@ rocknrollller ITS NOT PEE , its people making uneducated statements like that , that end up hurting people on both sides of the gender line. Men think its gross and yuck she peed on me Woman then think there is something wrong with them and it really can not be further from the truth in any way shape or form.
DISCLAIMER: if you are a troll just drop it, my intention is simply educational.
The physiology, health, anatomy and the basic "how to" behind a G-spot orgasm AKA a squirting orgasm AKA a female ejaculation.
Basics:
There is a gland directly between the wall of the uterus and under and around a woman's urethra (which lies under the bladder) that is described in medical anatomy and histology textbooks as the female version of the prostate glad, better known as the urethral sponge. The urethral sponge is engorged during sexual arousal, becomes filled with seminal fluid much like the male prostate and "IS THE G-SPOT" in a woman. This fluid provides the following: a nutrient rich source to maintain the health of sperm, lubrication of the vagina during intercourse and also reduces the hostile, acidic environment of the vagina by creating a more alkaline (basic) fluid for the sperm to swim in. Remember, the vagina is a very hostile environment and needs to be, to keep out unwanted invaders, bacteria, yeast and so on. You can think of this glad as a maker of fluid, which helps sperm swim upstream and score the almighty pregnancy touchdown by supplying them with lots of refreshing Gatorade on their one time adventure!!!
(For all you trolls: This gland has not been categorized histologically or embryologically separate from the Skene glands though that correlation is of some confusion and there are alternating thoughts about this in the medical community. Both are formed from the same tissues as the male prostate during fetal development but are female equivalents and separated during embrylogical development. So are the Bartholin Glands, which are in a slightly different area and help to create more of the same confusion)
If you can stimulate the urethral sponge properly you will create a G-spot orgasm better known as a squirting orgasm. This is what happens:
The glad swells with fluid during arousal. The G-spot is directly stimulated usually along with the clitoris until a violent contraction of the pelvic floor occurs at the pinnacle of an orgasm. With this contraction, the pelvic floor muscles quite literally squeeze the fluid from this gland. (almost the exact the same process with men and one that can be enhanced by anal stimulation of the male prostate gland) If a woman can relax her external urethral sphincter (pee hole opening muscle) during this climax, she will SHOOT and GUSH this fluid all over the place!!!! The female version of an ejaculation AKA money shot!!!
THE FLUID IS NOT URINE! Though some urine may be mixed in as it shares a common tube with the bladder; the urethra. Remember the female prostate-like gland wraps around the urethra and dumps it's fluid directly into this tube. This is a common misconception (it being urine) and was a medical mystery until just recently. There are some amazing posts I found in another Fetlife, squirting article which references medical journals on histology and composition of the fluid and tissue. Please thank @Jinxxx for posting these amazing articles which completely, by the way,backs up this entire post.
You can reference that post here:
https://fetlife.com/groups/442/group_posts/567453
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This part is really more important and what I want to get across to everyone: I've simply posted what I know about anatomy and physiology and combined that with how to get a girl to not only have a female ejaculation, but also how to improve her health and do it more frequently with greater intensity.
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In order to create a G-spot orgasm a few things usually help. First, the health of the pelvic floor. If a woman has a strong pelvic floor,one which is rather stable and conditioned physically, like an athlete, she can GUSH much much further! Secondly is experience, the more you have them the bigger and better they become! Third: work her up and foreplay is HUGE here as the more aroused she is, the larger the squirt. Lastly is knowing how to give a woman this type of orgasm. Anyone can do it with practice and a few very basic and easy to learn skills! (sry I'm hetero and writing this from my perspective so please don't be offended if I do not get sexual orientation correct or if I arbitrarily step on your ego. I swear my intention is purely educational.)
Physically fit?
A woman can increase the stability of her pelvic floor by exerising the PC or pubococcygeous muscle. This muscle is responsible for many things in women and when strong can prevent things like incontinence, uterine prolapse, easier childbirth, low back pain (part of the core muscles) and make sex and orgasms much (MUCH) more intense for a woman. It can be stretched and damaged during normal vaginal delivery of a child and is always recommended to be rehabbed post delivery. To strengthen it a woman can do Kegal exercises, which can also be assisted with the use of Ben Wah balls.
I suggest weighted ones with interchangeable weights and a silicone sling. You insert one ball into the vagina and do the exercise. Start small and work up in weight and number of balls used. I would not recommend using Ben Wah balls after you've delivered a child or if you have never done a Kegal before. Start with simple Kegal contractions first. Once you are more fit, move on to using the balls. You can find more on how to do Kegal exercises through Google.
