I'm not sure what I'm hoping to get out of this post. I just don't have any friends anymore. The past years with my girlfriend have sucked the life out of me. so I lost all my social contacts or they moved years ago. Now I'm in a place where I don't have a job, I just get sporadic work but I can't seem to ever get ahead. So I can't just move out of the house we live in together, I couldn't even afford the security deposit or account for my income.
I love her, I really do. But she treats me like I'm worthless. Tonight she told me that a friend of hers "has his shit together way more than me" because he has a car, even though he lives at his parents still as an adult. I support myself and pay all my own bills, and I'm saving up to buy a car right now. It doesn't even make sense. But she decided to yell at me and tell me she doesn't want to be together anymore, then she locked me out of our bedroom and put a chair against the door. She constantly tells me she doesn't want me anymore, then the next day acts like it never happened and if I bring up that I'm sad, she'll just treat me like garbage.
I got as fucked up as possible and laid on the couch and just couldn't sleep. so I went to knock on her door at 5 am, crying and telling her I was feeling suicidal and want to end it all right now and I need her help, just to let me lay in bed silently and be close to another human being, and she told me to fuck off.
Just earlier today she said she really wants to stay together and be my lover, and said she cares deeply about me. I don't get it?
I've become so stressed out that I have one of the worst polydrug addictions I've ever had before at this point. I can't stop doing drugs when I'm in this environment, but I can't figure out how to get out of this environment without becoming homeless. I don't want to get addicted to benzos again and god knows what a year of daily mxe use is doing to my body. I'm already back to drinking 3-9 beers every night, I had stopped drinking a month or two ago. Shit, here I am at 6 in the morning drinking a beer because I had a panic attack literally all night trying to lay on the couch and sleep.
If anyone actually read this, thank you. I just don't know who to talk to anymore. She doesn't give a shit about me and I have no friends that care enough to listen to my problems. I don't even know what I'm asking for. Advice I guess?
I just want to be happy. Everytime I pick myself up to make positive changes, she's there to attack my self esteem and tell me she thinks I'm a worthless drugged out loser. Even though she's the one doing nothing with her life, I have so many goals and projects and I'm completing them when she's not bringing me down to hell.
I spend all my time trying to encourage her to be happy because she's suicidally depressed, I find counselors who will talk to her for free but she refuses to go, I cook her meals and take care of her responsibilities and always listen to her, I'm always there for her, I just don't get how she can ignore and actually be malicious towards someone who cares so much.
I love her, I really do. But she treats me like I'm worthless. Tonight she told me that a friend of hers "has his shit together way more than me" because he has a car, even though he lives at his parents still as an adult. I support myself and pay all my own bills, and I'm saving up to buy a car right now. It doesn't even make sense. But she decided to yell at me and tell me she doesn't want to be together anymore, then she locked me out of our bedroom and put a chair against the door. She constantly tells me she doesn't want me anymore, then the next day acts like it never happened and if I bring up that I'm sad, she'll just treat me like garbage.
I got as fucked up as possible and laid on the couch and just couldn't sleep. so I went to knock on her door at 5 am, crying and telling her I was feeling suicidal and want to end it all right now and I need her help, just to let me lay in bed silently and be close to another human being, and she told me to fuck off.
Just earlier today she said she really wants to stay together and be my lover, and said she cares deeply about me. I don't get it?
I've become so stressed out that I have one of the worst polydrug addictions I've ever had before at this point. I can't stop doing drugs when I'm in this environment, but I can't figure out how to get out of this environment without becoming homeless. I don't want to get addicted to benzos again and god knows what a year of daily mxe use is doing to my body. I'm already back to drinking 3-9 beers every night, I had stopped drinking a month or two ago. Shit, here I am at 6 in the morning drinking a beer because I had a panic attack literally all night trying to lay on the couch and sleep.
If anyone actually read this, thank you. I just don't know who to talk to anymore. She doesn't give a shit about me and I have no friends that care enough to listen to my problems. I don't even know what I'm asking for. Advice I guess?
I just want to be happy. Everytime I pick myself up to make positive changes, she's there to attack my self esteem and tell me she thinks I'm a worthless drugged out loser. Even though she's the one doing nothing with her life, I have so many goals and projects and I'm completing them when she's not bringing me down to hell.
I spend all my time trying to encourage her to be happy because she's suicidally depressed, I find counselors who will talk to her for free but she refuses to go, I cook her meals and take care of her responsibilities and always listen to her, I'm always there for her, I just don't get how she can ignore and actually be malicious towards someone who cares so much.