Hi,
I used opiates/Oxy for about 10 years for pain. I mainly took them for pain but they did get abused once they quit working and I was looking for relief. The last few years I was on around 400 mg of Oxy per day. After about a year of trying to find buprenorphine thru a legit doctor I finally went to a walk in that only accepts cash and feels a bit sketchy. When I induced on the bupe I followed all the suggestions and ended up needing 32mg and even that didn't completely take the withdrawals away. I felt like crap for about 3 days but then started feeling pretty darn good for about a week on 16-20 mg per day. After that I started tapering and got down to 4 mg per day for the last 2 months.
Which brings me to my question. I am not doing very well mentally and a bit of a basket case. I feel depressed and go thru periods of extreme agitation and just feel pretty crappy overall. My first instinct is to take more bupe, which seems to help a little, but I'm not feeling like I'm having withdrawals just mentally in a bad place. It doesn't help that I've been having relationship problems with my wife for years, I have pretty significant medical problems and not working, don't have many friends anymore not that I've ever had a ton of them, and just don't have much positive in my life. I do have my almost 3 yr old daughter that I love to death but I also take care of her for 14 hours a day by myself and she can start pushing my buttons at times. I have probably a couple years worth of housework that needs to be done basically by myself because we can't afford to pay someone to do it, and it all seems pretty overwhelming most of the time.
It almost sounds like I'm experiencing PAWS but I also have a lot on my plate. I have been reading and started taking supplements a few days ago but not sure what I should do to feel a little human again. I want to get completely off the bupe but I don't know if I should be on more and that is why I fell into this mental funk and just accept I need to be on it for a while to get to a better place (if possible)? Or if I'm just genuinely depressed and should try an antidepressant. I've tried quite a few in the past and they seem to make me really sleepy which I can't afford and have never seemed to do much and I usually stop taking them after a few months.
If anyone has any advise I would love to hear it. I would love to feel like I did that first week when I had energy and motivation and was ready to make up for lost time. But I would also rather not be on anything and feel that way naturally. I'm on other meds that keep me alive so if I have to be on bupe to make life enjoyable then so be it, though I would rather not. I'm over opiates and have no desire to use them so that isn't an issue but I need to figure out a way to get to a better place mentally before I lose my family even though I'm fairly certain me and my wife weren't meant to be even if I didn't have these problems and at times think that would be for the best except I don't want that for my daughter. I also was exercising some for a couple weeks but have stopped now that I'm feeling so depressed.
Anyways, any suggestions would be great! Sorry this is so long, I type fast and tend to ramble.
I used opiates/Oxy for about 10 years for pain. I mainly took them for pain but they did get abused once they quit working and I was looking for relief. The last few years I was on around 400 mg of Oxy per day. After about a year of trying to find buprenorphine thru a legit doctor I finally went to a walk in that only accepts cash and feels a bit sketchy. When I induced on the bupe I followed all the suggestions and ended up needing 32mg and even that didn't completely take the withdrawals away. I felt like crap for about 3 days but then started feeling pretty darn good for about a week on 16-20 mg per day. After that I started tapering and got down to 4 mg per day for the last 2 months.
Which brings me to my question. I am not doing very well mentally and a bit of a basket case. I feel depressed and go thru periods of extreme agitation and just feel pretty crappy overall. My first instinct is to take more bupe, which seems to help a little, but I'm not feeling like I'm having withdrawals just mentally in a bad place. It doesn't help that I've been having relationship problems with my wife for years, I have pretty significant medical problems and not working, don't have many friends anymore not that I've ever had a ton of them, and just don't have much positive in my life. I do have my almost 3 yr old daughter that I love to death but I also take care of her for 14 hours a day by myself and she can start pushing my buttons at times. I have probably a couple years worth of housework that needs to be done basically by myself because we can't afford to pay someone to do it, and it all seems pretty overwhelming most of the time.
It almost sounds like I'm experiencing PAWS but I also have a lot on my plate. I have been reading and started taking supplements a few days ago but not sure what I should do to feel a little human again. I want to get completely off the bupe but I don't know if I should be on more and that is why I fell into this mental funk and just accept I need to be on it for a while to get to a better place (if possible)? Or if I'm just genuinely depressed and should try an antidepressant. I've tried quite a few in the past and they seem to make me really sleepy which I can't afford and have never seemed to do much and I usually stop taking them after a few months.
If anyone has any advise I would love to hear it. I would love to feel like I did that first week when I had energy and motivation and was ready to make up for lost time. But I would also rather not be on anything and feel that way naturally. I'm on other meds that keep me alive so if I have to be on bupe to make life enjoyable then so be it, though I would rather not. I'm over opiates and have no desire to use them so that isn't an issue but I need to figure out a way to get to a better place mentally before I lose my family even though I'm fairly certain me and my wife weren't meant to be even if I didn't have these problems and at times think that would be for the best except I don't want that for my daughter. I also was exercising some for a couple weeks but have stopped now that I'm feeling so depressed.
Anyways, any suggestions would be great! Sorry this is so long, I type fast and tend to ramble.