pokepoke420
Bluelighter
- Joined
- Jun 11, 2012
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- 415
I haven't posted in a while, but I'm alive, so hello to you all.
I met a girl 2 years ago on a dating app who was Temporarily working in the states. It was an instant connection on our first date that led to a year of dating and just fun. She had a great job waiting in her country, had to graduate uni, and she went home to follow her dreams. It wasn't our time. All I could do was admire her strength to leave love to finish something she started.
We tried long distance, and for a few months it was OK, but we lost touch because she worked 16 hour days and I was tired of it. I broke down after 2 months of no contact and finally messaged her - things picked up where they left off. She thought I hated her which is why she didn't try. I deleted her from social media, and she just left it at that. I was being a baby.
I finally opted for a visit after 2 months talking, and when I got there after a full year of not seeing each other, it felt like we saw each other yesterday. We just clicked such as the day we met. We spent a magical 2 weeks together. I've never believed in soul mates, even after 8 years with an X and almost marriage, but this is just effortless and beautiful. We're as similar as we are different. I've never felt this way, and I have a lot of dating experience.
My question is, has anyone else left their lives for a woman? Did it work? I'd be leaving the states for South America. I know, it should be the other way around. I just graduated uni, and I have an incredible career making unbelievable money. Nothing else to me matters though here, and for once in my life, I know someone feels the exact same way I feel. We talk about quitting our jobs and just running away. She's willing to live here as well but I can get a job easier there than she can here. Basically, I just needed some guidance from someone who reads this and relates. Thx for listening. Cheers.
I met a girl 2 years ago on a dating app who was Temporarily working in the states. It was an instant connection on our first date that led to a year of dating and just fun. She had a great job waiting in her country, had to graduate uni, and she went home to follow her dreams. It wasn't our time. All I could do was admire her strength to leave love to finish something she started.
We tried long distance, and for a few months it was OK, but we lost touch because she worked 16 hour days and I was tired of it. I broke down after 2 months of no contact and finally messaged her - things picked up where they left off. She thought I hated her which is why she didn't try. I deleted her from social media, and she just left it at that. I was being a baby.
I finally opted for a visit after 2 months talking, and when I got there after a full year of not seeing each other, it felt like we saw each other yesterday. We just clicked such as the day we met. We spent a magical 2 weeks together. I've never believed in soul mates, even after 8 years with an X and almost marriage, but this is just effortless and beautiful. We're as similar as we are different. I've never felt this way, and I have a lot of dating experience.
My question is, has anyone else left their lives for a woman? Did it work? I'd be leaving the states for South America. I know, it should be the other way around. I just graduated uni, and I have an incredible career making unbelievable money. Nothing else to me matters though here, and for once in my life, I know someone feels the exact same way I feel. We talk about quitting our jobs and just running away. She's willing to live here as well but I can get a job easier there than she can here. Basically, I just needed some guidance from someone who reads this and relates. Thx for listening. Cheers.