trying to decide....

[brokenwings89]

my bf and i have had problems from the get go in our short 4 mo relationship. buthe most persistant and prevelant one his constant masturbation, i have discussed my concerns (and grievences) with him. but it hasnt stopped. we startedto do mutual masturbation which helped a lot, but recentlty he has woken me up (he does it in bed next to me which shakes the hell outta th ebed...i hate it) even after i had helped him "achieve his goal" i do not have a low sex drive and am bewildered as to what the hell the problem is. after the last episode i slept on the couch, we didnt speak much the today until dinner and then goofed around and i was hoping things were gonna even out. then he was off to his comp (like he is all day) and abruptly at (10 pm) went off to bed, well t masturbate and then bed i guess......i kno this can read as if it was a joke but its not. and its an ongoing painful thing added to a list of crap. i just dont know if i should keep trying in this relationship or just let it go. would appreciate any advice.......ty

 

[Vagina Lover]

So his constant masturbation is the main problem in the relationship?

Does he take any medications or drugs like meth?

 

[Pretty_Diamonds]

Tell him to take it to the bathroom. It's not cool for him to disturb you.

 

[My3sons]

I used to get woken up to being touched by my ex. I found that to be annoying. It felt extremely violating. It felt like being molested.