Sugaring/sugar baby is another term for prostitution or sex for pay. I know a bisexual man who had a Colombian sugar mama, and he slept with her adult daughter who he was actually attracted to, and then when the relationships between the mother and daughter ended, as they were going to, and the daughter became obsessed with him, stalked him, and when she learned he had been kept and sleeping with her mom sent him letters with razor blades in them which he still has. He told me how he liked the attention and I told him about women and men who had stalked me.
If you want to date women try meeting women in better venues such as work, in public, in pubs, or social clubs or through friends. Or try POF or other sites or apps like tinder or bumble. Good luck. But be honest and if you do not want a serious relationship tell them this.
If you want just sex, look for prostitutes that offer GFE, but keep in mind they see other clients/punters, are with you just for money, and are not going to stop doing sex for pay for you and settle down in a relationship or domestic living situation with you. I have never paid for a prostitute or had sex with a prostitute, and have no desire to but this is what former prostitutes I know have told me.
Say goodbye and say hello.
Sure enough good to see you, but it's time to go.
Don't say yes but, please don't say no!
I don't want to be lonely tonight.