i'd be okay not getting PMs from phr, even if they are notifications of infractions. i'll figure it out when it says i'm banned.
i have discussed my differences with phr directly with him before. he has expressed unwillingness to compromise in any way whatsoever. in fact, he's expressed genuine disdain for me, and said that he will go out of his way to try to infract me. its the reason why i barely ever post in the lounge anymore.
and the few times i do show up in the lounge (always headed to a specific thread to talk to a specific person -- like today when i wanted to talk to papasomni) he just starts spamming dawson-crying.jpg at me over and over.
it was a little funny when you did it, ali, because you actually saved it for good occasions and it was at least original. he just posts it to be annoying -- intentional annoyances being the lowest form of humor. and he uses a version of it that is about 1.5x larger than the version you used, making it that much more difficult to just scroll past.
btw/fwiw -- i realize i'm likely the only or one of the only bluelighters that has complaints to make about phr. that's because he has a personal vendetta against me and goes out of his way to make my visits to the lounge shitty. its not funny, its not cute, its just pathetic.