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Sadly no sex drive over 45.

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emma333

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All of a sudden at 45 I no longer have the physical desire to have sex with my husband. We used to have sex at least once a week. Now, my body doesn't seem to need it or want it. What is happening? I don't like this. I love, or at least used to, have sex with my husband. Is there something I can take, like the female version or the "little blue pill"?
 
Now is the time to push your kids to have children lol. Idk, about pills, maybe some GHB would work, it works on men I've heard...
 
Hi Emma,
Every woman experiences hormonal changes as she gets older and these changes can affect your libido too.
There is a female version of viagra available. It contains a small amount of testosterone.
But it could be that you just need to adjust and find your equilibrium for a while.
Is your husband still interested in you?
I think that if you are rested and in good health this is something that might be worth talking through with your doctor.
She might recommend HRT for a while, as well as giving you a full physical just to be sure there's nothing else wrong.
I do hope you can find something that helps xxx
 
drugs are not the answer to sex problems, because you cannot rely on them to fix your sex drive.

is it linked to the menopause? or is it just something that happened over time? also has your husband let himself go?

would you be horny for a younger man? or is it all men that dont get you horny?
 
at least once a week :D - read your post,you want to get fucked. Tell you partner, Fuck me. Tell him the next day, fuck me but harder. Next day - get yourself moist (I love that word) - then tell your husband, fuck me (like a stranger :D).

You need lube, buy lube. Get your (checks wiki... seriously that many names outer inner, what wtf ) err before I go blind - lube up and fuck him.
 
Thank you, I will talk with my regular doctor. My husband is interested in me, and I want to be interested back.
 
Yes GHB does seem to make some people horny.
Be careful how you use it though and never use with alcohol.
I'm not sure if it's effect is simply desinhibiting or if something else is at work.
It has a potential for addiction.
 
Ghb makes women very horny due to its dis-inhibiting effects and something else..i dont think science even knows yet tbh but ghb is the most powerful aphrodisiac i have ever taken..i dont recommend it to fix a sex drive problem though...
 
GHB makes girls more horny than ecstasy ime and it also eliminates gag reflex for some. Ofc be safe with dosing and never mix it with other depressants.
 
TomK said:
It can be a blessing, if you know what to do with your time.
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this is true as well..if you spend your time wisely then having no sex drive can be a huge benefit as most guys spend a ton of time jerking it to porn or chasing women
 
belfort said:
this is true as well..if you spend your time wisely then having no sex drive can be a huge benefit as most guys spend a ton of time jerking it to porn or chasing women
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Image all jacking off converted to charitable work. There would be no beggar left on the streets. People have amazing potential but often end up as pray to false concepts of purpose.
 
Are you depressed? Stressed about something? Or just have a lot going on in your life with work, etc.?

I've seen TV commercials for pills and supplements for women who don't have a desire for sex; but I'm not a woman, and I don't have this issue.
 
Ginseng, Red Wine, Joint, imagination... hot bubble bath, cabin in the woods, fireplace, music. I'm sure there are many various pills or other drugs as well but it all depends on what your comfy with....
Here's hoping you get it back there lady. 45 is far too young to lose the ol sex drive.
 
Being single and dating what I've learned and experienced is after 45 women start losing they're drive and by 50 they just want to cudle. Fuck that lol. They just lose their desire for sex and its almost all of them that I dated were in some phase of not being horny. It sucks, I'm 53 and n eed to go back 10 years, the other problem I've learned which is a side effect of the first thing is mzany women have a cut off for men at 50. If you're over 50 they just arent interested. People think I'm 40 so it isnt the looks...
 
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