids are at home!

If they're under the age of two, wait for them to take a nap and get to it.

If they're two or older, you can have sex while they're awake! This also teaches your kids about healthy sexual relationships between two loving individuals as they get older.
Give them a tablet for an hour, tell them that mommy and daddy are going to have special mommy-daddy alone time, and that they may hear some noises and that it's ok, and not to bother you.
Most kids will get absorbed in the tablet anyway and it's no big deal. Then, get a lock for your bedroom. Boom -- sexy time while your kid is awake and at home, and it reinforces healthy sexual standards as your kid gets older. Try it, you'll like it! ;)
 
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