Hey, I am wondering if anyone can help me with new issues with this relationship. So Person-B had planned to go away in mid-December, all of January, and planned to enter into the "engineers without borders" program at the end of this year when he graduates. Person-A is now being very persistent in telling person-B he has to now either commit to either being in a serious relationship, in the sense that she is telling person-B that if he wants to keep seeng person-A then he has to change his plans for travelling and to stay with person-A. I worried that this may happen. Person-A is getting waaaay to attached to person-B.
So the question is: should person-B continue with this relationship, knowing that he is going to still go on his nomadic adventure, by remaining committed to person-A, until person-B needs to leave? This will mean person-A gets more attached and may have to deal a broken heart when person-B leaves. Person-B is better at dealing with his emotions than person-A. Plus person-A is very moody right now because she has used the "morning after pill" twice in as many weeks. Person-A is hormonal and is over reacting massively to nearly everything person-B says to her. Person-B was so tired he slept until 4pm today, he had been studying all night Thursday and had no sleep. Person-A, thinking that person-B was ignoring her and the 13 messages she had sent to person-B while he was sleeping, has unfriended person-B on facebook and has expressed dissatisfaction with the way that person-B is able to not get too upset by the thought of saying goodbye, when the time comes. Person-A seems to be encroaching into person-B's approach to life, to the point that person-A seems to want to change person-B to be more like her. Person-B wants to be himself and not change just because another person he cares for deeply is asking him to do so.
Person-B is confused again. What would you do? Do you think person-B should end the relationship to avoid any further hurting? Person-B concedes that it may be better on person-A to let her go now, rather than her getting even more attached. The persons only met about 3 weeks ago, and this relationship has developed very quickly, almost way to quickly?
Does anyone have any advice for me with getting close to girls; I want to have relationships with girls, without hurting them, but so that I can keep true to myself in the sense that I will continue with my plan to help the world and fulfil my dreams of travelling and working, rather than being tied down?