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My girlfriend says she hasn't had sex in 2 years what if it's true?

bingey

bingey

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Well here's the deal she works long hours and is usually exhausted by the time I get to her place. First time was just a bit of kissing initially I was thrilled we had to sleep in the same bed she told me no sex the first time so naturally I start fooling around and she just somehow manages to keep her clothes on second time around we were both tired and as I didn't get a clear signal I just slept. Now the thing is we haven't seen och other For a couple of weeks she has hinted at the possibility of sex. Which would be a first for her in 2 years now if I do believe her and want to be considerare but still wasn't to get tactfully get around to removing her clothes? Maybe she is turned on by the idea of me being a little heavy handed and this is why she has been playing so hard to get? She is polish Catholic by the way but she admitted to doing porn way back and she's definitely no angel a d I'm really into her help me out bluelight!
 
Help her take off her clothes? Some girls aren't totally comfortable taking off their clothes themselves, I know I'm not and really like it when a guy does it.
 
So I guess I just start kissing her focus on her face nose and ears cause they re scrumptious then I awkwardly t ry to take her bra off check if she's cool with me nibbling on her nipples and try to work my way down to her little rose?
 
Are you sure she really wants to have sex?
Catholics are usually very strict.
You better talk it out before you go too far.
 
bingey said:
So I guess I just start kissing her focus on her face nose and ears cause they re scrumptious then I awkwardly t ry to take her bra off check if she's cool with me nibbling on her nipples and try to work my way down to her little rose?
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Sounds like a plan!
 
NikeGirl said:
Are you sure she really wants to have sex?
Catholics are usually very strict.
You better talk it out before you go too far.
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I've slept with an Italian Catholic and an Aussie Catholic and they were both horny as hell

One was a one night stand, and the other was a friend with benefits at uni.

We talked out where to fuck
 
NikeGirl said:
Are you sure she really wants to have sex?
Catholics are usually very strict.
You better talk it out before you go too far.
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I was thinking that too.
Catholicism aside, she just may not be ready after a two year break. She may feel awkward or insecure even. Be patient. It is such a turn off, for me at least, when a guy focuses on the sex so much that everything else gets muted.

With that said, sometimes it's not the physical that will get you laid, it's the mental.
This is just my opinion but it is hot when a guy is calm, cool and plays not really hard to get but like it's not the only thing he wants.
It reminds me of the TLC's Crazy, Sexy, Cool.
It's the confidence, like he's got it all together. Not like a lost, horny little boy, lol.

I don't know. That's just how I feel.

Good luck!
 
Yeah thanks a lot everybody not much left to do but say my prayers and cross my fingers and hope she puts her love in hand-out
 
My mum's a Catholic I can attest that person doesn't know what she's talking about I had a Catholic girl before (Russian) things never got that much out of hand in the bedroom among others...
 
Its prol not a religion issue. If no one has seen her naked for 2 years she would prol not be used to company and it would be weird.

And also silly things like has she shaved her legs or pits etc. Silly things that women can kinda forget about when single then remember when a guy is suddenly around.

Shes just nervous. Relax and dont be all touchy feely. Give her space and dont worry so much.
 
Pretty_Diamonds said:
Help her take off her clothes? Some girls aren't totally comfortable taking off their clothes themselves, I know I'm not and really like it when a guy does it.
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Yeah, and especially if they are self-conscious like that, tell them how sexy/hot/beautiful their body is and specific parts are. But if she's done porn, I doubt she's very shy of being naked, maybe just acting like that(hard to get act). But, like you said she may want to be dominated a lil' bit and is waiting for you to go the horny alpha-male route....but of course you gotta kinda go slow and feel if she's into it, especially if you haven't talked about it beforehand....Also, it may be a sign that she has deeper feelings for you than just sex, and is scared of said intercourse not being good enough and scaring you away(probably irrational, but then
love/sex relationships aren't much about logic or rationale, but chemistry of the mind,body,and soul. Hard to tell without knowing the parties involved..
 
How long have you two been together? Perhaps she's nervous! After two years, I can imagine it would take some time to get back into it and actually feel comfortable.

Is she or isn't she Catholic? The Catholic religion can be so strict. Even if you grew up Catholic and aren't anymore, it can sometimes still get to you. Not that you still believe it. But you still subconsciously think things are "wrong". I don't know. It can happen.
 
That's some deep stuff lama and zephyr I'm almost t her place to be honest I'm so happy to see her that the sex isn't that big of a deal anymore more to find out what she expects from me and maybe to tell her a little bit more about my ulterior motives, time to speak up andmaybe leave a little space for some impromptu romance.

Tu folks great post every single one of them women are really the pinnacle of creation not the cathedrals though to everyone their own
 
NikeGirl said:
Are you sure she really wants to have sex?
Catholics are usually very strict.
You better talk it out before you go too far.
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I grew up in a predominantly Irish Catholic area (90%+ of the population here) and that statement could not be more contradictory to my own experience. I can honestly say that except for shitty TV shows i had never heard anyone say "I am waiting for marriage" until i was 20 and found out that the 18 year old chick i had been making out with half the night was apparently Protestant and doing just that :|
 
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