PeggyLuXXX
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- Dec 28, 2017
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Hi all.
Me and my Husband are constantly arguing over sex.
I have quite a high sex drive and could easily have sex 2 or 3 times a day but I only get it between every 3 - 5 days.
It’s really frustrating and causing me psychological damage that my Husband doesn’t realise how deep it runs.
It also causes a buildup of pain within my body that my Husband believes I am lying about because I didn’t tell him about straight away.
The reason I didn’t tell him was because I was too ashamed to.
I can’t go on arguing with him forever but I’m at a loss as to what I can do.
All I want to do is connect with him again through sex but it’s treated like a taboo subject and it’s really embarrassing to me how much of a prude he is.
I wish he’d openly discuss the subject instead of telling me to “shush” all the time.
I’m at my wits end and I’m having to pretend that I’m happy when I’m not.
I have tried pretending that everything is OK and that he doesn’t have to worry anymore about it but I do worry about the impact it is having on me which is why we end up arguing over this all the time.
I don’t want to cheat on him and I love him dearly but I’m at a loss as to what to do because he won’t cooperate by say going to the doctor and getting pills that will increase his sex drive (not viagra which doesn’t do anything for sex drive.)
I can’t go on like this but nobody is taking me seriously and I’m being told it is a low priority.
I feel like crying all the time and it is because of sexual frustration, embarrassment, physical pain and non connection to my Husband through sex.
Can anyone help me or give me advice as to what I can do?
Many thanks.
Lin.
Me and my Husband are constantly arguing over sex.
I have quite a high sex drive and could easily have sex 2 or 3 times a day but I only get it between every 3 - 5 days.
It’s really frustrating and causing me psychological damage that my Husband doesn’t realise how deep it runs.
It also causes a buildup of pain within my body that my Husband believes I am lying about because I didn’t tell him about straight away.
The reason I didn’t tell him was because I was too ashamed to.
I can’t go on arguing with him forever but I’m at a loss as to what I can do.
All I want to do is connect with him again through sex but it’s treated like a taboo subject and it’s really embarrassing to me how much of a prude he is.
I wish he’d openly discuss the subject instead of telling me to “shush” all the time.
I’m at my wits end and I’m having to pretend that I’m happy when I’m not.
I have tried pretending that everything is OK and that he doesn’t have to worry anymore about it but I do worry about the impact it is having on me which is why we end up arguing over this all the time.
I don’t want to cheat on him and I love him dearly but I’m at a loss as to what to do because he won’t cooperate by say going to the doctor and getting pills that will increase his sex drive (not viagra which doesn’t do anything for sex drive.)
I can’t go on like this but nobody is taking me seriously and I’m being told it is a low priority.
I feel like crying all the time and it is because of sexual frustration, embarrassment, physical pain and non connection to my Husband through sex.
Can anyone help me or give me advice as to what I can do?
Many thanks.
Lin.