So this has a somewhat long back story so if you want you can just scroll down and find the final question at the end. Anyways SWIM is 15 and SWIM smokes on almost a daily basis. SWIM's dad is pro pot and they share the same bongs, pipes, lighters, grinders and any weed they, buy they put in the "Community Stash", but on the other side SWIM's mom is anti pot but she knows she can't change SWIM's dad so she picks up for him sometimes and she is extremely against SWIM smoking. She has been threatening to take home a test on a random day for some time now. Recently SWIM had went to the doctor's for a testicular torsion and they needed to take a urine sample for that. They had SWIM take another one the week after and two weeks later SWIM's mom tells SWIM that they need SWIM to take a 24 hour urine sample. During those 24 hours she kept asking SWIM if he was "scared to pee" and she said it in almost a mocking tone. Then she also told SWIM that doctors also test these for traces of drugs. The day after SWIM finished the 24 hour, she asked SWIM if SWIM had been doing any other drugs, which SWIM had been doing but not until after the test, because she said they would show up too. SWIM is pretty sure she is trying to use a scare tactic to make SWIM tell her that SWIM still smokes or does other drugs.
Questions
)1 Can doctor's use 24 hour urine samples to drug test you without warning you?
)2 If they did drug test SWIM would only using the middle stream for urine collection help SWIM pass?
)3 Do you think she arranged this behind SWIM's back?
)4 Should SWIM just come through and tell her that SWIM smokes and that it's safe? If so how and when?
PS SWIM's mom is very close minded to the point that she thinks, the blood in SWIM's urine is because SWIM smokes, That the brownies she caught SWIM with may have been cut with other drugs to "get SWIM hooked," that Cigarettes are safer than weed and that her driving to another state and waiting in a sketched out parking lot for a pick up with police patrolling is safer than just having it delivered to our house by a dealer.
Thanks
Questions
)1 Can doctor's use 24 hour urine samples to drug test you without warning you?
)2 If they did drug test SWIM would only using the middle stream for urine collection help SWIM pass?
)3 Do you think she arranged this behind SWIM's back?
)4 Should SWIM just come through and tell her that SWIM smokes and that it's safe? If so how and when?
PS SWIM's mom is very close minded to the point that she thinks, the blood in SWIM's urine is because SWIM smokes, That the brownies she caught SWIM with may have been cut with other drugs to "get SWIM hooked," that Cigarettes are safer than weed and that her driving to another state and waiting in a sketched out parking lot for a pick up with police patrolling is safer than just having it delivered to our house by a dealer.
Thanks
