Spicebread
Greenlighter
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- Nov 17, 2015
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So I've been with the boyfriend for 5 years. Up until now, we've been daily stoners, with a couple months of quitting here and there when one of us needs a new job. We've lived together for 2 years. I've finished college and have a job that can pay the bills now, but no serious bread. I urged my boyfriend to go to a trade school to learn some valuable skills and get a better job. We discussed it, I agreed I would pay all the bills while he goes to school for less than a year. I said he would need to get a part time job to save up for school and maybe chip in for groceries. I also mentioned we should cut back on weed, because getting a tener every day/every other day gets expensive.
So he's been in school for 5 months. No job, smokes weed with a classmate or alone every day, he's high when I get home from working for 9 hours. I've lost my temper a few times with this over the last 5 months. He says he applies, but nada. I'm cool with smoking a few times a week, but every day's gotta stop. He's spent a good chunk of the money he had saved for school on weed, and now will have his mom pick up the slack for next semester's tuition.
I love him, but I feel he can't be an adult and smoke every day. I was able to work and go to school and smoke daily, and I still do fine at my job blazing daily. But I guess some people can't handle it. Do I give him another chance, even though I feel taken advantage of? Or do I cut it?
So he's been in school for 5 months. No job, smokes weed with a classmate or alone every day, he's high when I get home from working for 9 hours. I've lost my temper a few times with this over the last 5 months. He says he applies, but nada. I'm cool with smoking a few times a week, but every day's gotta stop. He's spent a good chunk of the money he had saved for school on weed, and now will have his mom pick up the slack for next semester's tuition.
I love him, but I feel he can't be an adult and smoke every day. I was able to work and go to school and smoke daily, and I still do fine at my job blazing daily. But I guess some people can't handle it. Do I give him another chance, even though I feel taken advantage of? Or do I cut it?