Short version of story I'd been with my boyfriend for 5 years and 6 months into the relationship I discovered he had been having sex with men for 6 years prior to me. His last encounter was two weeks before we got together. That person he'd been seeing off and on for 2 years. Some of his encounters involved meth and the other half didn't. He swears that life for him is over. But I have doubts. Any advice???? Or insight????