Hey guys, I would like some advice on what to do.
I've recently managed to get clean from heroin and crack, and am looking for a job now. (I've got my first interview on Friday!)
I got with my bf when I was extremely depressed and suicidal. He introduced me to heroin and crack to numb the pain. We've been going out since 2012, and I do love him, despite all the messed up things that have happened.
Now I'm happy, talking, eating, he doesn't seem happy for me, he seems pissed off, but won't say anything. I know he thinks people with jobs "think they're better" than him, as he pan handles to get money to feed his addiction. Another thing: I got him an interview for his "dream job", and offered to drive him there or give him money to get there, and he didn't even bother showing up. :/
I love him, but part of me feels he is dragging me back. (I feel horrible saying this, but for one thing, it's expensive having to fund his habit, feed him and make sure he has gas + electricity so he doesn't pan handle).. :/ Also, it is incredibly hard being next to him when he is using heroin + crack. I feel strong enough at the moment to not use, and sit with him, but if I'm having a bad day, I don't think I could see him and stay clean.
I don't want to hurt him.. breaking up will do that.. what should I do? (At the moment I am not letting myself see him in person, as I don't trust myself to stay clean. This is not a good long term solution considering he isn't serious about getting clean.)
I've recently managed to get clean from heroin and crack, and am looking for a job now. (I've got my first interview on Friday!)
I got with my bf when I was extremely depressed and suicidal. He introduced me to heroin and crack to numb the pain. We've been going out since 2012, and I do love him, despite all the messed up things that have happened.
Now I'm happy, talking, eating, he doesn't seem happy for me, he seems pissed off, but won't say anything. I know he thinks people with jobs "think they're better" than him, as he pan handles to get money to feed his addiction. Another thing: I got him an interview for his "dream job", and offered to drive him there or give him money to get there, and he didn't even bother showing up. :/
I love him, but part of me feels he is dragging me back. (I feel horrible saying this, but for one thing, it's expensive having to fund his habit, feed him and make sure he has gas + electricity so he doesn't pan handle).. :/ Also, it is incredibly hard being next to him when he is using heroin + crack. I feel strong enough at the moment to not use, and sit with him, but if I'm having a bad day, I don't think I could see him and stay clean.
I don't want to hurt him.. breaking up will do that.. what should I do? (At the moment I am not letting myself see him in person, as I don't trust myself to stay clean. This is not a good long term solution considering he isn't serious about getting clean.)