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Syiic

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I'm very well aware that size does not matter, however I can't help but feel a bit.. inadequate.

I'm moderately lengthy (7in, tho I'm not sure if I believe myself), but I'm not girthy at all. I haven't had sex, ever, because I'm afraid I'll embarrass myself, and not make her orgasm.

I know I shouldn't worry about it, but I just can't help feeling like I couldn't pleasure her.

I know, size doesn't matter. I know that, but it still makes me feel uncomfortable with my body.
 
size DOES matter.

it just doesn't matter as much as you worry about it in your post.

most girls are not seeking out a fuck for the sole purpose of finding a girthy cock. Some small percentage may be looking for that - but trust - your insecurities and their cock-sense will have them avoiding you anyway.

The MAJORITY of women you DO encounter have other needs that they want fulfilled, and if you don't act like a spazz about your cock, the vast majority of them will psychologically convince themselves that they love your skinny cock because of the OTHER needs that they wanted in the first place. Figure those out and focus on them.
 
The description of your penis is about identical to my own. I have had a girl for four years now and we plan getting married in the near future. You will be fine. Find someone that loves you for you
 
you've invented a big drama in your head but you haven't gone out and tried to get any ladies. thats all on you:\

everyone has some degree of body insecurity but you just gotta get out there and try your luck;)
 
Won't know until you try.. don't live in the shadow of yourself!

Corazon nailed it; the women your with won't care because they will be having other needs met.
 
Syiic said:
I know I shouldn't worry about it, but I just can't help feeling like I couldn't pleasure her..
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You won't, not with that attitude. You fuck her mind first, her vagina second.

Maybe you're afraid you might actually be successful and prove yourself wrong.
 
Keep this in mind, the girl will like you long before your pants come off, thats the females path, we do girls because they are hot and thats all we need ::) Girls want to know about "you" , are you a good guy, nice, funny, capable of taking care of her etc. You said & inches, the average size is less than 6", 5-23/4" -6" So you are bigger than 70% all men :)
Have you ever noticed a hot/sexy/pretty woman thats with a guy that not her equal visually, has a beer belly, maybe a little balding or something? Women will sacrifice on appearance to have a "great guy".
 
Keep in thought what you think is small might not be small for them. Ive went thru life thinking i have an average size cock maybe a lil on the smaller side with ok girth. 6ish length 5-6 inches girth.

Then the love of my life came along and still for awhile thought the same but knew I could satisfy women with it so never got hung up on it still wished it was bigger. Turns out its the best cock she's ever had lol. Tho its not just the junk I've never seen someone get off so much and so quickly before lol. We were talking about past partners one day and it comes out Im the first guy ever to get her off thru reg sex. and before then never been able to get someone off so quickly.

Nowadays Im content with what I got and I think its helped me be more free and unchained sexual wise. There's not really much you can do to change what you got besides a cock ring but that'll just make it more rigid which aint bad and those jelque techniques or w/e but im not to sold on that philosophy and really dont see how you could gain a noticible difference considering the dick aint a muscle.

O and btw if you didnt realize this or not Dudes lie there asses off on the internet about there size etc maybe for a fear of being made fun of or who knows but you got a dick it aint a micro penis so be happy and use it. Before you know you'll be an old ass dude eating viagra by the handful and wishing you woulda had sex more n not been hung up. Vagina's arent some cavernous depression that need pornstar cock.
 
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