Threesomes, Sexual Exploration & Its Effects

[DeathDomokun]

Have you noticed how often you say you're not (going to) brag(ing) when you're actually bragging?

 

[Lustmord]

If two men blow in a woman their sperm competes to fertilize the egg.

Whichever man comes first has a head start for his sperm.

Therefore whichever man is more turned on by a MFM is more likely to come first and more likely to pass on their genes and their genes contain the coding that makes them more turned on by MFM.

This evolutionary adaption to cheating polyamory and so on unfortunately has the unintended side effect of men seeking out that situation so as to experience the heightened arousal and pleasure.

However it must be beneficial more times than not otherwise evolution would've selected against it by now. Anything that is truly maladaptive is always weeded out by evolution so there must be more wife's cheating than men willingly sharing.

So you think that we're changing to come faster in MMF situations, and thusly seek out more MMF situations? Interesting enough..

That could be plausible if sexual fetishes like troilism were solely dictated by genes, and if MMF were our sole way of reproducing. Do you not think that we would simply avoid MMF encounters if it interfered with our reproduction enough to be selected for? If anything it would be selected against.

Again, I think it's just a fetish. Someone is going to be more aroused than the other, and someone might have less "sexual prowess" than the other. Even if sexual fetishes were dictated only through genes, I would think that pregnancies through MMF encounters occur on such a small scale that it would be near-irrelevant on an "evolutionary" scale.

 

[rangrz]

Why would one need to have an MMF or go to a swingers club to see other guys wrenches? Never done the MMF thing, have been to sex (altho not really swingers so much as SM related) clubs, but I've seen far, far more penises (in person, not counting pron) in course of changing and showing starting at middle school gym, continuing into H.S., public and membership gyms and last but my no means least, changing at work.

I'm talking literally thousands of penises. Some are bigger then mine, some are smaller, some are the same. Who cares?

 

[lola]

But that doesn't mean you see them erect I guess? So not really a point of comparison... plus, some men are very insecure about the size of their cocks (obviously, not you ) so seeing other men in action who don't care if they're average size, even less, and are able to let it go and bang away can be quite liberating and uninhibiting perhaps?

 

[ogodawg]

I dont think I could do the MMF thing unless I was rolling. I have done the swingers club before it was such a high.

 

[rangrz]

But that doesn't mean you see them erect I guess? So not really a point of comparison... plus, some men are very insecure about the size of their cocks (obviously, not you ) so seeing other men in action who don't care if they're average size, even less, and are able to let it go and bang away can be quite liberating and uninhibiting perhaps?

Some are erect... just the spontaneous boners that guys get, be around enough naked guys, and the # of random boners you see becomes significant.

I'm not insecure because a few reasons. In theory, I'd expect penis size to be a property that follows an approximately normal(Gaussian) distribution, meaning any arbitrary person should be expected to be in the peak(or within -1 σ to +1 σ of that..68% of the time, 95% are within +-2 σ) of that distribution. It also means that for someone in the peak of the distribution, for as many guys who are bigger then them, there are as many who are smaller. On a more empirical note, I have no reason to disbelieve my theory based on observations. Nor I do have any reason to believe I am a significant outlayer from that distribution in any direction. Even if I was, there would be very little I could do about it. Finally, my equipment seems to work for the task at hand well enough, and finally, I am not that insecure period.

 

[HighonLife]

^^ ive been in plenty of locker rooms in middle school and high school sports

used to go to the gym quite frequently as well

ive never seen any random boners in the locker room

and imo if its in the locker room while a bunch of guys are changin its prob not random

maybe im just not as sexy as you or something tho

 

[rangrz]

^

you what I think it is, is mostly at work, and I think it's cause the guys often have full bladders (esp in the morning right after waking up in the barracks rushing to get into uniform) and that gives me a boner and probably does the same to them.

 

[_mistresspoppy_]

From the threesomes I've done with my boyfriend, I've really started to appreciate his beautiful penis! He is average width and length, I'd say, at about 6 inches long and 1.5 ish inches in diameter. I wouldn't want a guy much bigger than my bf, in doggystyle he sometimes hits my back wall and it really hurts, I have a fairly petite frame. I really don't know, he says he's average, but he was bigger than the two different guys we had threesomes with. He also has great stanima, and he knows my body better than the strangers we sometimes share our bed with. One guy was ROCK had the whole time ( I think he took a few Viagra before hand) but he couldn't cum and I had to be on top. I HATE being on top, i love doggy style where I can just be taken. The other guy was average size. He got it up when my boyfriend was doing his ass, but when it was his turn to have sex with me (female) he couldn't get it up for me. 2 of our threesomes have been MFM, My bf is bi so there are no limits. I have enjoyed hhem but i always appreciate being alone with my boyfriend afterwards. I typically cant orgasm during a threesome, im more worried about preforming and being sexy and putting on a good show than i am about pleasing myself, so I'm ready to pounce on my boyfriend as soon as were alone!
One time we had sex with my boyfriends other girlfriend (we were still dating other people at that time). I was younger than that chicks daughter and she knew it. I did oral on her and she returned the favor. It didn't really change my image of myself, though I was a bit smugly satisfied to know Im MUCH tighter than her, as shes had 2 kids and I had only lost my virginity months ago. It was a petty "your boyfriend likes me better" thing, but we all had fun. If anything, the threesomes bring me closer to my boyfridn while still allowing me to develop my own sexuality, I was previously just open minded, now I'm a confirmed bisexual, just like my boyfriend

 

[Tchelle]

Before I had a sex change i used to do that
I always loved eating a freshly filled vagina

 

[Lacquerman Steve]

word up- whip it out boys...

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