Using Ben Wah balls are the equivalent of doing weighted bicep curls for the vag!
Hydration and prep:
She needs to be well hydrated, void (go pee) before doing this to avoid being urinated on (unless that's your thing) and very well lubed (unless there is a copious amount of saliva or she is naturally just wet).
Skills:
Secondly is getting the job done! You have to warm her up and get that gland filled. The longer you can give her foreplay, the more you can get her excited and the more engorged with fluid that glad gets, the more she will squirt!!! Don't just attack it like GRRR baby gimme that G-spot!! Work it slowly until she is really excited! Once that happens then a good vibrator with a G-spot stimulator, your partners penis, (positioning here is very important) or direct stimulation of the G-spot with fingers is how you will get things Gushing!
Basically FIRM (not hard, definitely not soft) pressure needs to be applied directly to the G-spot once it is engorged and until she climaxes for a woman to squirt! There are a lot of techniques here, google time!
How to find it:
Again, the G-spot is on the inner wall of the vagina just underneath the female prostate glad (which is under the urethra and under the bladder). You will know you are touching it as it feels much different than the rest of the walls of the vagina. I think it feels kind of rough, with soft ridges and kind of rubbery, squishy end feeling. I haven't really found anything else similar to how it feels; its just different!
It is around the size of a quarter, about 2 inches in and up from the vaginal opening (towards your belly button). I insert two fingers, palm up, woman on her back and make a "come here" motion with them and ALWAYS find it. As it swells it can noticeably get bigger and if stimulated properly, will make a woman feel like she has to urinate... You'll know your on it because she will say something like, "I've never felt that before, or "OMG there is that spot again," or "I have to pee!" ... This is normal by the way because of this spots relation to the female prostate gland, urethra and bladder... Just Go with it!
Relaxing:
Stimulating this spot until orgasm creates the fountain effect so long as you are comfortable enough to also relax the external urethral shincter at climax (that muscle that stops you from peeing, gotta relax here). There are a lot of psychological aspects regarding ease and comfort with your partner during this. If you can't do it at first, keep trying. EVERY woman can do this, not all will enjoy it! Some women Gush right away, others take some patience and practice. Remember, we have all been coached our entire lives to NEVER wet ourselves, this breaks all traditions and can be a bit of a hurdle for some people. Be kind and patient with your partner. This is a very intimate thing and can be ruined for some people by poor interaction.
Basic position during intercourse:
I will say this, I put two pillows under my partners supine butt, raise her legs so her knees are against her chest and thrust in towards her G-spot until she has an orgasm... It's a hot sexy mess!!!! Using fingers and toys works well too. Just depends on what she wants.... Also, u can stimulate the G-spot through the anus...
Overview:
So strengthening the pelvic floor allows a woman to have stronger contractions during an orgasm creating a stronger contraction of the female prostate gland which directly leads to more squirting and more intense orgasms.... Sounds good right? This is universal for all women regardless of wanting to squirt or not. A woman has the ability to exercise her orgasms into a most incredible, body shaking, mind blowing experience.. With some diligence, a few cheap toys and a good partner, this is the best orgasm you will ever give a woman. I HIGHLY recommend Kegal exercises because of their amazing health benefits and their amazing SEXUAL benefits. It's a win win for everyone invloved.
For Men especially:
Look guys, besides squirting orgasms being just amazing, kegal exercises with Ben Wah Balls makes our sex life better. It helps her stregthen the pelvic floor. In English this means she can also consciously contract the vaginal opening and canal. If you have ever had a woman squeze your manhood from the inside, it is an extremely nice bonus.
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A female ejaculation: fluid is secreted from the female urethral sponge into the urethra from a contraction of the pelvic floor during an orgasm and forcefully exits the urethra as ejaculate.
A peeing orgasm is something different. It can range from blow by of urine due to weakness of the internal urethral sphincter, incontinence, poor autonomic contraction of that sphincter, too much pressure or the ability to consciously evacuate urine (which seems more like pressure over physiology) among other things. It cannot be considered ejaculation though as most of the fluid is urine from the bladder whereas ejaculation predisposes contraction of the female prostate and the evacuation of seminal fluid. HOWEVER, I am sure there are instances where both occur at the same time, one, more than the other or in varying amounts.
Just know a distinction can be made between the two and is probably the greater debate on what constitutes a squirting orgasm.
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I hope it helps and you blow your top!!
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