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Twenty bongs while her son sleeps

poledriver

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Women and weed: the gender differences in cannabis use and abuse

"I couldn't ever imagine anything worse than going without marijuana," mother, 29, says.

Naomi* smokes a couple of bongs in the morning after her two-year-old son has been fed and clothed. Once he is asleep at night, she smokes about 20 more.

The 29-year-old says she wakes up feeling fresh the next day. She pays her bills, sticks to a routine and never smokes in front of her son.

With cannabis, "everything is that little bit more pleasant," Naomi says. But without it, her body begins to shake and anxiety takes over. "I couldn't ever imagine anything worse than going without marijuana," she says.

Naomi belongs to a growing number of women who smoke weed every day, according to the latest National Drug Strategy Household Survey.

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The research shows that of the 1.9 million Australians over 14 years old who have used cannabis in the past year, 1.2 million are men. But female smokers are now more likely to use every day. Fourteen per cent of women users smoke daily, compared with 12 per cent of men.

Women also tend to become addicted more quickly, suffer worse withdrawal symptoms and are less likely to seek help, international research suggests.

"Women have a higher tolerance so they need to use at higher levels," says Jan Copeland, head of the National Cannabis Prevention and Information Centre.

"They are more at risk of negative effects including paranoia and other kinds of anxiety-type feelings, but also to addiction."

Large studies from Yale University in 2011 and Columbia University in 2012 found women were more likely to "telescope" in their use, moving quickly from first joint to dependency.

Lighting up is also a better predictor of poor mental health in women than it is in men, researchers from King's College London and Utrecht University reported in 2014.

"Men tend to use for positive reasons," Ms Copeland says. "They are having fun, their friends are using, cannabis is available: they just go with the flow."

Women, on the other hand, are more likely to smoke "to relieve an internal distress situation".

Emma*, 31, calls herself a "high-functioning drug addict". She is a single mother to a seven-year-old, employed part-time and about to embark on a masters degree in law.

Having tried cannabis for the first time when she was about 16, Emma has spent the past eight years smoking "full time": a cone every 45 minutes or so. It helps her sleep at night, switch off and avoid drama, she says.

"If someone passes on, you can just numb it off with a couple of bongs. You don't have to sit there and grieve in that emotion."

Heavy users of either gender risk well-documented harms such as mental illness, insomnia and attention problems, the Australian Medical Association warns.

More mysterious are the brain changes that may explain why men and women use – and even appear to experience – the drug differently.

Monash University neuroscientist Valentina Lorenzetti​ says sex hormones such as estrogen may play a role as they shape development in the teenage years.

"The sex differences in the brain include subtly different anatomy and a different distribution and function of brain cannabinoid receptors," Lorenzetti says.

Ironically, the hormones that may explain women's increased sensitivity have led to their exclusion from many studies. Clinicians seeking to eliminate variables generally prefer the hormonal stability of men.

NSW Health, which provides six cannabis rehabilitation clinics, does not offer treatment along gender lines.

"Research into specific reactions for women and cannabis is new, and is not supported by a strong evidence base at this time," a spokeswoman says.

*Names have been changed at interviewees' request to protect their privacy.

Cannabis Helpline 1800 30 40 50

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Read more: http://www.smh.com.au/nsw/women-and...-and-abuse-20160117-gm7xbh.html#ixzz3yCBf9ce3
 
poledriver said:
"If someone passes on, you can just numb it off with a couple of bongs. You don't have to sit there and grieve in that emotion."


That's healthy
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Damn she has twenty bongs? And why did she smoke them all while her son slept? that's rude....

Oh he's a baby. 8o
 
Lol, the mighty Jisoe!

"Would've been easier to run a 100 metres flat stick than to pull that buge"
 
I know that a parent smoking cannabis while taking care of their child is supposed to be SCARY for the uneducated mainstream masses.
But when I used cannabis while taking care of my children, I mostly read to my kids, or made up stories for them, or played ball with them, or taught them music or math or science.
Terrifying, right?
The cannabis helped me relax, so I could focus on what was important - my kids - instead of brooding on what was happening at work, etc.
It also (apparently contradictorily) helped give me energy, so that I could read etc. even though I was tired after a long day.
Thank goodness for cannabis when parenting, I say.
 
^What I think is ridiculous is that these people in the media are usually portrayed going through great lengths to not appear "stoned" in front of the kids but for a regular user cannabis might do little more than redden the eyes and alleviate some anxiety.
 
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I'm with slimvictor.. I don't have kids but marijuana is honestly is my glass of wine at the end of the day. I doubt I would stop smoking when I have a child. I can still function properly and get everything done that I need to. When I had quit for several months, my anxiety was completely unmanageable and I had to drop out of school and work three short shifts a week. Once I started smoking again, I was able to get back in the routine of things. I do have to watch out for when my smoking starts to get severely nonproductive .. whenever that happens I've always seemed to snap back and stay motivated. Hope it stays that way. I have been successfully getting through each day and managing negative thoughts for about a year now and I'm every proud.
 
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