This is so honest. I've always wanted love. I realize that four letter word is to powerful for children to use or understand. I had a lot of emotional immaturity. Developing my trust in myself will help me navigate all those love emotions in a healthy way. I truly believe it will not be as hard to sustain it when the work is done in advance. I never paused in between relationships or did work on me. I spent a lot of time blaming the other person, holding on to anger, and wanting people on my side. My fear of what may or may not happen in the future kept me terrified to love in the moment. I would even become antagonistic to my partner to test which is so unhealthy. For me I tried to love when I was incapable of loving myself, anyone else, and I chose partners that I knew were not healthy themselves (very codependent). I didn't feel I deserved love. How could I possibly sustain what I never had in the beginning? I had to address me a lot to understand, to make changes, to not ignore red flags, and to not blame others. Love is on the horizon, it's beautiful, and I absolutely will want to stay there without fear, with or without someone else. That is what true love is sustained by, self love.