I have a bit of a role reversal problem right now. My wife and I have a falling out each month whenever I don't meet the quota for sex. She turns over in her sleep and won't talk to me for a whole day or two after. It's usually within the time frame of 2-3 weeks of no sex happening.
We just got back from a week and a half of vegas. I'm dead tired and don't feel like meeting anyone's demands right now. It's been 3 weeks, and I'm happy just to cuddle and kiss. I used to think I couldn't handle being in a marriage because of all the dads I hear complaining about lack of sex. My wife was a real prude before we married, and always acted like she didn't need sex, while I was begging her for it. But oh the tables have turned. I just don't see sex, as sexy anymore. I blame that on having my first daughter. Changing diapers, seeing piss and poo, food tossed all over the place, I just don't feel sexy about myself anymore. My wife likes to get in all naughty positions to tempt me, but I've seen everything. It just isn't kinky like it first was. I'll have sex when I'm in the mood. I haven't been in the mood. She doesn't feel the same. She always whines and complains that we're not going at it enough. That we're not like other couples. Pray tell, what are other couples like?
I love my wife dearly and wish to grow old with her. We're in our 30's now and I fear she's hitting her prime years in sex while I'm getting over mines. Sometimes I think I should have married a 30 year old when I was 18. I just don't know how long our relationship will last over this bickering about it. I feel like she's being too immature about it, while she thinks I'm not reciprocating her feelings enough. I really don't want this to tear us apart, so is this something that she'll get over someday? Or should I be looking to get into viagra?
We just got back from a week and a half of vegas. I'm dead tired and don't feel like meeting anyone's demands right now. It's been 3 weeks, and I'm happy just to cuddle and kiss. I used to think I couldn't handle being in a marriage because of all the dads I hear complaining about lack of sex. My wife was a real prude before we married, and always acted like she didn't need sex, while I was begging her for it. But oh the tables have turned. I just don't see sex, as sexy anymore. I blame that on having my first daughter. Changing diapers, seeing piss and poo, food tossed all over the place, I just don't feel sexy about myself anymore. My wife likes to get in all naughty positions to tempt me, but I've seen everything. It just isn't kinky like it first was. I'll have sex when I'm in the mood. I haven't been in the mood. She doesn't feel the same. She always whines and complains that we're not going at it enough. That we're not like other couples. Pray tell, what are other couples like?
I love my wife dearly and wish to grow old with her. We're in our 30's now and I fear she's hitting her prime years in sex while I'm getting over mines. Sometimes I think I should have married a 30 year old when I was 18. I just don't know how long our relationship will last over this bickering about it. I feel like she's being too immature about it, while she thinks I'm not reciprocating her feelings enough. I really don't want this to tear us apart, so is this something that she'll get over someday? Or should I be looking to get into viagra?