There's definitely something weird about SSRIs one should strongly investigate before trying SSRIs if you ask me. I can't give references for now, have to search again about the current state of knowledge but my own experiences were very bad on the long run, I have permanent changes from just around 2 years of venlafaxine (okay, and DXM, but I don't think that one is special in terms of being a SNRI), it has finally messed my 5-HT up. I get these horrible brain zaps all the time, just 1 single day of something serotonergic is enough currently to get a multiple of days of withdrawal symptoms. Using NMDA antagonists solves this, but on the rebound they come back - there is evidence for SSRIs to cause downstream changes in glutamate and it probably contributed to my general over-excitation - nothing one would want. Can't say if it's about gene changes or dysregulated receptors.
Of course there are many out there for which the SSRIs work. Just that I'd say the chance to catch long term effects might be as high as 50% - some get positive changes (they won't complain of course), some negatives. Would give about 25% and think this matches with what we read and hear from users. Many just stay on the SSRI for a long or infinite time or live with the symptoms, thinking it was the underlying 'disease' which I don't believe, at least not completely. Things change. You trade something for something else, unknown. In German we say to this 'you buy the cat in a bag', meaning you pay for something you can't know unless you've already paid.
I really don't know what to think about the SSRIs for now. If it's about the downstream changes, then we better make them happen directly (e.g. memantine).
Also one point might be the initial, acute reaction. Maybe we can track this down by reading reports. I think that if one gets hypomanic in the first days or weeks then it's a sign not to use SSRIs, or a weaker one. Paroxetine is very bad in this regard. Venlafaxine is a good one (acutely), but it is strongly prone to nasty long-term effects and withdrawals. Important for us males are the sexual side effects, I think they are still under-rated. So many get them, and they hardly go away.
We really should have more selective 5-HT agents available, even if they failed in the trials I'm sure they will work for some of us. 5-HT1a agonists, 5-HT2a inverse agonists, you know ...