I've been on about 80mg MMT for 4 years on and off after a severe IV Heroin adddiction. My stories way more complicated but thats it in a nutshell, ive tapered down to a 60ish mg dose currently. I am and feel ready in my life to take a plunge into true sobriety, i,e; no opiates. the reason being i want to start a family. I cant seem to find any successfull longterm detox storys from methadone. I suppose my question is, is it worth it ? is it possible to detox and get to a reasonable stable place in my brain and body eventually ? or am i forever going to be stuck in that state of limbo which is post opiates? is it better to taper to a lower dose and simply remain there for life? longest ive been truely opaite free was roughly 100 days between one of my relapses and i simply wasnt ready. Im 30y.o , almost a decade of hard on and off opiate use. is there even a chance of success in this situati0n ? any and all input would be lovely. ill answer any relevant questions.
P.s. sorrry if my grammar or post edicate is off, this is my first post.
Joe Joe From Brooklyn
My history approx six year fairly steady opiate (oral) up to 1000mg/day. Been through a few detox withdrawls that I simply did by ridding my life of any pills and then hitting cold turkey at home on my own. Ive intentionally recently cut my supply source permanently and im on day 12 of stopping dead a 1200mg/day. Is it worth it? Well the longest I went drug free was last summer managed 3 months but didn't cut my supply connections and thought id treat myself for doing so well.......you know the rest.
Honestly that three month period of my life was the happiest I have felt in years. I started going to the gym stopped boozing really turned my life around. The hardest thing for me was obviously the living hell of cold turkey, which I think for methadone will last longer than for shorter acting opiates, but actually after that was the incredible loss of energy and motivation I felt. I found the best way to beat this was engaging in physical activity/exercise which is absolutely the last thing you feel like doing. Slowly your body will begin to produce endogenous neurotransmitters, dopamine & serotonin, sex hormones ect. It will take a while but it will happen and slowly you will return to being a 'normal' human a little better every day.
The benefits? Well you could remain on MMT but if you choose not to...
You will live your life without a chemical crutch and the anxiety and restraint that comes with this
You will FEEL things that you simply don't when on maintainance opiates. The MMT is stopping you getting sick but thats all - bet you've not had an endorphin rush in a while.
You will gain REAL enjoyment from the things in life you enjoy. (Once the ashen wasteland has abated)
You will have motivation to do things to improve your life and other peoples life
Your sex hormones and libido will improve - this may help if considering a family
You will feel proud succeeding where many have failed - this improves your self image
Probably many other benefits but these are the main ones for me - your experience may of course be different.
Some practical tips on detox
1) If you have been tapering your MMT successfully then continue to do this at the rate you have been succeeding with - this may seem obvious. Personally I never had any joy with tapering, I think im a shot to the head rather than a gut wound sort of person - id rather have agony for a short time than prolonged mild symptoms but thats me. If tapering is working for you I would stick with it.
2) Do this before having a family - small children are a challenge during detox and your partner won't thank you for being a completely useless parent for two weeks. Also make sure you have enough time off work especially if you do physical work I would suggest 2 weeks minimum may longer off methadone.
3) Keep up fluids during first week - this is real important as you could dehydrate to the point of renal failure with sweats and GI symptoms. Dehydration is the only real danger of opiate withdrawl. Use electrolyte replacement drinks like for exercise at the gym. Don't worry about food I would eat when you feel like eating. I think I ate on around day 6 or 7.
4) Week 1 will be a physical and mental disaster zone but persevere things will get better. It will help if you have an understanding and caring person to come and see you, bring you drinks, tell you all will be fine ect.
5) The state of limbo you describe I believe to be a mixture of PAWS and real life hitting you in the face. Both will improve with time and hard work. As im sure you know life is a hard game and you'll still have darker days its just that over time your ability to deal with shit will improve.
6) To kill PAWS dead get in the gym, run, chop a two storey log pile, whatever gets you sweating and heart pumping even though you don't feel like it make yourself do it. As I said this is what worked for me and led me into a sub 30 5k only a few months ago
Hope my words help sorry if parts of my story you know already
Good luck