InnocentMinx
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- May 27, 2016
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Hi everyone, looking for a new perspective from both males and females.
My boyfriend and I have been in a committed relationship for quite some time now (going on three years in September). He has always known how I've felt about pre-marital sex, and he always said the cliches like "You're worth the wait". At this point, if he is 'the one', we will not be getting married for another two years at least (since we are still both getting our post-secondary education). So there is the context and here is my problem.
Lately there seems to be more of a push for things.We mess around, like the occasional hand job or passionate kissing wearing nothing but underwear; very seldom does he actually try and take my panties off, sometimes he takes his off, and he's asked me for a blowjob and that's happened twice.. maybe three times but I've never asked him to go down on me in return.
He knows I'd rather wait, so now he is offering me an alternative. He's saying that since we're not having intercourse, would I at least be open to watching other people do the things we are waiting to do. I've only watched pornography a couple of times and it doesn't usually do anything for me... It's almost a little awkward for me. I don't really want to but I'm scared I will lose him if I say I'm not interested. What should I do?
My boyfriend and I have been in a committed relationship for quite some time now (going on three years in September). He has always known how I've felt about pre-marital sex, and he always said the cliches like "You're worth the wait". At this point, if he is 'the one', we will not be getting married for another two years at least (since we are still both getting our post-secondary education). So there is the context and here is my problem.
Lately there seems to be more of a push for things.We mess around, like the occasional hand job or passionate kissing wearing nothing but underwear; very seldom does he actually try and take my panties off, sometimes he takes his off, and he's asked me for a blowjob and that's happened twice.. maybe three times but I've never asked him to go down on me in return.
He knows I'd rather wait, so now he is offering me an alternative. He's saying that since we're not having intercourse, would I at least be open to watching other people do the things we are waiting to do. I've only watched pornography a couple of times and it doesn't usually do anything for me... It's almost a little awkward for me. I don't really want to but I'm scared I will lose him if I say I'm not interested. What should I do?
