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my wife is commiting "sexual suicide" through drug use and I don't know what to do
Sex, love and relationships forum:
My wife went from a high sex drive for the past ten years to zero as soon as menopause hit 2 years ago. Info: she is 15 years older than me I'm in my early 30's she's in her late 40's; she hit early menopause from smoking, drinking, drug use, etc, etc so I have little sympathy. I guess it could be worse she forces herself to have sex with me every week like it's a chore. We have been together for 10 years.
I realize there are other guys in my shoes that don't get sex but once every few months or years, but it's such empty sex we have, I'm starting to get pissed off. I jack off fantasizing about cheating on her but I could never do it for real, we have no kids and never will now so morally I mean it would be bad but not the worse thing in the world. I try to be understanding but I expected another 10 years of sex so this is really pissing me off. It's kind of sad that I fantasize using sites like bluelight, cragslist, etc to cheat when I never would.
She refuses to do hormone replacement partly cause of the cost but also because she's into "natural" bullshit. There are no natural remedies for empty female sex drive. She is taking thyroid medication which helps some. While she is into the whole "natural" thing she drinks heavily and eats nothing but pure garbage, she's let her health and weight get vastly out of control while I lift weights and am obsessed with my weight and health.
I know this is purely selfish but I could deal with it more if she was interested in sex even one sliver or even keeping up her appearances. She's always had a drinking problem and at least before I could fuck her when she was drinking. Yes I've talked to her about it, she just makes excuses.
I keep reading stuff on blue light and other sites it troubles me that 99.9 % of this problem ends with someone cheating, consenting or otherwise. Isn't there anyways to get your partner back. I put up with a lot I don't care about looks but I need the person I'm with to at least satisfy me.
Sex, love and relationships forum:
My wife went from a high sex drive for the past ten years to zero as soon as menopause hit 2 years ago. Info: she is 15 years older than me I'm in my early 30's she's in her late 40's; she hit early menopause from smoking, drinking, drug use, etc, etc so I have little sympathy. I guess it could be worse she forces herself to have sex with me every week like it's a chore. We have been together for 10 years.
I realize there are other guys in my shoes that don't get sex but once every few months or years, but it's such empty sex we have, I'm starting to get pissed off. I jack off fantasizing about cheating on her but I could never do it for real, we have no kids and never will now so morally I mean it would be bad but not the worse thing in the world. I try to be understanding but I expected another 10 years of sex so this is really pissing me off. It's kind of sad that I fantasize using sites like bluelight, cragslist, etc to cheat when I never would.
She refuses to do hormone replacement partly cause of the cost but also because she's into "natural" bullshit. There are no natural remedies for empty female sex drive. She is taking thyroid medication which helps some. While she is into the whole "natural" thing she drinks heavily and eats nothing but pure garbage, she's let her health and weight get vastly out of control while I lift weights and am obsessed with my weight and health.
I know this is purely selfish but I could deal with it more if she was interested in sex even one sliver or even keeping up her appearances. She's always had a drinking problem and at least before I could fuck her when she was drinking. Yes I've talked to her about it, she just makes excuses.
I keep reading stuff on blue light and other sites it troubles me that 99.9 % of this problem ends with someone cheating, consenting or otherwise. Isn't there anyways to get your partner back. I put up with a lot I don't care about looks but I need the person I'm with to at least satisfy me.
